I'm in a bad situation I guess you could say. I don't know how to make myself happy. I don't care about myself I just try make everyone else happy and that always used to make me happy but now I have no one to make happy anymore. I only have 3 close friends and I never get to see them so I'm usually just at home sad. I've been trying to date again too but it never works about. If anyone could help it would be nice
I don't know what to do
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Eh. There isn't anything in this world worth being happy about anyways. You could try to hang out with your friends more, or make some new friends and hang out with them. Maybe volunteer since you like helping people, then while volunteering make some friends and hang out with them, killing all the birds with one stone.
Empathy is a good thing to have though, it seems that you have somehow become distanced from people to help. I'd suggest trying to join a group of sorts, be it sports or even a guild within a game. In extreme cases you can consider volunteer work for people in disaster areas or just helping out around your local area. Don't feel too depressed about it. You'll find someone.
Think about all the amazing things out there. 
Sounds like you need something to like. Maybe you should find a hobby or something that you want to get better at, and practice it. Being happy doesn't always have to be about other people, it always starts with yourself.
I agree with Aylaine(it happens occasionally)
It seems like you've grown somewhat frustrated with your current situation and would benefit from a change. I'd consider trying something new, even something simple, like taking a walk on occasion can help you clear your head. Checking out the areas of town you don't usually go to can be refreshing. It is a simple thing, but just doing anything can help you get out of a rut, and exercise is always a good place to start if you don't know what to do with yourself.
Meeting new people is all about confidence. If you don't care about yourself, then you aren't showing yourself off at your best. Confidence is key, it is true, and it is all about practice. Speaking to new people can be daunting but it does get much easier the more you do it.
It seems like you've grown somewhat frustrated with your current situation and would benefit from a change. I'd consider trying something new, even something simple, like taking a walk on occasion can help you clear your head. Checking out the areas of town you don't usually go to can be refreshing. It is a simple thing, but just doing anything can help you get out of a rut, and exercise is always a good place to start if you don't know what to do with yourself.
Meeting new people is all about confidence. If you don't care about yourself, then you aren't showing yourself off at your best. Confidence is key, it is true, and it is all about practice. Speaking to new people can be daunting but it does get much easier the more you do it.
Whatever you do, don't fall victim to that idealism that after some point you achieve "happiness" and from then on it's all flowers and susnhine without a care in the world. Oh no, life keeps being just the way life is, which is, constantly throwing stuff at you and it's up to you to deal with said stuff.
That said, get out some. Take a walk. Look around, see if you can't find anything you like. Maybe a library. Or a cozy little caffee that seems to have good music playing. Anything. Learn to play a new card game. Go to a local chess club. Think about yourself before you think of others for once.
Hell, maybe even try to see if there's any part-time jobs around. Seriously, not having a job doesn't suck just because of the "no income" bit.
That said, get out some. Take a walk. Look around, see if you can't find anything you like. Maybe a library. Or a cozy little caffee that seems to have good music playing. Anything. Learn to play a new card game. Go to a local chess club. Think about yourself before you think of others for once.
Hell, maybe even try to see if there's any part-time jobs around. Seriously, not having a job doesn't suck just because of the "no income" bit.