I have a question more geared towards the males on this forum but everyone is free to respond

[BonsaiK]

why do some guys (i find this more with gamers, nerds, and mormons for some odd reason) not find themselves attractive when clearly they are.......

and have women fight over them?

to clarify, i'm not trying to single anyone out and by guys i mean males in general i just want a little bit of insight into the male psyche.......

I've addressed this in the Relationship Problem thread, not because I think you have a problem that needs fixing, but because this issue will be of relevance to many regular readers of that thread, and it's something I've never really touched on in depth there.

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread?page=30#5620109

 

[Blow_Pop]

why do some guys (i find this more with gamers, nerds, and mormons for some odd reason) not find themselves attractive when clearly they are.......

and have women fight over them?

to clarify, i'm not trying to single anyone out and by guys i mean males in general i just want a little bit of insight into the male psyche.......

I've addressed this in the Relationship Problem thread, not because I think you have a problem that needs fixing, but because this issue will be of relevance to many regular readers of that thread, and it's something I've never really touched on in depth there.

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread?page=30#5620109

That was actually a very good read. and highly insightful. It does work both ways. I will say that. Girls can be the same way. Just as shy as guys. Thanks

 

[BonsaiK]

why do some guys (i find this more with gamers, nerds, and mormons for some odd reason) not find themselves attractive when clearly they are.......

and have women fight over them?

to clarify, i'm not trying to single anyone out and by guys i mean males in general i just want a little bit of insight into the male psyche.......

I've addressed this in the Relationship Problem thread, not because I think you have a problem that needs fixing, but because this issue will be of relevance to many regular readers of that thread, and it's something I've never really touched on in depth there.

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.117161-Relationship-problem-thread?page=30#5620109

That was actually a very good read. and highly insightful. It does work both ways. I will say that. Girls can be the same way. Just as shy as guys. Thanks

Yes, I agree. Girls can often be even shyer. The absolutely shyest people I've ever met have all been female. However, being a shy female doesn't carry the same social stigma as being a shy male. Men are expected to be the ones to step forward. It's similar but different.