I need help from the girls here

[MasterChowmein]

Well there is this girl i like, and i talk to her almost everyday on myspace. She goes to my school and she is one of the only girls that i don't find horribly annoying. I was messaging her on myspace when she just stops talking for some reason, i knew she was playing around so i called her on it, i said "So you ARE ignoring me. Well that's just rude" Then she sends me a smiley face. After that i said "You wouldn't have even replied if i didn't call you on the fact that your ignoring me." She knows I'm being sarcastic because that's the kind of person i am, then she just says "Goodnight (my name here)" Can someone tell me what shes doing? This was at 7:00 and she always stays up until 12. I talk to her everyday at school, and she ignores me only on myspace, i can tell shes messing around because every time i see her at school i say hello and start a conversation, and say "Well it's good you don't ignore me in face to face." and we both have a good laugh about it. Then she continues to just send me smileys when i try to talk to her.

 

[Cherry Cola]

Going to bed?

 

[Dudemeister]

Going to bed?

I'm gonna have to go with this.

 

[MasterChowmein]

Going to bed?

At 7?

 

[El Poncho]

She doesn't want to talk? I know when i'm busy and a girl says to me are you ignoring me I get annoyed a bit and act like a douche to them to try get them to go away( but that never works, I must rethink my tactics)

Edit: I'm no girl but I suggest you don't talk to her as regulary as you do. My friends once said if you cut off all communications they will want to talk to you even more, but I've never tryed it myself.

 

[MorsePacific]

Uh, maybe she had something to do? Does there always have to be an ulterior motive behind everything a girl does? It just takes a little common sense.

 

[messy]

Sarcasm doesn't work over the computer very well

Simple as that

 

[Cherry Cola]

Going to bed?

At 7?

Here's what I think in more detail.

She wasn't ignoring you, she was busy doing something. She gave you a quick smiley to show that she wasn't ignoring you. Then she quickly has to go.

She's not pissed at you or anything, not what I think. She just had to leave the computer for the rest of the day.

 

[Kpt._Rob]

Here's an idea. Calm the fuck down. Just wait until you can talk to her in real life and figure it out then. Trying to figure out what the hell is going on based on text messages is a rediculous idea, you'll just stress yourself out and collapse in a nervous fit.

 

[Irridium]

Maybe she has been busy?

Relax, stop being so paranoid.

 

[khaimera]

Or maybe she is not that into you and found another guy. Maybe its someone who talks to her more in real life and not just on myspace.

Man my posts are getting more and more negative as time goes on.

 

[DuplicateValue]

I'm not a girl, but even I can tell what you're doing wrong - you're coming across as kind of clingy/persistent.

Sarcasm doesn't translate well into text, you see.

 

[VintageElise]

Sarcasm on the internet really doesn't work.

Just try talking to her in school. You can be as sarcastic as you want then.

 

[Kill100577]

Mabye she had to watch this weeks Zero Puncuation so she rushed off and was then pissed at how short and crappy it was and has been crying about it ever since?

 

[MasterChowmein]

Going to bed?

At 7?

Here's what I think in more detail.

She wasn't ignoring you, she was busy doing something. She gave you a quick smiley to show that she wasn't ignoring you. Then she quickly has to go.

She's not pissed at you or anything, not what I think. She just had to leave the computer for the rest of the day.

Ok i think i should go into more detail with my post

 

[ae86gamer]

She had something to do? She was tired? Her favorite show was on? She's secretly a super hero and had to go save someone?

Why don't you ask her the next time you see her at school?

 

[DuplicateValue]

Mabye she had to watch this weeks Zero Puncuation so she rushed off and was then pissed at how short and crappy it was and has been crying about it ever since?

Good one. /sarcasm

 

[El Poncho]

Or maybe she is not that into you and found another guy. Maybe its someone who talks to her more in real life and not just on myspace.

Man my posts are getting more and more negative as time goes on.

Maybe turning your avatars frown upside down.

 

[Sronpop]

Some times they just don't want to talk dude, you gotta respect that, I am no stranger to meeting girls and talking to them almost entirely on msn or texting, and I have made plenty of mess ups believe me. Put it this way, if you talk to her as much as you say you and you feel like their is something their, she probably senses it too, and is just trying to sort you out in here head so she knows where you are at. In a day, or maybe a few days she will more than likely be dying to talk to you, and you should do it of course.

As for who makes the first move, thats your choice man, do you wait for her, or do you put your heart on your sleeve and go for it?

Good luck anyway dude.

 

[Destal]

If you really like her, you need to be less available. Its hard for a girl to desire you when you are available 100% of the time. You need time not together to get that desire built up, or she's just not that into you.