Well i just had my 21st, and it was the first time in a few years that I actually spent the day doing stuff with other people. Usually I like to get myself a cigar and just chill out by myself without anyone else around for most of the day. Then my family usually goes to dinner somewhere. This year since only my mom and myself were at home, the rest of my family was in North Carolina, and because i turned 21 her and I spent the day going to our favorite bookstore (stocked up on the series I'm currently reading "Wheel of Time" by Robert Jordan, and then we went to a casino and did my first legal gambling and drinking, It was fun and all, but I prefer solitude on my birthdays.