As someone with experience on the other side of the ball, I'll give some basic advice. Get a job, or at the very least, work toward getting one. If that's the primary reason you consider yourself a failure, and you considering yourself as such is the reason he feels bad, both you and he will feel infinitely better once you're getting income.Spiterider said:i'll re-explain, he is gay and has feeling for me, i am not and therefore cannot return those feelings. also he wants me to be happy but i consider myself a failure at times since i am currently unemployed and so forth. but yeah so far to no avail on the music. he feels really bad, and well i suck at the helping people cheer up thing.
I was totally going to link Caramelldansen too. Right after I seized this excuse to once again pimp Fang Island:Spiterider said:the song that made him happy- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A67ZkAd1wmI
yeah i've been looking for the past month since i lost the otherone due to vehicular failure. just hard goings is all.Miles Tormani said:As someone with experience on the other side of the ball, I'll give some basic advice. Get a job, or at the very least, work toward getting one. If that's the primary reason you consider yourself a failure, and you considering yourself as such is the reason he feels bad, both you and he will feel infinitely better once you're getting income.Spiterider said:i'll re-explain, he is gay and has feeling for me, i am not and therefore cannot return those feelings. also he wants me to be happy but i consider myself a failure at times since i am currently unemployed and so forth. but yeah so far to no avail on the music. he feels really bad, and well i suck at the helping people cheer up thing.
Also, since getting a job is certainly difficult in this apparently economic climate, don't be discouraged when an employer doesn't hire you. Just keep trying. The more effort you put into it, the more likely a potential employer will take notice. This is especially important if you recently lost a job, because if you spend too much time job-less, potential employers also pay attention to that.
EDIT: Of course Caramelldansen is what eventually wound up working. Why would I ever think of anything else?
"You got a friend in me" - Y'now the one, The Toy Story one!Spiterider said:ok my friend is really down in the dumps right now and i want to cheer him up, namely cuz i am at fault for it. so i need a song that nobady can resist smiling to any help?
Our school's Musical Theater (which I was in) just did Footloose. Great memories.Quaxar said:Classic. Great song and ridiculous video: