How open are you with sexuality?

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Da Orky Man

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Freaky Lou said:
I'm very open, but always speak about it in rather clinical terms that wouldn't turn anyone on or indicate arousal at all.
I try to do that, but somehow it makes it sound even worse.
 

Blobpie

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Unfortunately I'm asexual, no sexual turn-ons or anything like that. I've always valued the mind more.
 

thom_cat_

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knhirt said:
Fluffles said:
Male sexual pleasure sucks. I can have an orgasm with a straight face, what the fuck is up with that? That shouldn't be called an orgasm.
In my experience, ejaculation and orgasms aren't necessarily tied together. Most people lump them into one thing, but I think that's the wrong approach. I've had both without the other, and while ejaculation is thrilling, orgasms are different beasts entirely. They're more difficult to achieve, though!
Okay, well there is no way I can achieve one then. Because short of massaging the prostate (something I'm not going to do or have anyone do to me) ejaculation is all there really is. I mean there's not really anything else. I'm not going to have a different orgasm if I do it for an hour or a minute, it's all the same to me. I mean, varies slightly, but an orgasm? No it ain't.
 

b3nn3tt

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Depends on who I'm with, and what the conversation is actually about. I'm fine with talking about sex and various related topics, but the trick is knowing your audience. If I was with my family, I wouldn't be having a conversation about the different poaitions and kinks that everyone has tried, because nobody would appreciate it and I doubt I'd be invited to the next get-together. But in a group of friends, I have no problem talking about anything, unless I knew that some of the group would be uncomfortable.

Basically, my openness in discussion depends entirely on my judgement of how comfortable the other people involved in the conversation would be.
 

SextusMaximus

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If someone else is super open, I'll be pretty open, but I wouldn't if the other person wasn't.
 

Zack Alklazaris

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I am very open minded when it comes to sexuality, desires, turn ons, etc. Its what they like, don't knock them for it. Hell I'm even open to doing pretty much anything, sex is sex. To be part of someone elses fantasy should be held in the highest of honors. You are their porn! Relish that. Now I understand some people need help. People who have sex with children for example, clearly had issues in their childhood that need to be resolved. And the last thing we want is for that child victim to grow up and turn into a pedophile as well.

But for the most part I will do anything once. You only live 80 or so years, why not enjoy it in every way possible.
 

knhirt

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Fluffles said:
knhirt said:
Fluffles said:
Male sexual pleasure sucks. I can have an orgasm with a straight face, what the fuck is up with that? That shouldn't be called an orgasm.
In my experience, ejaculation and orgasms aren't necessarily tied together. Most people lump them into one thing, but I think that's the wrong approach. I've had both without the other, and while ejaculation is thrilling, orgasms are different beasts entirely. They're more difficult to achieve, though!

Okay, well there is no way I can achieve one then. Because short of massaging the prostate (something I'm not going to do or have anyone do to me) ejaculation is all there really is. I mean there's not really anything else. I'm not going to have a different orgasm if I do it for an hour or a minute, it's all the same to me. I mean, varies slightly, but an orgasm? No it ain't.
Seems like you could do with a refreshed mindset when it comes to sex. My most intense orgasm ever had nothing to do with my prostate. See, it's not necessarily how long or short you go at it; it's all about the mindset! How you look at the whole thing. Cynicism really won't do. You really have to be super relaxed and connected to your partner. I can't really be more specific than that, but I'll say that sex can be really super pleasurable for both sexes - and all that without prostate massages. ;)
 

DoomyMcDoom

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I judge my audience, if someone doesn't wanna know about my sex life why bore them/disgust them with it, but with buddies of mine and even some loose aquaintances I've shared a lot in great detail, why? Cuz it's like a list of achievements and I'm goddamn proud of it thank you very much.
 

TheLoveableMuffin

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With my mates, not really unless it's a general laugh in regards to me, my friends and my lady friends. But I have a fioncee so I can't go too far into dirty details.
 

Blue Musician

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I don't like to talk much of sexuality in general to be honest. I'm not sure why, but I simply don't like to.
 

thom_cat_

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knhirt said:
Fluffles said:
knhirt said:
Fluffles said:
Male sexual pleasure sucks. I can have an orgasm with a straight face, what the fuck is up with that? That shouldn't be called an orgasm.
In my experience, ejaculation and orgasms aren't necessarily tied together. Most people lump them into one thing, but I think that's the wrong approach. I've had both without the other, and while ejaculation is thrilling, orgasms are different beasts entirely. They're more difficult to achieve, though!

Okay, well there is no way I can achieve one then. Because short of massaging the prostate (something I'm not going to do or have anyone do to me) ejaculation is all there really is. I mean there's not really anything else. I'm not going to have a different orgasm if I do it for an hour or a minute, it's all the same to me. I mean, varies slightly, but an orgasm? No it ain't.
Seems like you could do with a refreshed mindset when it comes to sex. My most intense orgasm ever had nothing to do with my prostate. See, it's not necessarily how long or short you go at it; it's all about the mindset! How you look at the whole thing. Cynicism really won't do. You really have to be super relaxed and connected to your partner. I can't really be more specific than that, but I'll say that sex can be really super pleasurable for both sexes - and all that without prostate massages. ;)
I hope you know the prostate comment was not serious, but yeah, believe me being really connected to my partner doesn't change much. Sure it'll feel better and I'll feel better, but it doesn't actually produce what I would call an orgasm. Feeling intensely satisfied will come from just me generally feeling fantastic about the experience, and not from being pleasured. It'll all be brilliant, but the actual climax will not change physically. Which is disappointing and probably one of the reasons I feel the way I do about sexual experiences.