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khaimera

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poncho14 said:
khaimera said:
Or maybe she is not that into you and found another guy. Maybe its someone who talks to her more in real life and not just on myspace.

Man my posts are getting more and more negative as time goes on.
Maybe turning your avatars frown upside down.
I wish I knew how to. I would change it to a staight line. A smile would be too unlike me.

I like my avatar because it is fun yet sad. So complex, I know.
 

Woodsey

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She's probably just chatting up other guys and trying to get away from you as much as possible to be honest - the only reason she talks face to face is because that's harder to get out of.

[small]I'm kidding, relax. Just don't be such a sex pest to her.[/small]
 

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MasterChowmein said:
Your first post
I can kinda see where you're coming from. I do have the odd friend who knows me well enough to read my sarcasm via text. However, even if you believe this to be true, it's risky to assume that somebody can tell that you're sarcastic online. Even with my friends who know my sarcasm, some things can still get lost in translation, so I couple sarcasm with a ;) or :p or "jk!"

Think for a second, though. You figure that she just knows that you're sarcastic, but this isn't infallible, no matter how well you think she knows you. All it takes is the slightest off-mood and if you gave no further indication that you were sarcastic, think of how you just came across. People get busy all the time when chatting online; the difference between online chatting and talking on the phone is that you can take your time, stop and go as you please, etc. She might have been distracted away by some situation that made her less susceptible to your sarcasm. Then, if she doesn't realize you're sarcastic, then how do you think you came across by writing "So you ARE ignoring me. Well that's just rude"? Then, as a courtesy, she responds, to let you know that she's there, or she's back, or something, and rather than carry on a conversation, you reply "You wouldn't have even replied if i didn't call you on the fact that your ignoring me."

If she was in the middle of a situation that was somewhat less than pleasant, it's not hard to see why she might have identified the conversation as being something she didn't want to take part in, and called it a night for you. I can't tell you if she was phased by it or not, but at any rate, what you did was not very well played, based on the information I could gather from your post.
 

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MasterChowmein said:
essing around because every time i see her at school i say hello and start a conversation, and say "Well it's good you don't ignore me in face to face." and we both have a good laugh about it. Then she continues to just send me smileys when i try to talk to her.
I'm not sure if my mind's playing tricks on me, but I totally did not see this part when I first read your post.

WARNING! YOU ARE BEING VERY ANNOYING!

I'm saying this to be helpful, though. If there was a reason that she ignored you before, you're giving her more reasons now. Pressing on with the "quit ignoring me" antics can be very frustrating. You might not see it, and I might even be wrong, but it's a huge risk with no real reward. The best case scenario is that the joke is played out and not funny. The worst case scenario is that she feels that you're trying to guilt her out of ignoring you, or otherwise trying to negatively reinforce her into talking to you more. You could very easily be sending off a "this is what you get for pausing in our online conversation" message, which is entirely unwelcome.

Seriously, drop it. It wasn't funny before, it isn't funny now, and you are very probably pushing her further away from you each time you bring it up. What you should try to do is make her want to talk to you more because you're funny and interesting, and not because you feel that she is obligated to talk with you all the time.