Stormz said:
The first time is so weird. My anxiety right before I said it almost made me back out. Oh well you're right. The next time should be easier, though it won't be for a long time. I still need to get over this one :,(BloatedGuppy said:Stormz said:
Onwards and upwards. I give you full marks for going through with it. Now that you've seen that it didn't kill you and your life has continued in much the same condition as it was in before, you'll be able to do it again. And again. And eventually someone will say "yes".
And then ROMANCE. =D
I talked to her quite a bit before hand and we walk to classes together almost everyday so I guess I could consider her a friend, though we don't actually hang out or anything. She also hugs me every once in a while (Not sure that will happen now that I've confessed and it might hurt me more if she did anyway) I'm not really sure if she shares your feelings about it to be honest. We aren't really close.ReadyAmyFire said:Sorry to hear you were shot down, but so many kudos for being brave about it. Though if you had already been friends beforehand I'd say it was a mistake to act on it, rarely can a relationship go from platonic to romantic, at least in my experience.
If she's anything like me she thinks of her uni people more as colleagues, perhaps friends, than potential partners, which would be weird. Doesn't necessarily mean she thinks your unattractive or anything.
I'm purposely avoiding talking to a chap in my class I like because I think relationships need to be defined as romantic from the get-go, thankfully we're only uni 'colleagues' for one more day
Perhaps, depends if she's that sort of person. It's a little like when you're approached by a chap who then tries to talk up his friend who is sitting in the corner. It just makes him seem like he has no confidence. Personally I don't really pity people, and would never feel obligated to spend time with someone just because they have no one else. I would guess she isn't doing that if she's happy enough to hug you though, she probably just likes you as a friend or uni person.Stormz said:
You'll get through it.Stormz said:I talked to her quite a bit before hand and we walk to classes together almost everyday so I guess I could consider her a friend, though we don't actually hang out or anything. She also hugs me every once in a while (Not sure that will happen now that I've confessed and it might hurt me more if she did anyway) I'm not really sure if she shares your feelings about it to be honest. We aren't really close.ReadyAmyFire said:Sorry to hear you were shot down, but so many kudos for being brave about it. Though if you had already been friends beforehand I'd say it was a mistake to act on it, rarely can a relationship go from platonic to romantic, at least in my experience.
If she's anything like me she thinks of her uni people more as colleagues, perhaps friends, than potential partners, which would be weird. Doesn't necessarily mean she thinks your unattractive or anything.
I'm purposely avoiding talking to a chap in my class I like because I think relationships need to be defined as romantic from the get-go, thankfully we're only uni 'colleagues' for one more day
A little something I found out though. One of my friends did in fact text her asking her to add me on facebook because I didn't talk to a lot of people. I got really angry and pretty much acted like a dick to him for several days because now it gives me the mind set that she's only hanging around me because she pities me. Am I wrong to think this? Might be a stupid question because no one here knows her but some outside input could help.
Plenty more fish in the sea. At least now you know and caan move on to other people. 
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That makes sense. I can't say for sure if she is that kind of person but I'd like to think she isn't. She's extremely nice so I'll try to believe that I'm wrong because then I can't help but feel like an asshole myself. Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it. Now it's time to move on.ReadyAmyFire said:
Maybe It's for the best though. But there's about a week or two left before I never see her again and it would suck to leave like that.
Why would it suck? People enters and leaves our lives constantly. Some great friends remain such for ever, but most just fade. Even if you see her in a year, half a year, two years, she might just remember the good parts and be all friendlylike. If not, well you will probably meet a lot of people in between.Stormz said:She's now avoiding me it seems. She literally kept her head down and didn't say a word to me today. See this was another thing I didn't want to happen. Now I've lost a friend, and I don't have many of those to begin with
Dude I am just like you but she's in History and and she sits two rows in front of me. But here's what I'm gonna say. Ask her if you guys can hang out at lunch and see where if it goes. If you can't do that than just go out with it and tell her. Even if she says no well atleast you tried. PeaceStormz said:
