Thanks for the support.space_oddity said:I agree 100%, but i feel it could backfire in this situation. Deflecting an ballistic missile using nothing but a fine mesh, a bag of rice and willpower might not be the most effective pick up tactic.Macgyvercas said:I prefer to ask "What would MacGyver do?"space_oddity said:Girls dont find shyness attractive.
They dont.
Your goal is to be self confident, but not a dick.
Whenever you feel nervous, just think "What would James Dean do?"
Well, either MacGyver or James Bond
Clashero speaks wise words, heed them OP.Clashero said:There's been over 100 replies, but I'll put in my 2 cents.
When you loan a book, smile, say hi, be nice enough that she'll smile when she sees coming through the doors. After that is accomplished, start having more small talk with her while checking out books (asking her to personally help you find one would create the best window of opportunity).
When she knows you're friendly, simply ask her what time she gets off and ask her out for a cup of coffee. It's really not as hard as most people would make you believe. Confidence is the most important thing.
There are people who know a lot more about this stuff than the people here, relationships don't always happen by accident.Dooly95 said:But... really, what else is there?FleaJr said:You are SO asking in the wrong place buddy, really, go ask somewhere where the advice is better than 'talk and ask for a date'
Wait until she notices that you've been staring at her for the last hour?