how do you handle depression?

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niblik

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seydaman said:
well, im really depressed, and i don't know what to do. can someone help me?
Seriously? I do have some suggestions.

1. Become more physically active. Go to the gym, get outside, go for walks/jobs. Chop wood, etc. I know that it may sound silly to some, but you would be surprised at how well this works.
Our bodies are designed for motion and movement. Sitting inside while depressed is one of the worst things you can do.

2. Spend time with friends. When you are depressed its all to easy to withdraw and lose the friends you've had for years. As much as possible, don't unload your angst on your friends too much; you can also drive them away from being down too much.

3. Get consuling. Many folks scoff at seeing a shrink but if you get the right one, its amazing how much they can help. One of the worst effects of depression is that it messes with your perceptions and how you process your thoughts and feelings. A good therapist brings perspective, and that's critical.

Best of luck, depression can be a very tough obstacle to deal with. Take it one day at a time.
 

wewontdie11

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To quote the fountain of wisdom that is Peter Griffon "Come on guys lets go drink till we can't feel feelings."

Or if you'd prefer an actual way of dealing with your depression rather than avoiding it, I'd just advise talking to somebody in person about what is bothering you. They don't have to give you advice or anything but just getting something off your chest makes you feel much better most of the time.

Failing this buy a puppy.
 

NonMagicPoet

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Any of the following;
-sleep
-watch a movie/show online
-eat something
-take a bath
-snuggle with my boyfriend
-scream

Kinda funny when I do them all at once.
 

Lazzi

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NonMagicPoet said:
Any of the following;
-sleep
-watch a movie/show online
-eat something
-take a bath
-snuggle with my boyfriend
-scream

Kinda funny when I do them all at once.
you can eat and scream at the ame time?!?!

you must teach me to do this
 

TehCookie

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anti-depressants, they can make someone who wasn't smiled in years laugh... it was creepy
 

NonMagicPoet

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Lazzi said:
NonMagicPoet said:
Any of the following;
-sleep
-watch a movie/show online
-eat something
-take a bath
-snuggle with my boyfriend
-scream

Kinda funny when I do them all at once.
you can eat and scream at the ame time?!?!

you must teach me to do this
It's deep magic.
 

mark_n_b

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windfish said:
I take lots of naps, and talk to friends. It works a little. Still waiting for it to go away.
Sleeping like that is actually more of a symptom of depression than a potential solution. As is eating (even comfort food) I generally say avoid falling into traps like that).

The trick is to do things to get away from depressive triggers. For me it is doing something productive, Making a video game, doing an animation, I'm working on a book right now to act as a text for a class I'm teaching in a couple of weeks.

Some people enjoy listening to music, some people work out (which results in endorphin production which makes you happier), some people play video games (I do sometimes but too much game-play makes me feel guilty for wasting time). If you feel lonely, I always recommend joining a club (going to school? Extracurricular activities abound).

If you are hanging out with people that make you feel depressed, drop them, find new friends (it's one of the hardest things to do) Some people need a little help and that's what anti-depressant medication and counseling is about. The trick is not to become dependent on solutions like that.

And realize everyone feels down from time to time, it's natural. Realize why you're feeling depressed and figure out what makes you feel better or at least keeps you from focussing on those things that depress you.
 

TMAN10112

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Donate to a charity, preferably one with a really depressing commercial, that always make me feel better.
 

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when im depressed i um... well i generally just sit in bed. or a convenient chair. OH! i also mope and eat any nearby snack food.
 

GunslingerUK

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I am going to say this in the most medical way i know, Smoke herbs and do it with your friends.

Get high and have a laugh, you will eventually feel better about what ever your depressed with.
 

UJUSTGOTWACKED

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I usualy end up snaping and hitting walls that kinda works because i forget about being depressed and think about my broken fingers
 

GunslingerUK

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I like my idea better, less pain involved...........WAIT! only think wrong with my idea you must be able to get some or someone who deals.
 

Alvandera

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NonMagicPoet said:
Lazzi said:
NonMagicPoet said:
Any of the following;
-sleep
-watch a movie/show online
-eat something
-take a bath
-snuggle with my boyfriend
-scream

Kinda funny when I do them all at once.
you can eat and scream at the ame time?!?!

you must teach me to do this
It's deep magic.
Even greater, you can sleep, while watching something, and be screaming and eatting at the same time.. =o...