And personally, I did the zoom thing. It was more chaotic than regularly hanging out. I can easily chalk up not getting why people like social media to me being an introvert, but I do not get why people consider it to be a right.
They don't in any real sense. If you look closely at the underlying arguments it tends to be less that Social Media is a right and more that they're interpreting the ban to fit their victim complex.
Take Parler as a case in point. The truth behind the matter is that Amazon Web Services had been telling Parler since November that the content advocating violence that they were hosting was in violation of their contractual obligation to use the service responsibly. Around this time they warned Parler that they needed to step up their game and more effectively moderate that content, of which AWS promptly supplied 100 rather explicit examples. Cue the events of January 6, at which point not only had no substantive steps been taken to address the issue, but Parler's CEO indicated the backlog had grown to 26,000. Worse still, in discussions with AWS in the days following, he proffered the very token suggestion that Parler would be looking into creating a volunteer-based reactive system. That is not just a blase approach to a problem they'd been told to address months ago, that's very much 'too little, too late' in light of both the events from what was then a few days prior and the fact that the content in question included the likes of the following:
"#JackDorsey ... you will die a bloody death alongside Mark Suckerturd [Zuckerberg].... It has been decided and plans are being put in place. Remember the photographs inside your home while you slept? Yes, that close. You will die a sudden death!
"We are going to fight in a civil War on Jan.20th, Form MILITIAS now and acquire targets."
"On January 20th we need to start systematicly [sic] assassinating [sic] #liberal leaders, liberal activists, #blm leaders and supporters, members of the #nba #nfl #mlb #nhl #mainstreammedia anchors and correspondents and #antifa. I already have a news worthy event planned."
"Shoot the police that protect these shitbag senators right in the head then make the senator grovel a bit before capping they ass."
"Death to @zuckerberg @realjeffbezos @jackdorsey @pichai."
"We are coming with our list we know where you live we know who you are and we are coming for you and it starts on the 6th civil war... Lol if you will think it’s a joke... Enjoy your last few days you have."
But if you talk to the people objecting to AWS cutting Parler's services, you quickly notice that they don't know and/or don't care about that context. In their minds the only relevant information is that Parler was billed to them as a
conservative site and AWS is not conservative. And you see this constantly in their arguments, which paint it not as the termination for breach of contract after giving them months of forewarning, or Parler dragging its feet about dealing with content promoting of violence, and thereby creating both a safety issue and a PR nightmare for their business partners, but instead as as s political hitjob; as liberals forbidding
conservatism (as if they believed that the quotes above were representative of conservative politics, and only liberals could object to it) and therefore banning conservatives out of pure partisan spite.
We saw something similar with the Unite the Right rally in Charlottesville. Once again, the usual suspects didn't know and/or care that the people there were chanting "Blood and soil" and "Jews will not replace us", nor about the concerning concentration of swastikas, valknut, and deus vult crosses. Nevermind that it was organized by literal neo-Nazis like the Stormer Book Clubs and Identity Envropa, and Klansmen like the Loyal White Knights and Confederate White Knights...no no, the only thing that matters to them is that it was the Unite the
Right rally, therefore to say that there was a heavy presence of neo-Nazis, Klansmen, and white supremacists at the event must by necessity mean that the speaker is saying that
anyone and everyone on the political right is a neo-Nazi, Klansman, and/or white supremacist. Which, frankly, is a breathtaking example of cutting off their nose to spite their face, in that in trying to satisfy a knee-jerk partisan impulse to 'prove' that 'the libs are always wrong', the argument they themselves end up promoting is that the aforementioned groups are representative of regular Republicans...you know, the very argument they're saying liberals are making. It's like they only think of this as some kind of self-contained point-scoring match and don't think of the greater ramifications of the points they're arguing.
Back to the point, however, this is a bit of a recurring trend, seen not just in the above but also in cries of "Trump derangement syndrome", "war on Christmas", and "liberal hysteria" in general. In recent years it's also been seeing heavy use in the realm of "religious freedom/discrimination", perhaps most blatantly in March/April last year when the usual suspects started positing that churches
not being excluded from lockdown rules on Easter meant the lockdown was unfairly persecuting Christians (nevermind that the churches themselves were broadly saying that they
agreed with the regulations for safety reasons), and then cynically (and baselessly) predicting that when Ramadan came a few weeks later law enforcement would probably give mosques the exemption they wouldn't give churches. Through this, safety measures meant to slow the spread of Covid were recast as anti-Christian discrimination. See also "wait, I don't get a special exemption to discriminate against a protected class because of my 'sincerely held religious beliefs'? How dare they discriminate against me like that!"
In each case, the necessary context and actual rationale for the action is almost religiously ignored so as to present an irrelevant incidental as if it were the driving factor. Moreover by removing all that context it attempts to paint the topic as singling out and bullying their own demographic rather than their demographic simply not being given special treatment.
Objections to Trump's Twitter ban very much fits the same pattern. That Trump has been in flagrant violation of Twitter's terms of use policy for
years now hasn't even been a open secret, it was just out in the open, with Twitter explicitly saying that because Trump was the PoTUS they had to weigh the violations against both the newsworthiness of the president's statements and the public interest of understanding his thought process. Cue January 6, and the rest is history. But no, no...it doesn't matter that Twitter had been giving Trump a pass to ignore the rules for years and that the violent storming of the Capitol in his name due to the misinformation he used Twitter to propogate was the straw that broke the camel's back. No, all that matters is that they banned a prominent Republican! Therefore Twitter is obviously conspiring with Democrats and the 'Radical Left' to ban Republicans out of partisan spite! *eyeroll*
At the end of the day it's usually less about a 'right' to social media and more about them ignoring the actual contributing factors to force the event through an "us vs. them" lens.