I'm a lonly bugger.
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that sucks been there just act confident like i do, i will be freaking out on the inside but calm on the outside
Danman1 knows his shit.
If there are MANY moments of silence which then become awkward, purely cos neither of you have anything to say, then bail. It means you just don't click.
But if you want to just shag her then START FLIRTING!!
Seriously, flirt your ass off.
IF you want to hook up with her you just act interested in whatever she's saying and make jokes. I don't mean knock knock jokes, but perceptive jokes, like crack a comment about whatever it is she's rambling on about.
MAKE EYE CONTACT AND SMILE (not creepy stare & grin - that's fucking lame).
PUT UP WITH HER BORING CHAT - pretend you give a shit, and make a few sex jokes - shows her you have a cheeky side, which i'm guessing she's never seen before. Piece of piss and gets her thinking about sex.
DO NOT BE FAT - it makes things tricky and you don't want more unnecessary obstacles for yourself.
FLIRT.
ONE MORE THING - Dude, you already know she's a bit of a whore, right?....so......WIN!
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EDIT: I just read you're both 17....man, you're young, don't feel bad about this. It's alright if you shy away from opening up to a girl, but try this - pretend you're someone else, honestly, just act totally different from what she's known you to be, but do make some cheeky sex comments, all girls love this but practice infront of a mirror first.
A MIRROR IS YOUR FRIEND!
If there are MANY moments of silence which then become awkward, purely cos neither of you have anything to say, then bail. It means you just don't click.
But if you want to just shag her then START FLIRTING!!
Seriously, flirt your ass off.
IF you want to hook up with her you just act interested in whatever she's saying and make jokes. I don't mean knock knock jokes, but perceptive jokes, like crack a comment about whatever it is she's rambling on about.
MAKE EYE CONTACT AND SMILE (not creepy stare & grin - that's fucking lame).
PUT UP WITH HER BORING CHAT - pretend you give a shit, and make a few sex jokes - shows her you have a cheeky side, which i'm guessing she's never seen before. Piece of piss and gets her thinking about sex.
DO NOT BE FAT - it makes things tricky and you don't want more unnecessary obstacles for yourself.
FLIRT.
ONE MORE THING - Dude, you already know she's a bit of a whore, right?....so......WIN!
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EDIT: I just read you're both 17....man, you're young, don't feel bad about this. It's alright if you shy away from opening up to a girl, but try this - pretend you're someone else, honestly, just act totally different from what she's known you to be, but do make some cheeky sex comments, all girls love this but practice infront of a mirror first.
A MIRROR IS YOUR FRIEND!
oh damn, does that mean i have to apologize for being Scottish.... be proud that your british.Anime-Addicted said:
hell, just randomly ask her out sometime, at least this way you dont have to waste your time beating around the bush pretending to be someone your not, this strategy is quick easy and straight to the point, hell she either feels the same way about you, or is at least willing to get to know you better, or you'll stay friends (any other option is highly unlikely as shes already knows you reasonably well enough to not be an absolute cow.)
this is all without making you look like either a arrogant douche bag as some of the other instructions here would.
besides your probably still in school, being 17 and all in the uk and will be leaving soon anyways, so skrew it.
on a side note, im a total hypocryte here for suggesting this as i was in reasonably the same situation and did nothing, but ive at least proven that continuing as you are will change nothing.
Talking to girls really isn't any different to talking to guys. You just find common things to talk about and you go up and talk. That's it. If she's going to you for closure then I guess you understand how to talk to a person anyway, so I don't think that's the problem.Anime-Addicted said:
In terms of telling someone that you like them, well the thing is, you don't need to tell them if you can show them, by asking them out to some fun stuff, showing her a good time, being a fun guy to hang out with and generally looking after her (without being a possessive douche). If you take her out some time and do all that stuff, she'll cotton on that you're into her, unless she's a dummy you won't need to say anything at all. So next time she's talking to you about how guy X did something stupid last weekend that pissed her off and now he hates her, and she starts crying on your shoulder, why not offer to take her to the movies to cheer her up...
maybe ignore her for a while, and get back to her in a few weeks? Dont make a big deal about it, but everytime she calls make an excuse. then get back to her and see how much she actually cares about having you around. Maybe ask her out then? I cant say its tried and tested, but it might be an idea... break your routine from her before telling her you like her, and I think something would be more likely to happen.
If you're looking for confidence I would getting a part time job. Its good practice asserting yourself and selling yourself to people. Buy new clothes, join a gym. you'll feel better about yourself and people WILL notice. this girl especially...
If you're looking for confidence I would getting a part time job. Its good practice asserting yourself and selling yourself to people. Buy new clothes, join a gym. you'll feel better about yourself and people WILL notice. this girl especially...