Ideas for places to meet people, and pick-up lines that might actually work.
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I'll add some seriousness to the post.TheMasterGL16 said:
Forget made up lines.
2 ways that work for me outside the Bar/Club.
1. Try to catch her eye, if you do, smile, if she smiles back you're sorted and you can get away with just saying "hi".
That's the easiest way.
2. If you can't catch her eye without looking like a creep you'll need to use the situation and environment to find your opener.
For example you're waiting at a bus stop shelter, its raining and the bus is late. You notice a pretty girl and she's quietly reading a book you once read.
You could open with mentioning how bad the weather is, the bus being late or how you enjoyed the book she's reading. That's 3 possible openers from just observing and using the situation.
You can still end up sounding like a stalker if you come across as trying to hard. So practice trying to strike up conversations with people you aren't trying to pick up, this way you'll come across more natural, relaxed and friendly.
Hope that helps a little.
i have a friend who uses that one! aslo "does this taste of rohypnol to you" is a good one when buying someone a drinkBernzz said:
Quoted for utter hilarity.dnaloiram said:
OT: Go somewhere that matches your interests. You might find someone who shares them. As for pickup lines...
"If you were a Pokemon, I'd catch you first." I actually used that.
I'm going to go with:
friendly greeting. maybe it can go from there. body language is important. if you move around alot you disturb the vibrations in the air, mad for mojo. eye contact is essential, take a gaze into her soul whilst you speak. You will see each other for what you are, and if there is a relationship to be had, it will come to fruition.
friendly greeting. maybe it can go from there. body language is important. if you move around alot you disturb the vibrations in the air, mad for mojo. eye contact is essential, take a gaze into her soul whilst you speak. You will see each other for what you are, and if there is a relationship to be had, it will come to fruition.
If you're in the US, this won't apply, but if you live in a country where you can go to bars:
Have a few drinks, make sure its crowded, ask to sit at a table with these people and get chatting to them. The drinks are for dutch courage.
Have a few drinks, make sure its crowded, ask to sit at a table with these people and get chatting to them. The drinks are for dutch courage.
Go back to school and stop thinking of yourself as an "attractive, funny, nice guy."
Confidence is one thing, but that's a bit much.
If that was too mean an unsupportive, try finding a gathering for an interest or hobby of yours and try to meet people there.
Confidence is one thing, but that's a bit much.
If that was too mean an unsupportive, try finding a gathering for an interest or hobby of yours and try to meet people there.
if it isnt a line you thought of, tendancy will be it wont fit you and will just sound odd.
i just use smoking as an excuse to talk to people. it was why i started (though not why i kept on at it). though that doesnt solve the problem of what to say...
i just use smoking as an excuse to talk to people. it was why i started (though not why i kept on at it). though that doesnt solve the problem of what to say...
The only pick-up line that has ever worked is:TheMasterGL16 said:
"Hey, I don't know you. My name is _____."
Quoted For The Truth. Also, "If you died in a explosion..... could I sneak a kiss?" always works.bluepilot said:
You could just sit around looking nonchalant like some pretentious tosser. For some reason, girls seem to like that.
A) Hang out at places you like. If your hobbies/interests are not very social (for instance, movies), try to find groups that enjoy this kind of thing (to continue the example, if you're studying at a university, there should be a film appreciation club of some sort). Also, don't be afraid to hang out at parties and casually chat people up. (The idea is not to make it at all obvious that you're "chatting them up" - you just want to have a nice conversation. Practice on people, particularly girls, that you have absolutely no romantic interest in. Learn to chat with them the way you chat with your male friends. There should be no distinction, unless you're a prick, in which case I can't help you.)TheMasterGL16 said:
B) PICKUP LINES ARE THE BIGGEST CROCK OF SHIT EVER. You can ask any girl who gets hit on frequently: pickup lines don't. work. EVER. If you want to chat with someone and have a nice conversation, be honest and spontaneous and don't try this pre-planned formulaic shit because all you are doing is removing yourself from the gene pool. "Hi. I like your shoes" is a hundred thousand fucking million times better than "Heaven must be missing an angel" or any of that cliché bullshit.
