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Raikov

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I must say, you guys are awesome. It feels really good that not everyone in here is just the regular troll.

I'm on skype with her right now. And she is remembering things even as we speak, about things we said to each other and stuff we planned to do. About my allergies, the car I'm borrowing. And that I call her every morning at 0530 to wake her up for work. Even that my work hours this week is 0530 till 1330 so that I get up at 0400. I'm actually crying happy tears!

She remembers getting epicly good at PvP in WoW. It may not sound like much, but back when we played Aion she hated PvP =')

King Toasty said:
Wow. You're a brave man, and good luck. I'm happy for you that she seems to be OK.
Secret world leader (shhh) said:
Everything's going to be OK. Just hang in there and it'll all work out in the end. She'll get her memories back soon.

I'd suggest you go see her in person as soon as you can, let her know you're there for her.

Your story has evoked the most sympathy in me i've felt in a while.

But really though, go see her, walk or swim if you have to, do whatever it takes, we're with you bro.
Amaria said:
Raikov said:
I know the parts of her she forgot. But she doesn't remember them yet, so I am afraid that a part of the person I love is gone, and then so is the 'me knowing her better'-part. I can't know those part, because they don't exist anymore.
If you know what I mean.
She's still herself, even if she doesn't remember it all. Those parts of her that you love DO still exist, she just doesn't know it. If you want to be really romantic, you can say you love her right now for everything that she is and will be, once she remembers.

The fact that she remembered you before her best friend speaks so much towards your relationship. Just... think about that, for a bit. After she forgot everything and everybody, she remembers you before some of her closest friends. Even if she doesn't remember some of the little things, she does get the important stuff, like how she loves you. Everything else will come back in time.

This is temporary, and it'll work out. 'It's always darkest right before the dawn' and everything, right?

Thank you for all your kind words. She's trying to stop me crying by claiming I get her killed in PvP xD
 

Amaria

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Raikov said:
I must say, you guys are awesome. It feels really good that not everyone in here is just the regular troll.

I'm on skype with her right now. And she is remembering things even as we speak, about things we said to each other and stuff we planned to do. About my allergies, the car I'm borrowing. And that I call her every morning at 0530 to wake her up for work. Even that my work hours this week is 0530 till 1330 so that I get up at 0400. I'm actually crying happy tears!

She remembers getting epicly good at PvP in WoW. It may not sound like much, but back when we played Aion she hated PvP =')
Raikov said:
Thank you for all your kind words. She's trying to stop me crying by claiming I get her killed in PvP xD
Well, I'm glad that we could help you...

Wait. You get her killed in PvP? You JERK! How could you do that to the girl you love? All of my sympathy is lost, forever. FOREVER.

(I'm kidding. I'm glad that she's feeling better and I hope you two have an idyllic, happy life together, with a picket fence and... a dog, or something. Or just kill noobs together in WoW, that works too.

It's okay to let yourself cry a bit, just don't make her feel bad by doing it in front of her.)
 

Raikov

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Ok, so for anyone that actually reads this anymore, I have great news. She remembered everything last night, which according to her doctor was an amazingly speedy recovery. She doesn't remember exactly everything though, but she remembers the important parts. And now she knows that she forgot stuff, which also is very important, instead of just being confused.

Her heart is working just fine too! And she was really hungry when I was on the phone with her just minutes ago.

The last two days have been the most exhausting in my life. But everything will be okay, and she will recover some more memories over time. Some stuff will probably be lost though, but those are details of her life several years ago.

steeple said:
Secret world leader (shhh) said:
Amaria said:
SckizoBoy said:
*shrug* Good luck & *internet man hug*!
Thank you so much for listening. Even if it was just for a short while.

*internet man hug to all of you =)*
 

steeple

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Raikov said:
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that's great news man! sounds like everything is going alright, and even better then what could have been expected.

I'm sure everyone here would be happy to hear about this progress, and will hope that you'll stay this happy for a long, long time...

good luck down the road man.