I worry too much? Maybe you don't worry enough!

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Syphous

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Prepare for wall of text:

So last weekend I was hanging out with my family on the lake. Grilling, swimming, drinking, etc. Around 11AM I asked "Where's Charlie?" Charlie being our 84 year old neighbor, who also happens to be my Godfather. I get the usual responses, "Maybe he's out?" "Not sure, who cares?" and so on.

4PM comes "Has anyone seen Charlie at all today?"
"No, he must be out with his friends."

6PM comes "I'm going to invite Charlie over for dinner. If nothing else but to check on him."
I go to his house and knock on the storm-door. No answer. I try to open the storm-door to knock on the real door but the storm-door is locked.
"That's odd, those can only be locked from the inside.."

I go back and report to my family. I get a bunch of "Stop being paranoid, there's no need to worry. He probably locked that door then went out his basement door because he knew he'd be gone all day."

7PM, after dinner. "Ok, you know what, I'm going to check again." This time my sisters come with me. I try the front door, one sister tries the basement door, and my other sister calls out "CHARLIE?!"

From deep inside the house we here "HELP!"

Instant panic and adrenaline. I rip open the storm door, then kick in his two inner doors. "Charlie!?"

He was at the bottom of his basement steps. He had fallen off his exercise bike and broke his hip. Dragged himself to the stairs but was unable to pull himself up them. He had been there since 7AM. He has since had hip replacement surgery, is currently in a rehabilitation hospital and is feeling much better.

Now, the day after I got Charlie off his basement floor (well, I didn't, the paramedics did, but you know what I mean) I got a new puppy!

So I got my puppy from a rescue shelter down south, they then transported him up to New Hampshire where I picked him up exactly one week ago. He's about 13 weeks old, black lab and some kind of hound mix. He's been healthy and playing and everything, but he's had some diarrhea issues. I figured the stress between the move to a new home and the extreme heat/humidity we've been having was causing it. We were giving him Pedialyte to combat the possibility of dehydration.

Now things get worse. Last night he got up in the middle of the night about 5 times, each time having diarrhea. I was already concerned. But then this morning he TRIED to poop again, but instead of diarrhea it was some liquid with blood in it. This happened twice in a row. Now I'm EXTREMELY concerned.

He isn't vomiting at all, nor is he lethargic. He hasn't pooped since this morning so I'm not sure if he's still got blood in his stool. He's also developed a hacking cough that sounds like he's trying to clear something from his throat.

I called the local emergency vet but the amount of money we'd have to pay isn't possible. The only thing we can do is wait until tomorrow and see our regular vet (since today is Sunday) and hope he can help.

Meanwhile, my family keeps telling me that I'm being paranoid and worrying too much. The hell? Does no one learn?

So, what do you think? Do I worry too much?
 

Shovel

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That's appauling, if I was constantly being told "You worry too much" in such situations I'd be causing such a storm!
 

Kpt._Rob

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Well, I don't know that I'd say that you worry too much, I mean, it seems to me that you've got good reason to worry. Though, there is some merit to the idea that at a certain point all the worrying in the world will actually only make the situation worse. Still, I know how you feel, I'm the worry wort in my family.
 

Aztek463

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I think you were definitely right to be concerned about your neighbor, especially if they are elderly and you know they're usually out and about. Good show.

As for your dog...I would say wait it out a bit, but not too long. Stress probably has something to do with it, but if you're especially concerned, take him to the vet if he hasn't had a regular bowel movement in say, another week or so. Though, if it is stress related and you still haven't fully settled into your new place, a vet visit will help you exactly none.

I don't think you worry too much...in fact, I think that's a healthy amount of worrying.
 

Kwaren

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neonnightlite said:
can you summarise this?
Bad things happen. He gets concerned but no one else does. Is he worrying too much?

OT: I think you are worrying just the right amount. I wish your Godfather well, and you should take that puppy to the vet pronto.
 

MissPixxie

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There's no such thing as worrying too much. It's someone you genuinely care about and that's sweet, not to mention part of a quality lost on much of society.

I'm pretty much the same, I worry about everyone I care about.

As for your lab mix, can I suggest you get plenty of fluids into him tonight? It'll help while you wait to see a vet (I'm a vet science student =] )
 

fundayz

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You expect people to tell you whether you worry too much by telling us two unrelated stories?
In fact, you don't mention worry at all until the very end and even then you only say that your family thinks you worry too much. What the heck are we supposed to tell you?
 

TheTaco007

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Your family is apparently full of idiots, cause you need to take that dog to a VET. NOW.
 

VeX1le

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I don't think your family dosen't learn i think they just don't care. Anyways i'm always told i worry too much, guess i'll prove them wrong with the next person that falls off the stairs.
 

Kuchinawa212

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Worrying too much is being afraid plastic water bottles are dangerous since the water has to sit in them so long, pollutants will get in the water. Yeah my Mom is kinda annoying like that. But otherwise there is not really a thing of worrying to much unless it effects your life in a major way. You're fine dude
 

Enigmers

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I don't think you worry too much; you could very well have saved Charlies life and if a puppy is shitting itself inside out that's a legitimate cause for worry in my eyes.
 

neonnightlite

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Corum1134 said:
neonnightlite said:
can you summarise this?
Bad things happen. He gets concerned but no one else does. Is he worrying too much?

OT: I think you are worrying just the right amount. I wish your Godfather well, and you should take that puppy to the vet pronto.
Thanks
OT:I do this a lot too. I feel that everything is tied together. Your worrying the right amount.
 

Plurralbles

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Good job?

Though really, it pisses me off when people lock the screen door. I'm always afraid that when I go outside my alzheimer'ed grandma's going to lock me out because she constantly locks them... Dont;' lock that shit! If you're old, you should have someone know where you hide your housekey outside to get in for exactly these circumstances.
 

Kimdeal

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Its pretty stupid to say that they worry just the right amount. Given those two cases, yes, you're probably right to worry. but if your family is telling you to relax, i'm guessing you probably get worked up about things that turn out fine. Is that right?

Basically, this seems pretty well cherry picked to me. If these are the only times that you worry, yes you worry the right amount. However, not knowing you, or how you react to normal stuff, we cant really judge you, oryour worrying.

I get told i worry too much by my family a lot as well. And i do. I get worked up and paranoid if people dont arive right on time. Start imagining them being involved in car accidents, lost in the bush, anythhing. There have been a few times where my fears were foubded (not a car crash, just flat batteries, fuel issues, etc). This is hardly suprising though.

Grats on the saving the poor guy, and i hope your dog turns out ok. Labradors are AWESOME (though they acct like puppies for about 5years, and a 40kg puppy can be quite frighhtening).
 

Syphous

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Kimdeal said:
Its pretty stupid to say that they worry just the right amount. Given those two cases, yes, you're probably right to worry. but if your family is telling you to relax, i'm guessing you probably get worked up about things that turn out fine. Is that right?

Basically, this seems pretty well cherry picked to me. If these are the only times that you worry, yes you worry the right amount. However, not knowing you, or how you react to normal stuff, we cant really judge you, oryour worrying.

I get told i worry too much by my family a lot as well. And i do. I get worked up and paranoid if people dont arive right on time. Start imagining them being involved in car accidents, lost in the bush, anythhing. There have been a few times where my fears were foubded (not a car crash, just flat batteries, fuel issues, etc). This is hardly suprising though.

Grats on the saving the poor guy, and i hope your dog turns out ok. Labradors are AWESOME (though they acct like puppies for about 5years, and a 40kg puppy can be quite frighhtening).
No it's true. I do worry a lot more than just these two occasions, but my point is if I didn't worry, no one else would have and who knows what would have happened to Charlie. And now I'm scared that I'm going to get up tomorrow morning and find my puppy dead.
 

Xeros

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Every time they tell you "you worry too much", and it turns out your concern was well placed, throw it right back in their faces. 3 strikes, they're out. How many strikes are they at?