How much effort do you put into being "normal"?

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DanDeFool

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And by that I mean, how much effort do you put into covering up your little idiosyncrasies and personality quirks to fit in with your peers, not get funny looks at the grocery store, get along with your parents, etc.

For me, a big one is talking to myself. Not like a schizophrenic talks to themselves, like there's another person inside their head (though the association with mental illness seems to be why it's such a cultural taboo). Most of the time, I'm either trying to work through some problem in my head and talking myself through it, or I'm imagining myself in some type of social situation and rehearsing what I would say out loud. Sometimes, it's just muttering a song to myself while I'm running errands. I try to avoid doing it as much as possible, but sometimes I wonder if more people don't do it when they think nobody's looking.
 

the spud

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Wow, that talking aloud thing is pretty much me.

OT: Absolutely no effort whatsoever. I actually try my best not to fit in. Who in their right mind would want to become one with the herd? Wouldn't you want to be your own, unique person?
 

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the spud said:
Wow, that talking aloud thing is pretty much me.

OT: Absolutely no effort whatsoever. I actually try my best not to fit in. Who in their right mind would want to become one with the herd? Wouldn't you want to be your own, unique person?
I've gotta agree with this. I mean, I'm not going to wear clown shoes and a sombrero just to not fit in or anything, but I don't want to be normal either. I've heard some of the conversations normal people have. What I heard was "Oooh this person did this, and that person likes this person and this famous person did this thing" It's pretty damn boring.
 

Joccaren

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None. Being normal seems boring to me. Love being me instead - so much more fun and I don't have to try to seem interested in crap I couldn't care less about, like the AFL down here in Aus.
 

Tortilla the Hun

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Well, iyou and I share quirks, but that one I don't try to hide 'cause it seems pretty normal to me.

Now, as for my other quirk...well...I practically tear my hair out when I argue with myself that I must wear pants in public. I sometimes do rip tuft of my own hair out when I try my hardest not to wear my underwear over my pants.

(Hopefully you all realise I was kidding about latter paragraph.)

EDIT: I never said it was the hair on my head I was ripping out, mind you.
 

the spud

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R3VOLU7ION said:
the spud said:
Wow, that talking aloud thing is pretty much me.

OT: Absolutely no effort whatsoever. I actually try my best not to fit in. Who in their right mind would want to become one with the herd? Wouldn't you want to be your own, unique person?
I've gotta agree with this. I mean, I'm not going to wear clown shoes and a sombrero just to not fit in or anything, but I don't want to be normal either. I've heard some of the conversations normal people have. What I heard was "Oooh this person did this, and that person likes this person and this famous person did this thing" It's pretty damn boring.
I know right? No one who puts much effort into being normal ever has anything interesting to say.

Also, welcome to The Escapist, stay out of the basement. Also, those organs in the fridge are very realistic left-over Halloween props.
 

Vanorae

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I think of myself as eccentric, but not that different that I don't fit in anywhere. Honestly, I like it the way it is now. If I would be 'normal' and fit in absolutely everywhere I feel like I would lose my own identity.
 

NeutralDrow

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Not a whole lot, but mostly because I don't have to. I talk with others too rarely to make it necessary most of the time.
 

Ham_authority95

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Not much intentionally, though I'm sure that from a distance I seem like "that douche in that one clique." You know, like how everyone is viewed by others.

Regardless, if I suddenly put away all my quirks, harmless flaws, tastes, and sense of humour, my friends and family would probably like me a lot less. I wouldn't make new friends either because people can sense when you're faking it.
 

Drummie666

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Practically none. Hell, I recently, during a conversation with someone I don't really know, IE, it was a social, making friends type conversation, I said that I don't like being social. Yeah, that conversation effectively ended with that statement.
 

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the spud said:
Wow, that talking aloud thing is pretty much me.

OT: Absolutely no effort whatsoever. I actually try my best not to fit in. Who in their right mind would want to become one with the herd? Wouldn't you want to be your own, unique person?
Yes, lets all start using linux and wear glassless glasses and listen to radiohead. That will make us cool.

OT: I talk to myself a lot when I am working through a tough problem.
 

Vault101

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hmmmmm

although Im really really shy and quiet, I can socilase more or less perfectly fine
..although at times I find myself losing train of thourght and what i was going to say...and somtimes I cant think of anything to say

I think I probably had to put a little more effort into social skills...especially since before I really couldnt deal with people I didnt know..(I grew up in a small comunity so it wasnt often I had to meet or talk to somone new..)

however I thease days I dont make eny effort to be "cool" or "fashionble" I dont force myself to party/go clubbing because I know I wouldnt enjoy it, instead I simpky indulge in stuff I like and dont care if its "cool" or not...because at one point I realised some peopel version of "cool" sucked

main example :"OMG I got soooo wasted the other night!! arnt I awsome!!!??"
 

blizzaradragon

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Well since I'm a cosplayer, you could easily make the argument that I put effort into moving away from being normal. Hell, I wore my Ichigo Kurosaki cosplay to the mall once just for the hell of it. So many kids either asked if A) if I was practicing for Halloween, B) asked if they could wear my obi, or C) they could convince their parents to let them dress up like that.

Outside of cosplay though most people say I'm much more "normal" than any of the other people in my various groups of friends, so take that for what you will.
 

Vault101

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Joccaren said:
None. Being normal seems boring to me. Love being me instead - so much more fun and I don't have to try to seem interested in crap I couldn't care less about, like the AFL down here in Aus.
strange experience is school...one of my freind went for the eagles..(If I had to choose a team it would be them)

anyway another girl was making jokes about the players drug problems..which I joined in singing "were the eagles..we're on a HIGH!!" (parody of their team song)

anyway later she aprached me and seemed actually offended, asking why I made fun of them when said I "went" for them. then she went on to point out how it was only a few players or somthing..I was taken aback by how serious it all was

the spud said:
Wow, that talking aloud thing is pretty much me.

OT: Absolutely no effort whatsoever. I actually try my best not to fit in. Who in their right mind would want to become one with the herd? Wouldn't you want to be your own, unique person?
correct..although being unique for the sake of being unique and then condecending others for it (hipsters) isnt good at all...I mean I like what i like weather its obscure or popular

and no one is truly unique
Chemical Horse said:
the spud said:
Who in their right mind would want to become one with the herd?
I can't help but find this comment extremely racist
hahaha your kidding right?
 

FaceFaceFace

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Not much. As far as people on the Escapist go, I'm pretty normal anyway. No offense, but there are some odd people here.

I refrain from saying my opinions on possibly contentious matters before I know someone well enough to know that they either hold the same views or are able to tolerate mine. But that's not really acting normal so much as acting neutral, so meh.
 

Blue Hero

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No effort. At all. None. Zip. Zilch. Zero. Absolutely none. I consider myself to be normal enough, so no effort required.