How to tell a girl you like her

[Quiet Stranger]

So if any of you read my last thread about my strangest day ever, you'll know I have a special someone, well, almost. I don't want to rush into things but we've done things that tell me we might as well be together. Now obviously I could tell her I like her but that's just not...I don't know, I just feel like I could make it more romantic.

So what are some good ways to show her I like her?

 

[RaphaelsRedemption]

Flowers.

With a mars bar in the middle

 

[Soulgaunt]

Try and have a friend help you tell her?

 

[Marter]

Plan a day around her, and her interests. Do many activities that she likes during that day, and hint at it throughout.

Or just tell her.

Good luck with whatever you decide!

 

[Penguinness]

Do an "all-in" gamble, give her an engagement ring.

I don't know the details really, ask her out?

Try and have a friend help you tell her?

I was once told by their friend, not very special at all.

 

[Quiet Stranger]

Flowers.

With a mars bar in the middle

a...a mars bar in the middle....why does that sound dirty...or like some form of a joke?

 

[khaimera]

Tell her with confidence and eloquence.

 

[Shockolate]

Flowers.

With a mars bar in the middle

If I was a female, if a guy gave me a Mars and said "I love you" I would do him on the spot.

Not kidding.

 

[Dags90]

A succession of cheesy placards asking her out. Has a certain Narm Charm and no trouble with pesky words.

 

[Sir Kemper]

Tell her with confidence and eloquence.

Nice new Avatar.


Anyway On topic, Just tell her.

Just. Tell. Her.

 

[Plurralbles]

I've only been able to do it with inviting her to hang out and going from what her body language tells me to do and after a kiss asking her out. Probably not the best way to start a more serious relationship but I enjoy it as it's more comfortable to me.

 

[Trebort]

Flowers.

With a mars bar in the middle

First of all, you are a genius.

"Now then sausage... do you wanna make babies?".... no wait, don't say that. Go with the flowers with a mars bar. (I'd love to get flowers off anyone with a chocolate bar in them, it'd have to be a snickers instead of mars though...I like nuts.)

 

[Quiet Stranger]

Do an "all-in" gamble, give her an engagement ring.

I don't know the details really, ask her out?

details being, on the same day (except at supper time) that I first actually meet her, I take her to subway for supper (it's the dinner date! you never do the dinner date! It's the do-or-die date! cookie for reference) and we go back to my place, go to my room, sity in my bed and watch cartoons, make out, massage each others backs, and I smacked her ass a couple of times....so yeah I still don't know if we're going out after all that

 

[Zer_]

So if any of you read my last thread about my strangest day ever, you'll know I have a special someone, well, almost. I don't want to rush into things but we've done things that tell me we might as well be together. Now obviously I could tell her I like her but that's just not...I don't know, I just feel like I could make it more romantic.

So what are some good ways to show her I like her?

It's best to start with something innocent enough. Basically ask her out to lunch or go out for a coffee. Take her downtown to do some shopping etc...

It's best not to ask them out to dinner right away, since that's more for later. But going out for a bite to eat at lunch time, seems less like a "I really, really want to be with you move" and more of a "You seem interesting, I'd like to get to know you a little, and see what happens from there."

I hope you understand the logic behind it.

 

[Miumaru]

Probably better off just saying it. Worry about the romantic bit when/if you propose.

 

[s0denone]

Is she still just a friend?
Say you think she's sweet and would like to spend more time with her.
If you blurt out "I'm in love with you" or "I want to be more than friends" it requires some commitment on her part, and doesn't allow for a flexible response.

If you do say something like "I think you're really sweet and would like to spend more time with you." it doesn't require her to make up her mind on the spot, which the other options does. She is allowed to enter the "experiment" and then walk out on the other end if not interested.

 

[Quiet Stranger]

A succession of cheesy placards asking her out. Has a certain Narm Charm and no trouble with pesky words.

I feel stupid for asking but....placards?

 

[TheTurtleMan]

There isn't really a right or wrong way to do something like that. Except, I guess if you were blunt and just grabbed her boobs it wouldn't really go too well.

 

[Quiet Stranger]

I've only been able to do it with inviting her to hang out and going from what her body language tells me to do and after a kiss asking her out. Probably not the best way to start a more serious relationship but I enjoy it as it's more comfortable to me.

I have no idea how to read body language!