I met this girl last night...

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BonsaiK

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MikeOfThunder said:
Right, I'm probably over thinking all of this but anyway.

I was actually out on the 1st April night to just generally get drunk and have a laugh with my friends, what ensued was me pretty much disappearing for their entire night.

I was upstairs in this club and I met this girl dressed as Princess Peach. We ended up talking about all sorts for a few hours. We shared numbers and we kissed etc. Everything was awesome and we text a bit afterward the club (her asking me to join her at a bar the next day with her friend).

Anyway this is my problem - I text her in the morning and I got no response. I added her on facebook aswell and she's not accepted yet.

Now as I write this I'm seeing that it's only actually been 24 hours since I text her, but I need a reply! This shit doesnt happen to me and this girl in so many ways was perfect and I can't let her slip through my fingers.

I figure that I might text her again tomorrow morning asking if she wants to go get a drink or something but I need help. What should I say - or should I not text her? (she didn't respond yesterday morning!)

Oh she also lives down South and is just up visiting friends for a week, so I'm thinking I've got a time limit. Please tell me if I'm just overthinking it, but i really like this girl and I want to meet her when I'm not drunk.
She might not look like Princess Peach when you're sober.

Leave it for a while. You don't want to be clingy and needy. Girls like guys who are fun and confident, not desperate and insecure. It's possible that it was just a drunken snog so don't get your hopes up, just let it ride and see what happens. Maybe text her again in a few days, then let it go - if she wants you she'll come to you, if not, well just be happy that what happened did in fact happen and move onto the next experience.
 

similar.squirrel

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Colour-Scientist said:
Don't text her again! Wait for her to come to you!
There's nothing more off-putting than a guy who comes across as needy.

Leave it for a while, if you've text her already she'll reply when she's ready.
As a guy with needy tendencies [currently being purged], I would also recommend this course of action. You're screwing yourself over otherwise.