I wouldn't go out with you if..

[darth gditch]

I could never go out with a girl who smokes. I have acute asthma and any kind of smoke residue sets off attacks. It just wouldn't work.

Other than that, I seem to be attracted to petite brunettes who have beautiful eyes. Or at least my only two past girlfriends were both around 5 ft. with brown hair.

Not a big fan of multiple body piercings, but that's not a make or break thing.

 

[Arawn.Chernobog]

Very Obese or Extremely Underweight are two traits that to me symbolize "lack of physical care".

Clearly unwashed hair or skin or multiple dirty wounds also symbolize "lack of personal hygiene". (Post-Edit: The wounds here would be small wounds that most would shrug off as insignificant... but I can't help but notice, the small wounds under dirty fingernails, the scrapes under one's elbows... all of these point to carelessness with one's body... and if they aren't sanitized... lack of hygiene.)

These physical traits I will NEVER abide to.

Also... for some odd reason I can't find women with overly dark skin to be attractive.

 

[Dr Snakeman]

Fat girls are a no-go, as are dumb ones. I also would be put off by a woman who was more than a couple inches taller than me. I'm 5'10", so it isn't too much of a problem.

Honestly, I have a thing for small girls. I think it's due to some kind of instinctive "protector" mentality buried deep beneath my snarky, "guy who thinks he's funny" facade. Combine small with intelligent and kind, and you've got the template for my ideal woman.

Also... I'm a tiny girl. I don't want guys that are A LOT bigger than me, be it height or weight, because I'm honestly afraid that they'll crush me. And I don't like feeling of being dominated to much either, of course I like it when my date can actually make decisions and I can in certain situations depend on them, but I want to be able to feel like I can also stand up to them if the situation calls for it.

EDIT: Huh...

Um... hi there. You come here often?

[sup]Please don't be creeped out by that. I think I'm funny, remember?[/sup]

 

[Lilani]

I admit, there are physical traits are undesirable to me, but I prefer to get to know the person before I decide whether or not I want to go out with them.

 

[Lerasai]

Uhm if she was taller than me and if she was orange.

So, not Starfire then?

Although if you're ginger, there could be a problem

That made me laugh so hard.

Bet there are guys out there that will find that attractive.

Bet most of them have mustaches.

 

[8-Bit Grin]

As for shorter than me, I don't care. I am currently going out with a girl who is 4'11"

Same here, brother.

Short chicks just have something going for them I guess.

... and gingers.

On topic:

I can't date a girl with bad teeth, with any kind of tummy, or smells bad in the morning.

 

[TPiddy]

If a girl spends hours a day making herself look good or does stupid things like starving herself, wearing fake body parts, any kind of plastic surgery, etc... if you're too hung up on your appearance you obviously have issues too deep for me to take care of.

And the opposite is true as well.

If you've let yourself go to the point where you don't care about even being presentable... this could be heavily overweight, not cleaning or showering, eating nothing but junk food or whatnot... I don't want anything to do with you either.

 

[Vryyk]

I don't date Zerg. That's my one scruple. I had a bad date.

 

[zehydra]

In asking why height matters, they like a man that they can look up to giving them a sense of overpowering them. I personally don't have anything like that.

That's...disturbing. Wanting to be dominated. It's common, but still feels stupid to me, unless it's being able to fully trust someone to carefully overpower you.

OP: No. Not unless they're unbareably ugly. I may prefer girls my height or slightly shorter, but if a girl were to ask me out and she was taller I probably wouldn't mind unless she made jokes about it.

I've noticed that the "Wanting to be dominated" is pretty common amongst straight females.

 

[nolongerhere]

Very Obese or Extremely Underweight are two traits that to me symbolize "lack of physical care".

Clearly unwashed hair or skin or multiple dirty wounds also symbolize "lack of personal hygiene".

These physical traits I will NEVER abide to.

Also... for some odd reason I can't find women with overly dark skin to be attractive.

How many people do you see with multiple wounds, dirty or clean? It would certainly cause me to ask questions. Like "Why do you have multiple wounds?"

OT: So long as it doesn't break a law, I'm generally cool with it. Also, no fat people.

 

[astrav1]

If they were fuck ugly or had some sort of STD. If we are talking purely physical that is. If I am with someone, then I want to be able to consider them beautiful.

 

[theComposer]

I don't think height really bothers me when looking for a girlfriend. To answer the thread title though: I wouldn't go out with you if you smoke. I can not stand the smell of cigarette smoke, much less imagine kissing some whose breath smells like it, so smoking is one of the fastest ways to turn me off a girl.

 

[Arawn.Chernobog]

Very Obese or Extremely Underweight are two traits that to me symbolize "lack of physical care".

Clearly unwashed hair or skin or multiple dirty wounds also symbolize "lack of personal hygiene".

These physical traits I will NEVER abide to.

Also... for some odd reason I can't find women with overly dark skin to be attractive.

How many people do you see with multiple wounds, dirty or clean? It would certainly cause me to ask questions. Like "Why do you have multiple wounds?"

OT: So long as it doesn't break a law, I'm generally cool with it. Also, no fat people.

I didn't mean as in gaping open wounds, I mean the kind of small wounds you'd get by being careless, like tiny ones under fingernails, on your elbows, on the lip, all wounds must be sanitized. Being careless and allowing these to become dirty is a sign of "Oh, poor hygiene, do not want" for me

 

[Woodsey]

Fat/ugly girls and ones that are noticeably taller than me.

An inch or so is fine but above that it'd just be weird.

 

[kouriichi]

No sense of humor, breasts to big, ugly teeth, no hair, missing a limb, to dependant, to independent, to hyper, not hyper enough, to short, or to tall.

Thos are pretty much my only reasons not to date a woman.

 

[EmzOLV]

Hmmm I wouldn't go out with you if...

You fancied my friends but only went out with me because that was the only option.
You had some massive drug/drink habit
You fancied yourself more than anyone else on the planet


I don't know if there are any others. I'm not currently looking to date but it's quite interesting to think about the no's... especially as I figured I'm quite open to meeting new people haha

 

[nolongerhere]

Very Obese or Extremely Underweight are two traits that to me symbolize "lack of physical care".

Clearly unwashed hair or skin or multiple dirty wounds also symbolize "lack of personal hygiene".

These physical traits I will NEVER abide to.

Also... for some odd reason I can't find women with overly dark skin to be attractive.

How many people do you see with multiple wounds, dirty or clean? It would certainly cause me to ask questions. Like "Why do you have multiple wounds?"

OT: So long as it doesn't break a law, I'm generally cool with it. Also, no fat people.

I didn't mean as in gaping open wounds, I mean the kind of small wounds you'd get by being careless, like tiny ones under fingernails, on your elbows, on the lip, all wounds must be sanitized. Being careless and allowing these to become dirty is a sign of "Oh, poor hygiene, do not want" for me

I figured. It just caused me to imagine a place full of people covered in bandages, shunning those who weren't changing them regularly.

 

[razor343]

Emm...I value intelligence very much in a girl, if she makes one mention of liking Jedward or Justin Bieber I begin to start blanking her...Then appearance is just an added bonus, so long as she doesn't look like she were ran over by a bull dozer.

 

[Biosophilogical]

I've only ever dated traditionally attractive guys, but that's not really a requirement for me.
My weird thing is that I would never date anyone way more attractive than me. I don't want them to feel like they're doing me any favors.
Is that a little psychotic?

Only a little, but given that dating tends to involve emotional commitment, and varying amounts of insanity, I'd say that you psychotic-ness(?) is understandable and actually rather sane given the circumstances.

 

[Jedoro]

My only absolute ban is smokers. Anyone else, that's a judgment call, but I do tend to stay away from overweight chicks. Not all of them, just the morbidly obese ones.