Ideal partners

[Monkfish Acc.]

Frankly, no. Anybody who says "I don't care about looks" is lying to themselves and others. Whether you like it or not, you do judge people by their outward appearance. You may think that "Oh, I liked/loved this one really ugly dude at one point, so it obviously doesn't apply to me."

No.

You found something about his physical appearance that you found appealing. It's a sad fact of the human psyche, but you cannot expect a relationship to last without some small stretch of physical attraction.

Perhaps you have some sort of socio-psychological need to tell yourself that looks don't matter, because your parents/school/friends/religion beat it into you that its the inner beauty that matters. Which it does. But it's common sense that looks do matter, admittedly not to the length of personality.

Not to bash you, but I've noticed a distinguishing trend among women who say they want "Humorous" guys. They usually mean "I want an asshole who thinks he's funny."

Mini-psych rant.

I love you I highly agree.
Also, please marry me

 

[Vortex Traveller]

Personality: Genuine/Honest, Kind hearted, sense of humour (For me the first two are the most important).
Looks: Cute/soft facial features, nice smile and eyes (Looks is a bonus but these are the kind of looks that I find attract me.)
Intrest Bonus: Doctor Who fan

 

[DarkFenix]

Since it says Ideal i can be very picky with this (not in any order)

1) loyal (aka monogamous)
2) must have curves but not be overweight (no skeleton girls/must take care of yourself)
3) they must be down to earth with their thinking
4) being generally optimistic in alot of cases
5) 36C boobs
6) nice straight white teeth
7) enjoys animals and nature
8) willing to work and split chores
9) must want to have a kid possibly 2
10) manage her money well
11) not to sound racist but I'd want her to be caucasian
12) enjoys affection and can appreciate romantic gestures
13) have some skills in the bedroom and be open to some new stuff from time to time
14) not religious but still able to discuss it maturely
15) around 5'5-5'8

lol i'm sure i could add more but why bother lol

 

[Scobie]

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[Bulletinmybrain]

Cute (Not sexy. But cute. If they were sexy I would deduce that at some point in time they would cheat on me.)

Can put up with me. (Very hard. I neglect peoples emotional needs generally, also my closest confidant, well only confidant really, says I am an asshole.)

Interesting. Sorry, but if you're normal I probably won't delve into you.. The chase?

 

[Mr. Fahrenheit]

They'd be gainfully employed, but I'd get all of their money. I never have to spend any time with them, but I will somehow still be able to have sex with them every night. Also, they'll never want to have children... I:<

 

[Flying-Emu]

*snip*

I wasn't trying to insult you. I did not intend you to take it as such. I didn't say "All funny guys are assholes." I said that most women who SAY they want a funny guy DON'T date the funny guy, they date the asshat who thinks he's funny.

I did not attack you personally. To call my interpretation of life "Twisted" was quite uncalled for.

If you were offended by my opposing argument, I apologize. It was not my intention. I was merely relating my belief (which has been formed over the course of many experiences), which I thought was the point of a discussion forum.

I did not say that unattractive people are doomed to loneliness. I did not mean it either. I simply meant that I have yet to meet someone who truly doesn't care about their partner's appearance.

If that offends you, I apologize. I sincerely hope you can forgive me for failing to communicate effectively.

Also, please marry me

Sorry mate, I'm spoken for.

 

[HerrBobo]

Must be, in this order, funny, smart, thoughtful

Must have, in this order, nice, eyes, lips, ass, boobs

 

[SmartIdiot]

A girl who accepts my love of loud and angry music, who doesn't mind my at-times-immature sense of humour, my stupid pranks or my uncontrollable stream of energy. A girl who's understanding, won't cheat on me/lie to me/screw me over at the last minute and she must have blue eyes. I'm a total sucker for a girl with blue eyes.

Still, let's not ask for miracles eh?

 

[Mockingjay]

If you could choose everything about a future partner, how would they act/look etc.

My personal ideal? I'm not too fussed aslong as he is intelligent and a nice guy. Sense of humour wouldn't hurt either. Oh and he'd have to have a certain love for gaming xD
Looks don't come into it. I don't care.

Which part of the South West are you from, specifically?

Well we're talking England here just incase that wasn't clear on my profile. I live on the border between Devon/Somerset, so around there. Obviously I'm not going to specify not out of paranoia but just to be safe.

Why do you want to know?

 

[Calobi]

My ideal...Hm...Funny, smart, similar likes to me in at least some aspect, strongly individual, and female. Good looks would be nice, but that's more icing.

If you could choose everything about a future partner, how would they act/look etc.

My personal ideal? I'm not too fussed aslong as he is intelligent and a nice guy. Sense of humour wouldn't hurt either. Oh and he'd have to have a certain love for gaming xD
Looks don't come into it. I don't care.

Looks don't matter? Awesome, I'm in.

*Said like The Fonz* How you doin'?

 

[Mockingjay]

My ideal...Hm...Funny, smart, similar likes to me in at least some aspect, strongly individual, and female. Good looks would be nice, but that's more icing.

If you could choose everything about a future partner, how would they act/look etc.

My personal ideal? I'm not too fussed aslong as he is intelligent and a nice guy. Sense of humour wouldn't hurt either. Oh and he'd have to have a certain love for gaming xD
Looks don't come into it. I don't care.

Looks don't matter? Awesome, I'm in.

*Said like The Fonz* How you doin'?

Hahahaha xD

Gold star for mentioning icing.

 

[Resistance205]

Smart, similar sense of humor to my own, cute, preferably brown hair, a bit smaller then me, and like, a month younger then me.

Yeah, ok. I am slightly picky, but still. Besides, I have already found the perfect girl really, apart from the age thing (she is a year older then me).

 

[Mockingjay]

A girl who accepts my love of loud and angry music, who doesn't mind my at-times-immature sense of humour, my stupid pranks or my uncontrollable stream of energy. A girl who's understanding, won't cheat on me/lie to me/screw me over at the last minute and she must have blue eyes. I'm a total sucker for a girl with blue eyes.

Still, let's not ask for miracles eh?

Uh you'd really fit in where I live. All the girls get so obsessive over there music, and it's nearly always agressive and loud...

 

[Resistance205]

Fuck, sorry for the double post. I don't even know how I managed this

 

[Gruthar]

Anyone who can complement my weaknesses... I'm a quiet guy, I tend to be attracted to women who can keep a conversation going. Beyond that, all I ask is for brains and a demonstrated ability for her to take care of herself. A shared hobby or two would be nice.

I have yet to find that person. Oh well, life goes on.

 

[Delicious]

if anyone says looks don't matter
they're lying, people are only interested in other people that they find physically attractive
wish it wasn't true, but alas it is

No offence mate but I disagree. Looks are like the icing on the cake. It doesn't neccessarily need the icing to taste good, but sometimes it can compliment and othertimes it can ruin the cake.

Personally I don't like icing.

people are more shallow than they would like to admit

And you're more negative than what's neccessary.

not negative
just realistic

I'll think you'll find I'm pretty damn hideous, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to care.

It might be true of people, but not of individuals.

Anyway I don't know why I'n arguing, it is your opinion after all.

is your avy a pic of you?

yurp

You might want to get your eyes checked.

Twice.

 

[Major_Sam]

My ideal guy? Tanned, eight-pack, named Chad, who can't speak a word of english and is a underwear model.

No, my perfect guy would be the guy who would watch Star Wars with me, trying to out do eachother with how much we know. My guy would play games with me and doesn't let me win because he feels sorry for me, he give it his all. My guy would call me cute rather than sexy. My guy would give me cuddles as we watch the Matrix. We would share the same type of humour, sacastic and witty. My guy would stand up for me if someone was bullied. My guy would be cheeky and loyal and have brains...and...and *starts to cry*.