Look buddy,this is just what they do. Most girls,if put in a position of power by a guy obviously completely head over heels for them with treat him like shit unless the feeling is completely mutual. lets look at the evidence shall we. She breaks up with you 'for no reason'. oh man have i been there,but its not really for no reason,you think it is because your in love with her and dont see how anything could possibly go wrong,but the cold hard truth was she didnt like you as much as you liked her.
Now onto the the next point,she wanted to be friends.They always want to be friends and of course you obligue because you want her in your life and you want to believe theres a chance you can get back together. Ive learnt from experience that the best possible response to lets still be friends is(depending on how much of a ***** she is)either 'thats not a good idea i need time(like forever..)away from you' or,my personal favourite 'fuck you'. Ive experienced both your approach and my approach of a clean break.Mine works much better. You see the friends set up isnt actually to your benefit,its to hers. You cant get over her because your still talking and the longer her cock teasing goes on the more unhealthily bessoted you will become,and meanwhile shes got a little ***** to unload on emotinally whenever she wants. She can do whatever the fuck she wants to you,lead you on,make you apologize when youve done nothing wrong and of course just generally telling you about her stupid fucking problems,completely absorbed in the kind of enormous fucking self centred bubble than only a teenaged girl can inhabit.
Mate,ive been in your situation before,literally almost word for word your post,that happened to me.everything youve described ive been through.and i imagine a lot of other members on here have as well. please,stop trying to rationalise her actions,theres no logic behind her arguments youve just given her so much power in your relationship shes basically become a massive despot doing whatever the fuck she feels like because whatever SHE does all that happens is you say sorry. please stop apologizing to her and locate your balls. And please stop talking to her. I know how difficult it is to make that break,but you will feel so much better afterwards. Its not an instant thing it takes time,and actually telling her will just draw you into a pointless argument. just stop texting her/replying to texts,block her on msn,dont hang out with her,and after a while you will start to feel better.and even if,once youve reclaimed a bit of power she comes back nicer again,resist!realise that nothing good can come out of it now. Cutting her out is the only way to get over her.
phew that was longer than i expected,
oh ye and that 'like a brother/friend'thing really made my blood boil,that is literally the epitomy of prick teasing *****.
