I can do this, I just don't know if I want to take the chance...

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

Alright, so a while back I posted on here about the fact that I REALLY liked this girl, more so than any other girl I have ever liked, and I have gotten to the point where I can actually talk to her, and well...

I am not sure what to do from this point on. She doesn't like being complemented, for some reason, I sent a text message to my friend who happens to be one of her best friends stating that I thought the girl I like was the most beautiful person on this planet, and she replied to her "That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard."... WTFBBQ?

I have never met a girl that against compliments! (Note, that I didn't want my friend to tell her that, but she did....) AND NOW I DON'T KNOW HOW I CAN NATURALLY MAKE MYSELF LOOK... whatever the word is for it...

but alas, In about a week or so, I want to ask her out to get a coffee or to go get lunch or something (If she states she hates both of thoses things, I will punt a puppy.) but I'm not really sure if I want to.

She likes this guy, who may like her back, and she has recently started dating him, but then again, her openion can still be swayed at this point...

I have a good feeling that she would say yes, but I don't want to take the chance... at all...


I would talk to her in person if I were to ask her, but right now I don't think she would say yes (If I were to ask her tomorow) but In a week or so, I think she might...

But God, HALP MEH!
I really like this girl, But she is just so diffirent from a normal girl, it's like she is from another planet... I need to take this chance, and I know I can, but I just don't know if I want to.

TRY TO MAKE ME WANT TO MOAR OR MAKE ME NOT WANT TO!!! PLEASE!

 

[MASTACHIEFPWN]

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!

 

[Biodeamon]

Um, i don't quite know much about this stuff but it's best to act natrual. Don't do anything that you wouldn't normally do. Hope it helps

 

[Xpwn3ntial]

Well, that's absurd. Have you met everyone on the planet?

Try in a week. You have a 50/50 chance, you have a lot to gain, and only your dignity to lose. Go for it.

 

[Legion]

All girls seem like they are "different from all the other girls" when you really, really like them, that's hormones for you.

She probably didn't object to being complimented, she probably didn't like being called "the most beautiful person on this planet" when she doesn't think she is (and probably isn't), she may have seen it as over the top or she may just be insecure about her looks.

Also, don't bump threads twenty minutes after making them, if people want to post, they will.

If she seems like she wants somebody else then you need to either drop it, or be bold and tell her how you feel to see if she is actually interested in you, after all, she may be interested but due to a lack of action on your part, started showing interest in somebody else.

Although to be honest, she doesn't seem that interested in you at all.

 

[HardkorSB]

I have a good feeling that she would say yes


I don't think she would say yes

... what?

 

[LightningBanks]

My advice is to be careful atm, just because of this other guy, but otherwise, just be relaxed about it. From past experience, its always a load off you shoulders once you have done it, no matter what the result is.

Also, remember me

 

[Jfswift]

Just ask her to meet for coffee or something like you were going to do anyway. Don't wait.

 

[northman]

I'm gonna assume you're highschool age.

Yeah, saying a girl is "the most beautiful girl on the planet" is pretty lame. My fiance is brutal at taking compliments too, but I don't blame this girl for reacting like that to that particular compliment. Can't go wrong saying she looks good tho.

What I found out later in highschool was never to put a girl on a pedestal. They either won't respond at all to it or will treat you like a doormat.

Act natural. Relax. Tease her and flirt a little. And if she's not into you: pfft, whatevah.

You know you need to kill time at work when...

 

[smearyllama]

I have a good feeling that she would say yes


I don't think she would say yes

... what?

Fridge logic, for ya.

OT: Well...

I can't really provide a whole lot of advice, but if things go South, I can give a bit of advice for that.

If you run into issues, or accidentally offend her, cut your losses and pull out, after apologizing.
Regroup and come back again another day, but learn from your failures.

If things really don't work out, then don't push it further.
Let it go.

If things go really bad, then lay down some suppression fire and call for evac.

 

[BaconPunch]

Life = short
Life count = 1
Relationships = makes your life more happy
These equations = another form of something you've heard lots before
WTFBBQ = want to hit self in face with hammer

 

[HentMas]

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!

what do you like about her?? her uniqueness?, her way of reacting to situations?, she is just that hot?, what!?

because if you like how she reacts at different stuff and get all freaked out because she thinks calling her "the most beautiful person in the world" is stupid, then you are screwed, either you don´t freak out and endure it trying to win her heart or freak out enough to lose interest

also, you have to take into account that your "friend" the one you sent the txt message to, is working against you, get mad at her and tell her "WTF!? WHY DID YOU TOLD HER WHAT I TEXTED!?" if you don´t she is going to keep on meddling between you two, so either you take her out of the picture or figure out why she doesn´t want you to have a cool image with her friend... unless you asked her to tell the girl that, in which case again, you are screwed.

maybe the girl wants to be with you and thats why she is sabotaging your image...

also!, be cool man, just chill and find common ground, what does she like?, what are her interests?, stuff like that, you may be able to squeeze that info out of the "friend" but don´t be too obvious, because she is going to try and screw you over (she already did once)

once you do that, get in the web, investigate enough to have a common topic to chat about, and next time you get the chance ask her about it, here is an example with music (it can be books, movies or other stuff) "whats your fav music?" cool as ice dude, you already know what it is, so you can say "yeah! i like that too!! i like [song name] and love how [performer name] plays the [drums/guitar/chelo]" BUT BE HONEST!, you HAVE to have listened to several songs of the group AND enjoyed the song you just said (or other relevant stuff), and if she mentions a song you haven't heard, TELL HER SO, remember, this is STRATEGY to actually get her to know you, not some ruse to cheat her into believing you are something you are not, girls know when you are not being honest

then you ask her about her fav kinds of movies, chit chat about genres (it doesn't matter if you don´t like what she likes, you already found common ground with the previous topic), if she likes something entirely different than you, and you KNOW she doesn´t like your topic, its more often than not because she doesn´t see good movies about that genre ask her "you feeling adventurous? why don´t we go and see [insert fav movie] with [name of friend] at my house?, you´ll see its not that bad", if she says "no" fine!, ask her about her favorite movie (considering you don´t like her genre) and propose a double feature, i see yours if you see mine so on so forth, if you both like the same genre, its easier, if she still says no, sorry man, she doesn't want to go beyond your current "known guy" status and again you are screwed... now is the chance to focus in the other friend

after that, its just a matter to never lose your cool, talk to her about what you like, what she likes, getting to know each other, hold the "you are so pretty" "i like you" "i think you are cute" to when she actually does or says something you like (like crying in a movie, or something you actually find appealing) tease her about stuff like that, but all in good nature, if she ever reacts badly get all serious and tell her "you know i was joking right?, why would you get mad!?, if you don´t want me to joke about that just tell me and i will stop, its just a joke" (this is because she does seem kind of weird)

NEVER FREAK OUT, NEVER GET NERVOUS, as a famous saying goes here in the romantic Latino side of the world "ya tienes el NO, que mas puedes perder?", translation "you already have her NO, what else can you lose?"

 

[Count Igor]

Well, considering I'm kind of in the same position, I'll say this.
Don't make her dump her boyfriend.
I did that accidently and I still feel bad about it.
If it doesn't work out, then she doesn't like him, but don't try to get in between.
In fact, if other people are trying to go out with her, and you alone are not, then she may notice that more.

 

[rokkolpo]

Do you want epic hot sex?
I CAN'T HEAR YOU!

There you go.

 

[FamoFunk]

Just ask her out for a damn Coffee, if you don't now you never will.
Plus, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!

 

[HentMas]

Well, considering I'm kind of in the same position, I'll say this.
Don't make her dump her boyfriend.
I did that accidently and I still feel bad about it.
If it doesn't work out, then she doesn't like him, but don't try to get in between.
In fact, if other people are trying to go out with her, and you alone are not, then she may notice that more.

oooh, thats horrible, then you are wondering "hell, what if she dumps me to someone else!?"...

but after you have done it several times, you can usually know when the girl is dumping the guy to be with you, or dumping the guy to be without him, guess which one is bound to be a long term relationship

 

[Gottesstrafe]

Did she say or hint at you that she was interested (or are all these assumptions on your part)? Do you have anything in common, other than a mutual friend? Are you done with high school?

If you've said "No" to all of the above (minus the part in parenthesis), chances are it's just your hormones talking and nothing else.

 

[northman]

Try not giving a fuck. Works every time.

This.