another pickup line from that show is: Do you like...magic (fireball shoots from sleeve)vamp rocks said:
How do you flirt (in a way that works)?
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Look for a common point to talk about, if its a bar talk about the music whatever it is as long as it is in no way relationship based. Having said that the easiest time to talk to a girl is when they are trying very hard not to laugh at your friend being very much out of his depth with her friend.
Whats with all the treads about flirting and gf/ b/fs?
crazyhaircut94, if you wanna get a girl flirting and being confident and yourself is all great. Thats all really important. That said the most important thing is the numbers game! Simply, the more girls you chat/flirt with the more chance you have of getting a kiss. Be cool though, aim low to start with. Say, for every 20 girls yot chat with for more then 5mins only, say, one is probley gonna kiss you. Just remember, stay loose.
crazyhaircut94, if you wanna get a girl flirting and being confident and yourself is all great. Thats all really important. That said the most important thing is the numbers game! Simply, the more girls you chat/flirt with the more chance you have of getting a kiss. Be cool though, aim low to start with. Say, for every 20 girls yot chat with for more then 5mins only, say, one is probley gonna kiss you. Just remember, stay loose.
Two words: Jazz hands! Never fails. Give 'em the ol' jazz hands and they will be swooning over you like a fat kid to a stick of butter.
If you're looking for sex, lots of bars where there's lots of booze and horny women. No line neccessary, but the more money you have, the better chick you can get. Lying also helps.
If you're looking for love, just be yourself, go to the places you enjoy going to, and mingle. The more people you meet, the bigger chance you have of finding that right person for you. Still, no line neccessary, just don't lie. It only hurts.
If you're looking for love, just be yourself, go to the places you enjoy going to, and mingle. The more people you meet, the bigger chance you have of finding that right person for you. Still, no line neccessary, just don't lie. It only hurts.
Get rid of the hat. I say that in the nicest way possible. And as long as you don't act creepy or like some sort of sex-fiend and have confidence and make a girl laugh, you'll be sound.crazyhaircut94 said:
Sorry, I don't go for that hat, the leather jacket is too small and looks cheap. The badges are a complete no-no. Otherwise attractive.crazyhaircut94 said:
Ok. Flirting...
Don't use any chat up lines ever. You'll just come across as a wannabe sex-pest. You will find that the following will suffice depending on your particular region:
"Hi" - if you are American.
"Hello" - if you are English (Note: this is a winner if you are talking to most American women... cue: "Gee, I lurve yer kewl aks-cent!!"
"Hey" - if you are Australian or are genuinely a surfer dude... don't bother using it if in reality you are just a stoner except on another stoner.
First get yourself into their non-immediate personal space. This is about double the distance you would feel comfortable having a burly gay man standing next to you. In other words respect her personal space. Unfortunately it is hard to give a precise distance because people accept reduced personal space depending on circumstances - i.e. a wood > a street > a beach > a bar > a party > a disco > a rave > a mosh-pit > a carriage on the Tokyo underground railway during rush-hour (by the way it is probably better to not try to get off with a girl in such a circumstance as everyone is really just concentrating hard on tolerating each others body odor). Don't get close like you are on a mission, but don't leave it too long before you speak as you will just come off as a weirdo.
Second, let her get a good look at you, 20-30 seconds should be enough. Use your peripheral vision to see if she is aware you are there before you speak (there is nothing worse than having some strange disembodied voice say something close behind you, unless it is "Excuse me" and you simply want to get close to the bar and nothing more), note that girls are better at this than men (i.e. are more social) and will not 'tip their hand' at all by making eye-contact with you. Oh, how much simpler life would be if girls mentally undressed men, but that is not the case (at least with the girls you should try to date).
Third, make a point of looking at her face for a few seconds whilst angling your body towards her. If done correctly she will pick up on this with her highly-developed peripheral vision. Convey a sense of relaxation about yourself along with good posture, leave grinning to the experts as this can be misinterpreted as you finding something funny about her appearance, or foreshadowing some stupid pick-up line.
Rarely, she will reciprocate, even smile (demure is good) and at this point it is fantastic if she speaks first - although, this is not a green light to sex (as some men assume); merely a constructive step along a road of mutually respectful, romantic, friendship... then sex, alright?
The next time she looks your way, or turns in your direction (her eyes may still be avoiding contact... this is a classic "mixed signal") you may say Hi/Hello/Hey (take your pick, or localize for your country's language if you are not an English speaker) and then wait for her to respond.
Now. I can't outline all the various choices and counter-responses to cover everything she may say to you, what you may then say back, what that response says about your intentions and what her next response may be (if any...) as the "dialogue tree" is just to large and I'm not going on this impromptu 'date', you are (hopefully). Just keep your cool (i.e. don't show anxiety, naivety, or over-compensate for shyness by being brash), understand that people who try to be 'cool' aren't (see: "man in the hat" in your picture - he's made the wrong hat choice there and it looks too small... what is he in anyway? A ska band? There is a language of clothes, at least present a coherent message), appreciate it is up to other people to confer 'labels' on you like 'cool', 'l33t', or 'hacker'. However, don't be in a massive rush to "buy her a drink", talk first, that way it won't look (so much) like a pre-meditated "mission" to get her drunk, insensible and open to freaky sex.
cabooze said:
hahaha i love that!!
Barney: do you like magic?
Girl: umm... i guess
*barney pulls a strip from his hand so it flashes like a sparkler* on his hand is the words "umm i guess" written in a marker*
Girl: Oh my god!!!
*Barney then pulls a strip from his other hand revealing the words "Oh my god"
lol was funny as hell to watch...
lol i want to learn magic...
This is true, but there are all sort of webs one can weave and lures to dangle. It can be hellishly fun to play with people in such a way, especially when they know you're manipulating them and can do their best to return the favour. A fun time is had all around. There might even be sex in it.NewClassic said: