I'd be glad to meet a Vegan who hasn't tried to subtly tell me I'm wrong by using fancy logic and appealing to my 'moral compass', but I'm afraid that I just haven't met one yet. And whenever I do meet a vegetarian, or a vegan, or a pot-smoking hippie with his 'everything for the Earth' mentality (he's a friend of mine, actually), it is always I who must be the bigger man and walk away.
Why?
Because they never seem to accept my answer: "Sorry, I just don't give a damn about lesser species. If it's human and still alive, I'll acknowledge it as being off the menu. Anything else that I feel tastes good is fair game."
And worse still, when I walk away... that means they think they've won. They think that because I am unwilling to argue with them about something into the wee hours of the morning, somehow that means their point has been proven valid.
But this just proves that I have enough sense to realize that you're not having a discussion. We're not having a conversation. You're giving a lecture. And I don't do lectures.
So the answer to the question asked is simple, really:
Your morality is not mine. Your beliefs are not mine. Your feelings are not mine. I encourage you to have them. I support your right to feel them. And time, after time, after time... it is not I, but those who feel they have some kind of Moral High-Ground upon which to stand who speak in harsh words and condescending voices toward -me-.
If you are a vegetarian, or a vegan, or a cannibalistic carnivore... I don't want to know. I don't care. The only exception is the latter, in so much as I want to know if you're going to try to eat me before I'm good and dead of natural causes.
Because I'll happily kill anything/one who tries to eat me first. Just fair warning.
I'm a human being. I accept the power and responsibility that comes with that. I will wear fur, I will wear leather, and I will wear cotton. I will advocate for the RESPONSIBLE harvesting of organic resources, not because I feel it's wrong to put species into extinction but because it means we'll have one less resource available to us. And that's never good.
There's a line we all have to draw.
Some of us draw it further up than others. Some of us feel different things are right. Where this all goes wrong is when we start to get to thinking that somehow we need to make others agree with us. If we only have more people who agree with us, that means we're really right! We're righter than you!
This is the wrong attitude. This is the attitude that creates the very derision towards organizations like PETA and otherwise perfectly pleasant folks who happen to be Vegans, Pseudo-Vegans, and Vegetarians. When this attitude ceases to be, we'll start to see things change. But just from reading through this thread alone, I have seen enough to know that such a change in mentality is not likely to happen.
And any reconciliation from us 'meat-eaters' here will be almost as slow-coming.
It's sad. It's sad, because I really wanted to come here and see a rare, civil discussion about why people make the choices they make regarding food. I wanted to read that first post, and find someone who TRULY didn't feel they stood above the rest of us... by stealthily sneaking in a comment about 'imposing violence on harmless so-and-so's.'
But it didn't happen, and I didn't expect it to.
To Cadmium Magenta in particular:
I answered your question anyway, despite the rampant unpleasantness going on throughout this forum thread. I am certain that folks will read my post and immediately take offense to my accusatory tone... but you have to understand that this is not the first time I have had this discussion. Nor is it the first time that this "civil discussion" has come to such an end.
When I say 'you', I must insist that I am not referring specifically to 'you' in my post. Your initial post did not, as you said, make any accusatory or derogatory affront to my sensibilities. You made your case on your moral beliefs, and I can respect that.
In fact, I find that you are probably a very strong-willed and insightful individual. You have a firm grasp of your own feelings and ideals. And this is good. It will serve you well throughout your life, so long as you use this power wisely.
Where you went wrong, here, was in making any mention of morality at all.
There was no way that, given the kinds of people you yourself acknowledge exist within the animal rights and vegetarian/vegan community, this conversation was not going to center around that 'ethical' argument at the center of your beliefs.
And then you joined in.
Both sides, myself included, have built themselves up around defending for/against that ethical center.
Because what it comes down to is "Do we have the right?"
And for folks like me, the answer is "Do we have the capability? Then we have the right."
I don't believe in your uniform morality. So my ethics are different from yours. No amount of conversation is going to convince me of otherwise, and so the best we can hope for is to come to an understanding.
If you are willing to understand that I -don't- hold life as sacred, that my beliefs don't tell me that killing is wrong, only something to never be taken lightly, and that my feelings on the matter are going to differ from yours...
... then you and me, Cadmium... we can have a civil discussion.
But if not, then I accept that this will have to be where the conversation ends.