How would my fellow escapists react if they were in a scenario like this.

[Scarim Coral]

That would certainly be awkward go to the GP for check myself.
Honestly if she really does love me than I would ask her to quit/ retire. It is still possibly for her to be in the adult career without getting phyiscal. If I do love her than I would try carry on with the relationship (it isn't all about sex) but I think I would be uncomfortable if she still take part in it.

 

[Sandernista]

It really depends on the relationship, was it sexually exclusive?

If yes and she had been lying to me about the exclusivity then yes I would end the relationship.

If no, then I would be weird-ed out, but whatever man. Its her career.

 

[BlackSaint09]

I'd immediately feel sexually threatened, haha. I've seen my fair share of porn, and let me just say I don't "measure-up" to the competition. If you catch my drift. (I hope that statement even makes sense, I'm sleep deprived too.)

That being said, I'd try my best to work it out. It would be a lot to get used too.

Beleive me. That is so what i was thinking.It made perfect sense.

 

[Gunner 51]

That's fine by me, as I understand it, porn is a very regulated industry and is very keen on sexual health screenings and other precautions to combat STDs.

But now that the sexual health thing is done, I'd ask her what stuff is like in the porn industry - I've never come across a girl who's worked in that particular sector. They're bound to have tales of gossip, as well.

 

[sky14kemea]

"You don't say...."

As long as they take the proper precautions at work, then I'd support them. :/

 

[Dags90]

Uhm actually the adult movie industry protects theyre actresses and actors from getting such diseases. I suppose i should also mention that she worked in a high quality company. Meaning the odds of STD would be amazingly small.

Also he/she continued this line of work cuz it pays well for her/him. The job is somewhat easy and so on.

Those protections aren't 100%. Porn actors and actresses regularly turn up HIV+, and the screening for other STDs is much, much sketchier.

If they did bareback porn while we were dating, I'm out. Simple as that. I don't want to be with anyone who would knowingly put me at that kind of risk. I don't care if it's a reduced risk, it's a reduced risk of HIV. Especially if they were also escorting, which isn't uncommon among porn actors.

 

[BlackSaint09]

Uhm actually the adult movie industry protects theyre actresses and actors from getting such diseases. I suppose i should also mention that she worked in a high quality company. Meaning the odds of STD would be amazingly small.

Also he/she continued this line of work cuz it pays well for her/him. The job is somewhat easy and so on.

Those protections aren't 100%. Porn actors and actresses regularly turn up HIV+, and the screening for other STDs is much, much sketchier.

If they did bareback porn while we were dating, I'm out. Simple as that. I don't want to be with anyone who would knowingly put me at that kind of risk. I don't care if it's a reduced risk, it's a reduced risk of HIV. Especially if they were also escorting, which isn't uncommon among porn actors.

Good point.
Touche. I didnt think about it that way.

 

[Guffe]

First reaction I can easily say would be "surprise".

But many porn actors/actresses has been asked the question about being a porn star and relationships and at least for most of them it's working out fine so if it was me why wouldn't it work for me if I have the kind of relationship/feelings for them that I do?

 

[Muspelheim]

*Shrug* "It's a job, I suppose..."

As long as it's not slowly grinding him/her down and is generally awful, I don't think it would bother me very much. I'd be more worried if he/she kept it secret. Of course, I'd giggle myself mad at the potentionally awkward family dinners.

 

[SonOfVoorhees]

Hiding their career seems strange when in a relationship, unless its something embarrassing. Dumb lies are bad in relationships because if you wont talk about the dumb unimportant stuff like jobs, what important stuff are they hiding?

Maybe you should bring the job thing with her and make a joke and say you will just tell people she is a hooker. lol. I know, that sucked, but whatever the job is, if you say you think its a lot worse than it actually is, maybe she will talk. Especially since if this relationship becomes really serious then she will have to tell you eventually. I just see it as a barrier.

 

[Jegsimmons]

in order:

Confusion and shock.
Probably not.
"are you clean?" and "I have a camera, so we can keep your job with you takeing strangers dicks, how about that?"


ill try and work it out.

 

[Quellist]

Immediate reaction: "wow thats out of leftfield but actually kind of cool"

Relationship over? No freaking way would i drop someone for this. Unless they were doing revolting stuff like 2 girls 1 cup that is

 

[smokeyninjas]

Depends on what kind of porn she's doing?
If it's just girl on girl then i'd be fine with that but if its boy girl think the green eyed monster would get the best of me so the girl can jog on

 

[iRevanchist]

Considering she had been sleeping with other people at the same time as me without talking to me, its over. It's cheating, that simple.

If they were upfront with me at the beginning I'd consider it, but frankly I don't think I'd be happy in a relationship where there is always a chance someone else could father my wife's baby, or that she could bring home a deadly STD.

Ex porn star... I'd probably feel intimidated at first but everyone has a past so I'd probably get over that. Actually I know I would, I've dated ex strippers lol.

Same. I wouldn't be able to deal with the fact that he'd be fucking other girls as a 9 to 5. also, have he no self-respect? anyone who sleeps around for easy money clearly isn't worth anyone's time.

 

[MehdiAkbar]

Well, as you said you're head over heels, you would try to figure out the details. If she's doing it because its her only possible income, then it'll be alright and maybe you could help her out. But if she's just...you know. Then I would find some friction

 

[FolkLikePanda]

I'd definetly be suprised and to be fair I wouldn't enjoy the fact that someone else has been leaving fresh snail trails in and on her. If it was girl-on-girl I wouldn't mind as such. I don't think I'd end the relationship but it doesn't mean I wouldn't feel slightly uneasy. But its up to her and I couldn't tell her what she can and can't do for a living.

 

[Xaio30]

1. Say: "That wasn't so hard, was it?"
2. I'd keep going with that relationship.
3. Nothing has changed. I would still love her, and she would presumably still love me.

 

[Candidus]

Sex is sex. To me, it isn't meaningful- it isn't even the main event, I prefer certain other things to intercourse.

So for me, it's no problem. If I enjoyed sex enough to make it a living, I might also do it. Ignore those who equate sexual conservatism with self respect. Those people aren't worth anyone's time.

 

[ShindoL Shill]

1. I would probably be shocked/surprised.
2. I would not end the relationship.
3. Watch the films of course!

 

[FamoFunk]

I may be surprised, a little taken back. I'd feel a little hurt I wasn't told from the start, but I'd also understand why...

It's not something work instantly breaking up over, give it time and see hoe the relationship goes now that you know. After all, she was the perfect Girl.