I need morale support... (or feel free to insult me)

[slackbheep]

You probably did the right thing, what you are experiencing is a cross between heartache and punishment from your junk, at least one of those things will pass.

 

[EeveeElectro]

Can someone tell me when The Esacapist became Yahoo! Answers?!

Any minute now erana is going to post an omg am i pregnent gaiz thread.

Hmmmm, looking at her posts she doesn't seem the sort. Pretty mature in general, she is. However, I wouldn't put it past Sky or Emilee to post that...

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Omg i'm pregnant guiz n i dunno who the dad is, shall I ask Yahoo??

 

[JanatUrlich]

You did the right thing, don't worry! She'll realise it too someday

 

[Troublesome Lagomorph]

You did the right thing.

 

[effilctar]

We broke up on our 11 month anniversary...

anniversary is a YEAR. do NOT call 11 months an 11 month anniversary. it makes it think less of you

 

[Sronpop]

'If your having girl problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems but a ***** aint one'

Be glad you have 2 girls, some people aren't as lucky.

 

[Rolling Thunder]

Sometimes you need a kind heart.

Sometimes, you just need to be an utter bastard.


In my opinion, you've done the right thing, but then again, in my opinion the prohibition against the use of incendiary weapons against civilian targets is an unneccesary limitation upon the glorious conduct of warfare, so I may be a somewhat unreliable opinion.

 

[Hazy]

You did the right thing.

Just to derail things sligthly, why is it that the right thing is hardly ever the easiest thing to do? It bloody well sucks.

Like the old adage goes:
The best path is the hardest earned.
But I agree. It does seem that way.

 

[jasoncyrus]

Hello all... i know this is a stupid sort of post... and i dont even know why im making it.. but here goes.

The situation is i am a 17 year old male. I was dating a 17 year old female. We broke up on our 11 month anniversary... I got with a 21 year old. I have been with her for the past 2 months... About 2 hours ago i broke it off... because i could get out of bed in the morning with her telling me she loved me... Knowing that i still loved the 17 year old... I would have been lying to say i loved her back... SO now me and the 21 year old are over... And i feel bad even though i technically did the right thing... i did tell her i didnt feel love for her... and you cant force a feeling... SO did i do the right thing by leaving her? or am i an idiot... Be as harsh as you want or as kind or gentle... just need morale support....

A'll be blunt. Yes, You're an idiot. I've got over a decade o experience in such horrible break offs and trust me. When you get a companion that comes along that genuinely loves you. You don't let it go. Ever. the rough equation for relationship recovery is this Nlove(how long you have loved)*Slove(the strength of the bond between you)*(Litems+LMemories)(Litems =items you bought and received to show love to that partner and Lmemories being your memories of that love you felt)/SNeLove(how strong you feel this new love, which increases in value over time).

so Nlove*Slove*(Litems+LMemories)/SNeLove=recovery time.

Basically to cut a very long explaination short, for 11 months of relationship with a strong connection and many trinkets against a 2months relationship, it'll take you about...3-5 years to get over your original gf. Regardless of who you are seeing.

 

[Mr Companion]

I don't know why you gone out with a 21 year old while still dating a 17 year old but ok you did the right thing.

 

[FightThePower]

I think you did the right thing; there's no point staying with her if you don't love her as much as she loves you, otherwise in time you'll hurt her a lot more.

And since I'm allowed to insult you...can you please...stop...with...the constant...ellipsis points...

Seriously, it's really annoying to read.

 

[L4hlborg]

If you think this 17 year old girl is amazing, kind, considerate, wouldnt hurt a fly, is understanding and forgiving, then ask her back out and if she really is the person you think, shell just be glad to have you again.

Funny. I highly dislike people who wouldn't do anything bad to flies, since that means that they are a part of that human group, that whines if Obama hits a fly on tv and starts sending him fly cages. Crazy people.

Anyway, on topic. I'm a pretty weird guy who has never been in a relationship so listening to me is not the smartest thing to do in the world but, IMO you probably did the right thing (so far). If you don't love someone in the way you think they love you, it's kinda unfair to keep on going... But, don't ask me. I'm the socially awkward weirdo.

 

[Death_Korps_Kommissar]

Hello all... i know this is a stupid sort of post... and i dont even know why im making it.. but here goes.

The situation is i am a 17 year old male. I was dating a 17 year old female. We broke up on our 11 month anniversary... I got with a 21 year old. I have been with her for the past 2 months... About 2 hours ago i broke it off... because i could get out of bed in the morning with her telling me she loved me... Knowing that i still loved the 17 year old... I would have been lying to say i loved her back... SO now me and the 21 year old are over... And i feel bad even though i technically did the right thing... i did tell her i didnt feel love for her... and you cant force a feeling... SO did i do the right thing by leaving her? or am i an idiot... Be as harsh as you want or as kind or gentle... just need morale support....

I know how ya feel I went through basically the same thing before.
It's a tough decision but in the long run it's better that you broke it off now instead of just leading her on and just making it harder and harder to do it