How much would you forgive him or her?

[Professor James]

Cheating-a little flirting I don't mind but kissing or a higher is a no no
Drugs, alcohol,smoking,etc- A little I don't mind but if she has an addiction to any of these things, we're gonna have a problem
Trying to stop me from Videogames, friends,etc

 

[Legendairy314]

Depends on how far in the relationship I guess. The more you get to know and trust the person the more you can gauge exactly how they feel about you and how they feel about others. If kissing other guy friends without it being overly affectionate is possible than so be it. Different people do different things to others they're interested in.

There are obvious lines that can't be crossed (sleeping with another guy, stealing something of great value, trying to change my beliefs/friends, etc...) but I would hope that if I chose a girl to hang out with that I could see things like those before it comes to term.

 

[dorkette1990]

I always said if he cheated, I'd be done. That didn't happen. Or if anything got violent... given, I started the fight and didn't think he'd continue it. I was wrong.
If I was ignored frequently for video games, I'd leave. I'm not saying if it happened once, but if every time I call/need something/try to do something with boyfriend, I don't want to hear "Just one more level..." (or the equivalent). Frequently is one thing, every single time is another.

 

[JemothSkarii]

I make attachments way too easy >.< There's not much I really wouldn't forgive, however if he/she cheated on me, I might break up with them. I'll forgive them, staying in a relationship, however, might be too much.

If my girl cheated on me, I'd probably do this. She's given me so much enjoyment that she deserves that much. Sure, she would have damaged me and make me resent part of myself, but I would probably still be attached to her to the point I'd still want her close, even if only as a friend.

 

[flim.geek.chic]

If she banned games. I swear to god... That is the biggest deal breaker ever for me. Infact I wouldn't even bother splitting up with her... I'd kill her!... Or you know... Keep playing games...

you should get a gamer girlfriend my Boy and I games are almost an aphrodiziac.

Most girls who "Ban" games are in competion with them. If a girl can't understand that things aren't about her all the time and sometimes guys just need to chill and play their damn game in peace, she needs to grow up.

 

[flim.geek.chic]

it's not so much cheating thats unforgiveable... it's the volation of trust that goes with it.
I trust my Boyfriend so purely that if that was damaged... the relationship could contiune but it would never be the same.

 

[Bloodstain]

I'm very possessive.
If she kisses someone (regardless of gender), has a crush on someone or even just flirts with someone...well, I'm not in the position of forgiving or not forgiving, I'm engulfed in despair.
Yup.

I'm really a bit of an enigma; I'm romantic, and I believe myself to be very forgiving, but I'm also very paranoid, so I can come up with some pretty whacked out theories about the people she meets. god forbid I bring any of those to light. I'm quite possessive of her, and any guy around her makes me nervous, probably because of my feelings of inadequacy. Still, it's worth it when we cuddle and she says she loves me.

Whoa, hey, this exactly!
Highfive, I suppose?

Although I've stopped considering myself very forgiving, because I know I'm too paranoid.
I think I've found a girl who understands the conflicts you mentioned...too bad she is in a relationship. One that's probably coming to an end soon, but I'm too kind of a person to promote this outcome. Instead, I even help her coping with the problems.
Sigh.

Gah! I've been in the exact same position! Are you stalking me!?
...or are you ME?

Obviously, we are ONE AND THE SAME.

Friend request time!