I try to do that, but somehow it makes it sound even worse.Freaky Lou said:I'm very open, but always speak about it in rather clinical terms that wouldn't turn anyone on or indicate arousal at all.
Okay, well there is no way I can achieve one then. Because short of massaging the prostate (something I'm not going to do or have anyone do to me) ejaculation is all there really is. I mean there's not really anything else. I'm not going to have a different orgasm if I do it for an hour or a minute, it's all the same to me. I mean, varies slightly, but an orgasm? No it ain't.knhirt said:In my experience, ejaculation and orgasms aren't necessarily tied together. Most people lump them into one thing, but I think that's the wrong approach. I've had both without the other, and while ejaculation is thrilling, orgasms are different beasts entirely. They're more difficult to achieve, though!Fluffles said:Male sexual pleasure sucks. I can have an orgasm with a straight face, what the fuck is up with that? That shouldn't be called an orgasm.
Seems like you could do with a refreshed mindset when it comes to sex. My most intense orgasm ever had nothing to do with my prostate. See, it's not necessarily how long or short you go at it; it's all about the mindset! How you look at the whole thing. Cynicism really won't do. You really have to be super relaxed and connected to your partner. I can't really be more specific than that, but I'll say that sex can be really super pleasurable for both sexes - and all that without prostate massages.Fluffles said:knhirt said:In my experience, ejaculation and orgasms aren't necessarily tied together. Most people lump them into one thing, but I think that's the wrong approach. I've had both without the other, and while ejaculation is thrilling, orgasms are different beasts entirely. They're more difficult to achieve, though!Fluffles said:Male sexual pleasure sucks. I can have an orgasm with a straight face, what the fuck is up with that? That shouldn't be called an orgasm.
Okay, well there is no way I can achieve one then. Because short of massaging the prostate (something I'm not going to do or have anyone do to me) ejaculation is all there really is. I mean there's not really anything else. I'm not going to have a different orgasm if I do it for an hour or a minute, it's all the same to me. I mean, varies slightly, but an orgasm? No it ain't.
I hope you know the prostate comment was not serious, but yeah, believe me being really connected to my partner doesn't change much. Sure it'll feel better and I'll feel better, but it doesn't actually produce what I would call an orgasm. Feeling intensely satisfied will come from just me generally feeling fantastic about the experience, and not from being pleasured. It'll all be brilliant, but the actual climax will not change physically. Which is disappointing and probably one of the reasons I feel the way I do about sexual experiences.knhirt said:Seems like you could do with a refreshed mindset when it comes to sex. My most intense orgasm ever had nothing to do with my prostate. See, it's not necessarily how long or short you go at it; it's all about the mindset! How you look at the whole thing. Cynicism really won't do. You really have to be super relaxed and connected to your partner. I can't really be more specific than that, but I'll say that sex can be really super pleasurable for both sexes - and all that without prostate massages.Fluffles said:knhirt said:In my experience, ejaculation and orgasms aren't necessarily tied together. Most people lump them into one thing, but I think that's the wrong approach. I've had both without the other, and while ejaculation is thrilling, orgasms are different beasts entirely. They're more difficult to achieve, though!Fluffles said:Male sexual pleasure sucks. I can have an orgasm with a straight face, what the fuck is up with that? That shouldn't be called an orgasm.
Okay, well there is no way I can achieve one then. Because short of massaging the prostate (something I'm not going to do or have anyone do to me) ejaculation is all there really is. I mean there's not really anything else. I'm not going to have a different orgasm if I do it for an hour or a minute, it's all the same to me. I mean, varies slightly, but an orgasm? No it ain't.![]()
Pretty much that.chaosyoshimage said:Online, super open who cares it's the internets. Offline, not at all