I'm a prick! :D I think..

[The Stonker]

Well guys, this will start with the initial leap of me having lady troubles which is affecting my mood and my well lets just say how I react to women in general.
For one I'm a nervous pile of reck who I know sounds a bit desperate and I do sound very crude to them at times (any women who I have been a bit crude too then I apologize to you).
Because I've been very rude to everyone, I've been calling them divs and fucking cunts just because I felt like I should do it.
Okay about this girl(lets call her Melissa), the fact is that she ripped my heart out for helping out another friend (which happens to be a female,lets call her Mary) then Melissa thought that I was cheating on her with Mary, even if I wasn't dating her. But I had extremely deep feelings for her.
Now, I have never been the guy who is always helpful or actually cares for other people, but suddenly in the last two years then reccent events have made me look in the shoes of other people and I actually help random strangers crying on the street even if pedestrians walk by.
So I decided in blind kindness to help Mary who is my friend but not anymore, with her boyfriend problems and I took her out, so she could be away from him, for a while and I had to say to precious Melissa which I had deep feelings for that I couldn't make it.
Now my friends were with her and one of them picked the phone up what he said to her that I was taking another Mary up and hustling her. ( If people don't know what hustling is then it means just to well ,trying to bone her).
So Melissa ripped my heart out (and Mary backstabbed me in the end), even if I tried to explain everything, but she didn't listen. She only ran away and kept on crying.
Now I'm a bit jaded and what all my friends say is " it has been liek 2 months you nincanpoop","What are you a moron?" Well the thing is that my friends have never had any feelings for a girl and well, it's hard to forget something like that.
So, Escapists how can I fix my prickery and the ache in my heart?
Sorry for the punctuation.

Edited.

 

[Anarchemitis]

Take the satisfaction of the beauty of everyday life, use it to fuel you in enjoying others.

 

[Imp Poster]

Honestly, there are too many "girl" in your story, that I don't know which one you are referring to when you say it afterwards. But if I am getting it right, here is my advice:
So did you help that girl with her boyfriend problems? Maybe you can introduce them/her to your girl to explain it. Hopefully, your help went that well that they/her would do that for you.

Prepare to grovel at her feet.

 

[Istanbul]

First of all, the friend who ratted you out to your ex is not a friend. Cut that person out of your life.

Secondly, your ex was not very committed, if she wasn't willing to even listen to you.

Finally, helping strangers out is nice. Ditching your girlfriend to do so is unwise.

So, yeah. There are no innocent parties here, only bad judgment calls.

 

[Chris Mittertreiner]

World of girlcraft follows a set of specific rules that must be learned to understand, as previously mentioned there are a lot of angles in the story. A few telltale signs from the story, there's more explanation to these after the main Point. 1. Don't talk to other girls when ur dating. Now don't jump out of ur seat thinking ur cut off, but consider this, if you ran your intentions by ur girl first she then knows u prioritized her and that builds trust. She can now do one of three things, say no or yes or freak out. If she says yes then go hard with your plan, but leave hustlin' out of it. If she says no then you have a decision to make, of which is more important to you. And if she freaks then u have to decide if this is the type of person u want to be with and if the juice is worth the squeeze per se.

Seeing things from others perspective is one of the most harass skills someone can add to their setup, but pairing it with the mantra of 'choose your battles' can yield the best results. Another thing to consider Is to not victimize yourself, ie saying what did I do? Every situation can be seen from a neutral standpoint and certain actions yield certain results. So if something happened because of things you were a part of, analyze the whole situation from that neutral standpoint and know why it happened. It's best to be honest with yourself.

On a lighter note there's plenty of fish man, so don't get hooked by one twisted situation,

Peace

Chris

 

[ultrachicken]

First of all, the guy who lied to your (ex?)girlfriend about you trying to bone girl #2, is not your friend.

Get girl #2 or your douchebag friend to go explain the situation to your girlfriend.

 

[Naheal]

There's nothing wrong with being a prick, but you have to make sure that you're at least a lovable one. You can be crude if you're subtle. You can be harsh, but still relatively kind. It's difficult to pull off, but I've found it to be quite rewarding.