@xmbts: you still have it all wrong, allow me to explain:
what interests me when talking with someone is more then anything how they react to their life experiences, and the way they view their past, since a human's reaction shows more about the personality then the situations themselves...
thus, it's not that I'm particularly interested about the romantic-side, but I am interested in hearing about it, as it provides more insight to the person on the other side...
@pyramid: later man...