I need to know, was i in the right?

[Brad Shepard]

this is kinda a long story, so bear with me please.

Ok, so i was hanging out with my buddies on sunday, it was a good time, we where just having fun, and then my friend starts getting into a "Dick" mode. for some back story, he has had 1 good relactionship, and he broke up with her because she wouldent put out. anyway, he has been flurting with my girlfriend for the past few months, and i continured to tell him to back off, and i would have ended owr friendship right then and there, but after knowing the guy for 10 years, i was trying to give him a chance. (Back to sunday, sorry) he started insulting her, stuff like she is going to cheat on me and how im stupid for trusting her. then he called her a slut, thats when i lost it, i went to punch him, but he cought my punch, then i kicked him in the side of the head, knocking him out, i then walked home, and was angry for the rest of the night.

well, what want to know is was i in the right or not? because i dont feel bad, i just want to know if it was right of me to do or not.

You know him better than any of us could, so I'm sure your context makes much more sense but it seems to me that in his mind he was looking out for you, unless of course as you say, he's just a dick, and was only talking shit to insult her. If you don't feel guilty than what's the problem?

the problem is i have never been a angry person, in fact, im a passifist, ive never hurt anyone in my life, i took Taekwondo as a form to work out and to center myself, not to hurt people, and then i kick him in the head, i dident think i would do it, even though i thought about it.

People say chivalry is dead, but then guys like you go and prove that it isn't. Regardless of what anyone else says, you were defending your girlfriend's honor. If that ass can't respect her, then he deserved what he got, and you should feel no shame for what you did. I'm not saying you should stand tall and boast, but accept that you did it, and he deserved it.

I believe chivalry has very little to do with "kicking someone in the head and knocking him out".

While I kind of understand his reaction, I do think it turned out a little too extreme. It also makes me wonder what sort of friends they must have been when extreme violence is the first option that springs to mind as the answer to a problem.


And did you just leave him there? Unconscious and all? Maybe half dead? You know, Kick in the brains? It doesn't do wonders to people's health last time I checked.

He could fake some disability and sue you. And there wouldn't be much you could do about it, would there? I don't think "defending my girldfriend's honour" is a good argument in court.

and i dident leave him there alone, his room mate, my best friend, was there with him, in the terms of health, hes fine, his prides hurt though, because "wimpey little Brad" Kicked his ass.

 

[GuideBot]

The way things are is the way things are. The only way to be happy is to accept that. So, from that point of view, if you're happy with the way things went, you're in the right.

My point of view? You did the right thing. I would have done the same.

 

[KurtzGallahad]

He was a good friend, if he caught your punch he could easily have parried your kick, he allowed you to knock him out, because you're important to him, also,

What the Fuck, you knocked out your friend of ten years, have you considered anger management or something

 

[KurtzGallahad]

I am chivalrous, that was not defending her honour, defending her honour would not be "Losing it" it would be telling him he was in breach of honour and telling him you would fight to protect her name (at this pont he should back down) anger is not part of the noble tradition and self control is paramount

 

[MiserableOldGit]

You probably could have handled it more calmly and came out of the situation looking better, but fuck it-he was yanking your chain, he got bit- maybe he'll learn to be a little more respectful in the future.

By the way, when you say kicked in the head, was this in a scuffle while he was bent over, or did you get your foot up there from standing? Thats quite impressive if you did..

 

[beddo]

this is kinda a long story, so bear with me please.

Ok, so i was hanging out with my buddies on sunday, it was a good time, we where just having fun, and then my friend starts getting into a "Dick" mode. for some back story, he has had 1 good relactionship, and he broke up with her because she wouldent put out. anyway, he has been flurting with my girlfriend for the past few months, and i continured to tell him to back off, and i would have ended owr friendship right then and there, but after knowing the guy for 10 years, i was trying to give him a chance. (Back to sunday, sorry) he started insulting her, stuff like she is going to cheat on me and how im stupid for trusting her. then he called her a slut, thats when i lost it, i went to punch him, but he cought my punch, then i kicked him in the side of the head, knocking him out, i then walked home, and was angry for the rest of the night.

well, what want to know is was i in the right or not? because i dont feel bad, i just want to know if it was right of me to do or not.

What you've done is terrible, no capital letters at the start of sentences, terrible grammar, atrocious spelling and no respect for proper punctuation.

 

[DSEZ]

this is kinda a long story, so bear with me please.

Ok, so i was hanging out with my buddies on sunday, it was a good time, we where just having fun, and then my friend starts getting into a "Dick" mode. for some back story, he has had 1 good relactionship, and he broke up with her because she wouldent put out. anyway, he has been flurting with my girlfriend for the past few months, and i continured to tell him to back off, and i would have ended owr friendship right then and there, but after knowing the guy for 10 years, i was trying to give him a chance. (Back to sunday, sorry) he started insulting her, stuff like she is going to cheat on me and how im stupid for trusting her. then he called her a slut, thats when i lost it, i went to punch him, but he cought my punch, then i kicked him in the side of the head, knocking him out, i then walked home, and was angry for the rest of the night.

well, what want to know is was i in the right or not? because i dont feel bad, i just want to know if it was right of me to do or not.

ive done that before be glad you didnt get a assualt charge for it

OT:well since ive done that before im gonna say yeah you did do the right thing maybe he got the message

 

[Tiny116]

And congradulate you on that kick

Seconded.

I'd just completely ignore the scumbag and spend more time with your girlfirend.

 

[JoshGod]

so he flirts with your girlfriends then insults her does he think 10 ys of friendship gets him out of that kick?

of course your in the wrong. you should of kicked him again.

 

[JEBWrench]

Hell yeah you were in the right. Good job.

 

[ProfessorLayton]

It wasn't cool of you to do that, but it was even less cool of him. That really doesn't sound like a friend, to me.

 

[zHellas]

this is kinda a long story, so bear with me please.

Ok, so i was hanging out with my buddies on sunday, it was a good time, we where just having fun, and then my friend starts getting into a "Dick" mode. for some back story, he has had 1 good relactionship, and he broke up with her because she wouldent put out. anyway, he has been flurting with my girlfriend for the past few months, and i continured to tell him to back off, and i would have ended owr friendship right then and there, but after knowing the guy for 10 years, i was trying to give him a chance. (Back to sunday, sorry) he started insulting her, stuff like she is going to cheat on me and how im stupid for trusting her. then he called her a slut, thats when i lost it, i went to punch him, but he cought my punch, then i kicked him in the side of the head, knocking him out, i then walked home, and was angry for the rest of the night.

well, what want to know is was i in the right or not? because i dont feel bad, i just want to know if it was right of me to do or not.

From what you've just placed, of course you were fucking right in beating him. The flirting was fine, maybe a little sign that he was envious of your relationship with your girlfriend but when he started insulting her without basis then that was where you had the greenlight for kicking his ass.

 

[Brad Shepard]

People say chivalry is dead, but then guys like you go and prove that it isn't. Regardless of what anyone else says, you were defending your girlfriend's honor. If that ass can't respect her, then he deserved what he got, and you should feel no shame for what you did. I'm not saying you should stand tall and boast, but accept that you did it, and he deserved it.

I believe chivalry has very little to do with "kicking someone in the head and knocking him out".

He could fake some disability and sue you. And there wouldn't be much you could do about it, would there? I don't think "defending my girldfriend's honour" is a good argument in court.

Yes, kicking someone in the head when they are being an ass to your girlfriend is most certainly chivalrous, I don't really care what ANYONE says contrary to that idea.
Also he can go ahead and sue, I forget the legal term, but mr.poster was provoked, it may have been dickhead friends intention to get kicked in the head so he could sue, and if he does he definitely won't have any friends left, either way all the poster has to do is pay a medical bill (a large one for sure) and maybe a little more (possibly a lot more) but the guy who got kicked won't have any one to hang out with any more, because people who know what happened know he was asking for it. So, compensation and loneliness, or pay the bill yourself and try to make amends? I think we can see which is the better option.

Damnit, Mr.Poster would have been a awesome name, too bad i already changed my name once. and thanks for defending me