How do you flirt (in a way that works)?

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BlackHat

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Confidence

Humour

More Confidence

and random compliments that they know arn't true but they like em anyway

thus is the balck hat formular

this will get you any woman you want

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Jaccklesby

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Go up to them, poke them with your mouse clicking claw and ask what level their night elf is.
Girls love that.

Have fun. :)
 
Evilbunny

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dwightsteel said:
Ugh, well first, yeah, you can't be a wussy. The biggest step in picking up a girl is actually going and talking to the girl. That seems to be where most people fall short. Lose your inadequacy issues. If you think you're not good enough for her, she'll probably feel the same way. NO pick up lines are going to work, even in the capacity of being funny, because, unless she feels sorry for you, the fact that you are using something you rehearsed is an immediate turn off. A simple "Hi," is always a good conversation starter. If she gives you a funny look, you've pretty much already lost the battle. Small talk yourself out of that conversation and start a new. What most people don't tell you is you're gonna probably get rejected...a lot. Thats ok. Thats part of the game. Don't get discouraged and start over. Get her talking about herself. It's not a vanity thing, it just shows you're "genuinely interested" in her, even if you're not. If she's warming up to you, and you're in a bar or a club, buy her a drink and see where it goes. If you're in someplace more public, then remember this line "first to start and first to end." Too much small talk and she'll just get bored. While the conversation is getting good, say "Listen, I'm sorry, but I have an appointment to make, but I'd really like to continue this some time. You mind if I grab your number?" If she says yes, awesome. If she says no? Start again. Good flirting takes time. What I've said is not THE way to get chicks, it's just my way. It's how I've managed to get by over the years. As you get better, you'll find yourself becoming wittier, you'll find them laughing more, and it gets easier from there.
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This is good advice. Listen to this man.
 
MiracleOfSound

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Listen carefully!

Smile when you walk into a room. Look like you are happy in your own skin and to be you.

Be confident, or at least appear to.

DO NOT STARE AT HER FROM ACROSS THE ROOM.

Don't be afriad to gently slag her, girls have just as good sense of humour as guys, even the good looking ones, If she doesn't why bother chatting to her.

Believe you are her equal no matter how hot she is. Never give better looking girls special treatment.

Be equally as friendly to ugly girls as hot ones.

Make friends with her friends (including guys) and talk to them as much as you do her so you don't come across creepy. If they approve so will she.

Just be normal and don't use lines.

Have fun and just relax.

Do not be afraid of rejection, it happens us all. Move on and learn from your mistakes.

These might sound obvious or stupid but belive me it all works.
 
Nmil-ek

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Hey how are you doing, like a drink?

After nearly dying from underconfidence.
 
TheMatt

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crazyhaircut94 said:
Any tips on how to pick up girls? I'm horrible at flirting. Don't have any problems talking to girls in common, just don't have any good lines and stuff.

EDIT: If it helps to know what I look like, I've got the same look as the singer from Hellacopters. Long hair, cool hat, and leather jacket.

http://www.infoblogg.no/wp-content/uploads/THellacopters-promo-MJ-0202.jpg (guy in the middle)
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It's all about confidence, dude. That's it. Go ahead and be arrogant as long as you can make it clear that you're joking.

i.e. "Yup, you are definitely pretty enough to be my girl friend. The question is, am I charming enough for yah? er... wait, that wasn't charming at all was it?, that was cocky, sorry.... Anyway, My name is Matt, what's yours?"

I've used that EXACT line a bunch of times. Doesn;t always work.. I'm probably running a 3/4 spread.

Anyway, gl. The important thing is not to be discouraged. If she doesn't like you, she's probably a big ole'dyke. So it's not your fault.
 
Flying Dagger

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this:

http://www.zilefile.com/files/190_w9jsa/chances%20-%20dont%20be%20a%20pussy.%20this%20guy%20seems%20legit.jpg

and

http://www.media.ebaumsworld.com/picture/methud/just-kidding-theres-no-candy-jailba.jpg
 
kezla

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Don't ask advice on the internet is pretty good advice!

Really, it depends on the girl.

Im female and read some of these replies and think, that wouldnt work on me, others totally would, although flirting is different to picking up girls, to me anyways.

I think confidence and a sense of humour are general winners, the rest is individual depending on the person, if all else fails, most people like talking about themselves so ask a couple of questions about what they do/interests. And be honest thats a big one personally.

Most of all smile :) Good luck, Im newly single and the thought of dating scares me too!
 
ragestreet

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"Are you from heaven? Because I have an erection."
"Are you a lumberjack? Because I've got wood."
"Is that milk on your face or is that just me?"
 
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