Hey. This past semester, I transferred into a four-year school, and I'm living on campus. I hate the people I live with though. I'm in a suite with five other guys, as well as the two to four girls who come over every day.
They're all super obnoxious, stay up until around one a.m. every night, and have poor hygiene. They don't seem to know how to communicate any way other than shouting. The guys never stop talking about sex whenever the girls leave. They're all constantly saying racist and sexist stuff. They're just all really unpleasant people I'd rather be nowhere near.
I feel kind of trapped. I really don't like living here, but the other five (or seven or nine) are having the time of their lives. They're not going to listen to any complaints I bring up, and in all honesty it doesn't seem fair to make five to nine people change their behavior to appease one person.
Additionally, in a somewhat related problem, I'm having problems making friends. Our suite is in its own secluded corner, with the door closed, so I don't know anyone in the dorms. I'd go to on-campus clubs and activities, but my suite mates and the girls are desperate for friends too, so they all go to pretty much every event. I want to spend as little time around them as possible. Just veing in the same room as them puts me in a bad mood.
I haven't been able to legitimately relax since I got here mid-January. I'm feel like I'm going crazy here. If anyone has any advice on either front, it'd be appreciated. Also, please forgive the not-so-elequent writing. I'm tired and upset.
They're all super obnoxious, stay up until around one a.m. every night, and have poor hygiene. They don't seem to know how to communicate any way other than shouting. The guys never stop talking about sex whenever the girls leave. They're all constantly saying racist and sexist stuff. They're just all really unpleasant people I'd rather be nowhere near.
I feel kind of trapped. I really don't like living here, but the other five (or seven or nine) are having the time of their lives. They're not going to listen to any complaints I bring up, and in all honesty it doesn't seem fair to make five to nine people change their behavior to appease one person.
Additionally, in a somewhat related problem, I'm having problems making friends. Our suite is in its own secluded corner, with the door closed, so I don't know anyone in the dorms. I'd go to on-campus clubs and activities, but my suite mates and the girls are desperate for friends too, so they all go to pretty much every event. I want to spend as little time around them as possible. Just veing in the same room as them puts me in a bad mood.
I haven't been able to legitimately relax since I got here mid-January. I'm feel like I'm going crazy here. If anyone has any advice on either front, it'd be appreciated. Also, please forgive the not-so-elequent writing. I'm tired and upset.
