How much would you forgive him or her?

[Blue_vision]

Forgiving? A fair bit. So long as I was still "the one," I could really care less what romantic misadventures she has. If she needs a change for a bit or needs to try something new or makes a mistake, I'm fine with it. Just as long as she still loves me (and mainly me.)

I'd consider a personality change not to be a dealbreaker, because it wasn't really a deal in the first place and that's why I'd be attracted to her, so I won't go into what kind of girl I'd get turned off from.

 

[Timmehexas]

Well gaming is never really much of a problem for me because most of the guys I've dated or hang out with play some kind of console/PC. I mean right now my friend with benefits is sitting playing COD, *sniff* it's beautiful.

My main thing is just spending time together, as long as the person still enjoys spending time with me I'm usually very forgiving, I have trouble holding grudges for over an hour.

*edit* I suppose I could add being stereotypically camp onto there but I don't date camp guys anyway, I can only be friends with them.

 

[JemothSkarii]

Forgiving? A fair bit. So long as I was still "the one," I could really care less what romantic misadventures she has. If she needs a change for a bit or needs to try something new or makes a mistake, I'm fine with it. Just as long as she still loves me (and mainly me.)

I'd consider a personality change not to be a dealbreaker, because it wasn't really a deal in the first place and that's why I'd be attracted to her, so I won't go into what kind of girl I'd get turned off from.

Yeah, putting me first and mainly being in love with me is what I would want, and that would excuse quite a few things. But like I said in my original topic; no sex...Just...grr...

 

[Naheal]

I can forgive a pretty girl or a handsome boy quite a lot of things. As a relationship goes...I wouldn't know.

*Smacks*

*Lights on fire*

*kicks in balls*

.....I'm sowwy

*innocent face*

Are you trying to get me excited or to demonstrate a point?

I'm a handsome boy, I demand to be forgiven!

PHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHAHA.

This kick in your ego has been brought to you by Naheal. You're welcome.

OT: I can be pretty forgiving in a relationship, but there's a difference between being forgiving and staying in a bad situation. I'm perfectly willing to stay friends if a relationship won't work out.

 

[Clarkarius]

My reasons to end a relationship I guess are...

-When the trust is gone.
-When there is a failure to communicate.
-When things are made to be more complicated then they need to be.

This may reflect badly on me but implications in communication and the setting of to many rules with said partner, do not sit well with me in relationships.

In terms of forgiveness everybody gets one chance in a relationship and two in a friendship, but I'm yet to be proven wrong on this so yeah.

 

[Screamarie]

Cheating or any kind of abuse, gotta kick the guy to the curb, immediately, no talks, no second chances, it's over.
Trying to change me...or forcing me to get rid of friends...or not being able to deal with my nerdiness...I'm willing to talk about it but if we can't come to an equal agreement, then don't let the door hit ya where the dog should have bit ya.

 

[Communist partisan]

If she don't stay in the kitchen

If she lies to me or if she start doing things whith other guys (serious stuff, y'know)

Also if she tries to make me jealous, fucking hate that...

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

For people in a relationship of any sort, I want to know; what is a deal-breaker for your relationship? What wrong can your partner do that you can overlook and what is going too far?

For me, I can forgive a lot of things; if she kisses a guy, hangs out with him, even have a crush on him. The dealbreaker for me though is if I turn into second banana or they have sex...of course I prefer that wouldn't happen at all. But to me, sex is a sacred thing between two lovers; the first two if she fell in love with the guy, so that's a no-no.

Finally someone who thinks the same as me. I'm an emotional glass case though, so even a kiss would be a deal breaker for me.

 

[JemothSkarii]

For people in a relationship of any sort, I want to know; what is a deal-breaker for your relationship? What wrong can your partner do that you can overlook and what is going too far?

For me, I can forgive a lot of things; if she kisses a guy, hangs out with him, even have a crush on him. The dealbreaker for me though is if I turn into second banana or they have sex...of course I prefer that wouldn't happen at all. But to me, sex is a sacred thing between two lovers; the first two if she fell in love with the guy, so that's a no-no.

Finally someone who thinks the same as me. I'm an emotional glass case though, so even a kiss would be a deal breaker for me.

Due to my paranoia, I'm an emotional wreck, but more forgiving than I expected myself to be...but I'm kinda old fashioned when it comes to relationships; the whole simple dates and everything.

 

[NPC]

She can do anything as long as I agree to it first. I have had open relationships and they have worked out very well. I prefer having commitment and dedication to each other, but if she doesn't then she should tell me before anything happens.

If she agrees to having a relationship where it is just me and her and she kisses or has sex with another guy, that's completely different. Then I will either end it or have us discuss what we really want out of the relationship.

Oh, and shooting me, shooting me is a definite deal-breaker. Stabbing 99% of the time, unless she has a really good reason.

 

[00slash00]

wow. lots of sexist responses to this thread...not sure why this surprises me.

anyway, the big thing would be cheating, either emotionally or physically.

drugs would be another deal breaker. smoking pot or drinking every now and then is acceptable, but i dont think id be able to deal with my girlfriend doing harder drugs that

most other things could be talked out.

i do agree, however, that my girlfriend tell me i cant play video games or watch anime or shit like that, would be another deal breaker, but not because im hopelessly addicted or anything like that. ive never tried to hide my nerdiness, so she would know, coming in to the relationship, that those things are significant parts of who i am. insisting that i not do those things, suggests that she doesnt like me for who i am

 

[JemothSkarii]

wow. lots of sexist responses to this thread...not sure why this surprises me.

anyway, the big thing would be cheating, either emotionally or physically.

drugs would be another deal breaker. smoking pot or drinking every now and then is acceptable, but i dont think id be able to deal with my girlfriend doing harder drugs that

most other things could be talked out.

i do agree, however, that my girlfriend tell me i cant play video games or watch anime or shit like that, would be another deal breaker, but not because im hopelessly addicted or anything like that. ive never tried to hide my nerdiness, so she would know, coming in to the relationship, that those things are significant parts of who i am. insisting that i not do those things, suggests that she doesnt like me for who i am

This is probably because I'm really tired, but I'm not really seeing any sexist comments. Someone asking you to stop something harmless that you enjoy is pretty bad, I don't think I could deal with it...luckily I haven't had anyone who's told me to do so.

 

[00slash00]

i saw a lot of sexist jokes and worse than that, people who seemed to honestly be saying that not having sex enough is reason to break up with someone. i generally only date nerdy girls because i can relate with them best, so ive never been asked to give up video games either. if something really bothered them, and they had a reason for why it bothered them so much, i would stop doing it. i would expect them to show me the same respect though

 

[Blue_vision]

Forgiving? A fair bit. So long as I was still "the one," I could really care less what romantic misadventures she has. If she needs a change for a bit or needs to try something new or makes a mistake, I'm fine with it. Just as long as she still loves me (and mainly me.)

I'd consider a personality change not to be a dealbreaker, because it wasn't really a deal in the first place and that's why I'd be attracted to her, so I won't go into what kind of girl I'd get turned off from.

Yeah, putting me first and mainly being in love with me is what I would want, and that would excuse quite a few things. But like I said in my original topic; no sex...Just...grr...

I could really care less about sex. In fact, sex is probably what I'd care the least about.

Maybe no cuddling is the single rule I'd have...

 

[Paksenarrion]

We haven't really discussed it, but if I see him do something I don't like, I'll tell him forcefully. If he tries to complain about it, I tell him:

"I have altered the deal. Pray I do not alter it any further."

 

[Aurora Firestorm]

I wince when I see "if she tells me I can't look at other women." Now that's just being obnoxious. I don't gape at other guys. Undressing other girls with your eyes when you have a girlfriend is basically saying that you're already looking for an upgrade. We can see it. Don't think we can't.

Anyway, deal breakers in terms of "the other person did this" rather than "incompatibility" are...

- Cheating -- that means _any_ romantic interaction with anyone else, drunk or sober. Flirting, kissing, touching, sex, anything. Keep your paws to yourself, or you're out on Strike 1.
- Being overly secretive/never telling me anything
- Trying to keep me away from my friends, or from having other guy friends (NOT ogling them)
- Criticizing me in a mean way ("You're fat," "She's so much prettier than you," etc.).
- Any form of physical abuse -- and I will kick your ass while I'm at it.

 

[wearesoneutralthatithurts]

cheating. (kissing of f***ing someone without my permission)
lying over important content
unequal relatonship (if he disprizes me)
not bein candid about problems. if you dont know where you´re wrong, you cant chnage it.
unwilling to improve the relationship if there were any problems. (there is no human without failures. nobody is perfect, so its senseless to expect the "perfect fitting partner"

 

[Dgxphyrefightx]

I make attachments way too easy >.< There's not much I really wouldn't forgive, however if he/she cheated on me, I might break up with them. I'll forgive them, staying in a relationship, however, might be too much.

 

[SimuLord]

I expect absolute loyalty and submission from my women. Acts of disloyalty or assertions of independence once she has pledged herself to me are not tolerated. I have found that I would sooner stay single than sublimate my aggressive, dominant alpha-male personality.

 

[Danman1]

-Theft
-Doing anything out of spite
-Tries to change me
-Tries to make me drop my friends
-Tells me I can't look at other women
-Hypocritical

This. Also, trailer Park Boys rocks.