How do you flirt (in a way that works)?

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Bat Vader

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Wish I could help but I have never had a girlfriend. In my observations I have noticed that pick up lines do not work that well. I say treat a woman right. Let her know you care for her and hopefully she will begin to like you as more than a friend.

If not, well you gave it your best.
 

pffh

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Just being confident and generally interested in what the woman in question is talking about works for me. And faking interest/knowledge in almost any subject during bar/party conversation is fairly easy.
 

super_smash_jesus

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I am a rather arrogant person, but it seems to work. Just be funny, and act like a slight prick, for some reason women pay more attention. Enjoy the advice, also, it helps if you don't look like a bum, so dress nice, and be clean.
 

veloper

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Nothing works. It's all about who you are.

If the odds are stacked in his favor (the right friends, looks, charm, money) a guy doesn't need to make an effort to get a girl.
 

Flying Dagger

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Geek@Heart said:
vamp rocks said:
THIS!!!

lol best pickup line ever!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KDwZsaWb6pY
No, that's one of the worst. Any guy who did that to me would get a kicking.

Pickup lines don't work. They just make you look stupid.

As for advice on getting girls, don't ask me, I'm straight....
thats nowhere near as good as the "do you like magic" line. but i can't find a video of it...
 

Leftnt Sharpe

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Different situations call for different techniques. It has been said that I have the pensive brooding routine down quite well though.
 

Simriel

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Be confident, flirting will happen if it is gonna happen, don't try to force it.
 

Clirck

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Hey girl wanna play ?
Now I showed you how thing don't work.
Everything else should work .D
 

TheEvilDuck

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Go up and yell "FAT PENGUIN!" and then say "just needed something to break the ice!"

JUST KIDDING!

Okay, honestly though, I like a guy who's honest about himself and his nerdy-nerdy tendencies. You don't have to tel a chick she's hot. Seriously, if you do that wrong it's more off-putting than anything else. Find a common interest talk about that. Ask her about herself, be friendly, have fun, be yourself.
 

Davey Woo

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Sarcasm, minor violence, (e.g. poking etc) wit.

overall though just let them know you're interested, but don't be clingy
 

Umwerfer

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Hell if I know^^ Two options; either hope that true love exists, e.g. that everyone has little or no choice in the matter or ask "I was just wondering where you're going?"
p.s. If you recognised the last phrase/reference, it means you've read a book, which means you're pretty much doomed when it comes to girls anyway. Those of you who didn't recognise it, go read the book and join us; the legion of the damned :eek:
 

mega48man

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well, in theory, you COULD be a wussy. one doesn't always need to be that friendly romantic confident stud (but does help a friggin lot). you could take the sweet guy approach. she'll think your sweet, cute, and caring, then BOOM, it's like she's all over you because you make her feel a certain way when she's around you. then there's the "I own an entire corporation/thing and i'm totally stinking rich" approach. unfortuneatly, i think the only girls that fall for that are jerks, probably a no go. and lastly, and probably the best approach "the good looking super freaking hilarious guy". go read a ton of books or magazines or something (reading a ton is like steroids for your brain) make sure you look sharp, and keep a good witty quick sense of humor, chicks like it when they laugh (who doesn't?) anyway, GL, it'll take sometime to actually pick up some chicks though, don't expect this to work right off the bat tomorrow. and yeah, be confident.