How would you fix this

[Jacob.A.]

Alright here is my situation, I have a girlfriend we have been going out now for almost 6 months now and she lives with me (due to certain events that transpired).
She is also my first girlfriend and I feel as if I'm stuck because I don't want to settle yet (as I am 18, herself being 19) and I am having alot of fun away from her (on this bandtrip that is happening right now) with my friends and other girls (just talking and jokes, I'm not cheating).
I don't know if I should tell her its not going to work, I'm not ready for this level of comitment yet or should I sit tight and ride it out and see what happens?

 

[PlasmaFrog]

Stubbornness and procrastination will lead you no where.

By direct, yet subtle about it in a sense so it doesn't hurt her feelings. If you feel that you need time away, then just request so, although it might not work out either way. But remember this, if you're miserable, the relationship is obviously not worth it.

Dump her, move on.

 

[Polarity27]

Err... does *she* want to be settled?

Talk to her. A lot. About what you want, about what she wants, then see where it takes you.

(Worked for us-- I met my husband when I was 19 and we've been together ever since. We also have an open marriage, so if there is someone one or the other meets, it doesn't necessarily have to be a choice. It can be both/and.)

 

[Tasachan]

You're at 6 months, if you're going to break up it's better to do it now than in say, three years.

 

[Ryengu]

If you want to stay with her, let her know you're not up for the hardcore commitment. If you want to live free from commitment period for the time being, go ahead and break up with her. I suppose it depends on how much you really care for her (not saying that if you want to break up you're an insensitive jerk, people break up all the time for perfectly good reasons).

 

[Canid117]

You're at 6 months, if you're going to break up it's better to do it now than in say, three years.

Yeah if you want to cut then cut when you aren't so entangled that you cut yourself as well.

 

[Jacob.A.]

The only reason I know that she wants to settle is because I did something I shouldn't have (I read part of her diary)

 

[Jacob.A.]

That could work.