I'M AN ADUUUUUUUUUUUUULT!

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Guffe

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I guess walking into the bar the first time ordering a beer, getting my drivers license, moving away from home. Those 3 are the biggest things I guess.

I got my first bank account at the age of 15, and back then it "was under supervision" from my parents and when I turned 18 it completely went into my name. So for me the account thing wasn't a big deal since it was such a long drawn out process.
 

NathLines

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When I bought a bus ticket and for the first time ever, the bus driver asked me "Adult or youth?". I had to take a moment to soak it in and answered "Adult" with pride.

It's funny, one of my mom's ladyfriends always buys youth tickets even though she's 40+(I dunno exactly, I heard about it quite a few years ago). Yeah, she's Asian.
 

Eeeee0000

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The first time I drove a car completely on my own it felt like a way to adult thing to do. I was 21. Driving a car is a more adult thing to do around here than in the US, you can get your license at 18 instead of 16 and it's expensive (2000-3000 euros), so not everyone gets theirs right away, and many people only get their own car when they're graduated and have a job.
I didn't feel like an adult taking driving lessons, getting my license, or driving with my dad sitting next to me, but the first time my in-laws loaned me their car and I got to drive somewhere all on my own it felt really strange.

Also I've had a bank account since I was like 8, how is that an adult thing to have?
 

AWAR

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Voting. Felt pretty adultish.
Also, entering my real birth date in sites.
 

Bestival

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I recently bought a tin of cookies. Not for the cookies, I just wanted the pretty tin for in my kitchen.
I felt like a granny after.

Should be noted I'm a big burly 26 year old man.
 

chattycathy

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My brother was the complete opposite. He was at home in his slacks. I went in to wish him for his 18th and asked if he wanted to go out at night. He said "Eff you I'm an adult. I don't have to do shizz" and then went on to playing a Madagascar kids game on http://www.jumpstart.com. According to him, being an adult meant the ability to do whatever you want, whenever you want to without worrying about what people say! Words of wisdom, though I will never admit it to him.
 

babinro

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I'd say my first real job. McDonald's at age 17.
I had done things like mow lawns and paper route before but those were more akin to chores for money then a job. Going to school throughout the day and working 4-6 hours right after school with almost no free time in the day to have fun anymore.

Truly, I was a man...and being a man sucked.
 

sanquin

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I started driving lessons at 18. As only adults drove cars! I was so giddy when I started with the simulator. And pretty nervous when I got into a car behind the wheel for the first time.

Another thing that made me feel 'so adult' was the first time that I went to a LARP event alone. I was...19 by then I think. As I finally had my own car to drive in. Before that my parents used to bring me.
 

DanielBrown

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Got my drivers license about two weeks ago. It's the only adult thing I've done with my life... and I'm 24.
Feels really fucking nice and extremely depressing at the same time.

 

Amethyst Wind

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Also, I've been responsible for contacting emergency care for a collapsed woman (at my last job, and it wasn't anything serious, she was just a 50-something alcoholic who'd drank herself into a bladder infection), and directing the entire situation until they got there.
 

ramela

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The first time I stood up for my mother to protect her from my alcoholic father, when I was 15 or 16, was when my childhood ended.
 

Muspelheim

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My first proper job felt like a milestone. It was an easy job, they could've had an ape in to do it. But it felt great, nonetheless. People running a proper business trusting you to sort things out, answering a phone and sorting papers. Just being around the office atmosphere as a part of it. Paying my taxes afterwards felt like another one, contributing some back and everything.

Applying for Voluntary Basic Training felt big, too. Understanding that I'm well old enough to help out in national defence. It's not something you would ask a child to do.

Voting was another one. As much as a microscopic difference it made, it was still my say on the matter.

Another moment of growth was when I helped a slightly younger man get home safely after he had far, far too many and had gotten himself chucked out. His mum came and got him, eventually, but I kept a good eye at him and sorted the rendez-vous with his mum. Mobile phones are a marvellous invention, overall. They've made teenage binges gone awry much easier to manage.

Now, I might very well be a variation of retarded, I've always matured rather slowly and I've always been rather worried of my progression, and been terrified of ending up a failure. But all of those things have been signs to me that it's going along, after all. Little beads of hope.

Bestival said:
I recently bought a tin of cookies. Not for the cookies, I just wanted the pretty tin for in my kitchen.
I felt like a granny after.

Should be noted I'm a big burly 26 year old man.
Heh, had that myself. I've caught myself considering getting a few doilies to decorate with, and I've got embroided cushions around simply for decor like gran. I suggest we knit teacosies in the park!
 

RicoADF

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I wouldn't say it was an "I'm an adault" moment but rather a realisation of how far I had come, last March when I looked for a new car (not another used, a new off the dealership), researched and looked at a few dealerships before finding the right one, saving 6k and then applying for and being approved for a 20k car loan for said car and finally driving it out of the dealership a few days later. All without help from family members (although mother did make a suggestion at one point which I agreed with).
 

Spaceman Spiff

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The big "I'm an adult!" moments for me were:

Getting a 9 to 5 job.
Getting a credit card.
Buying my first new car (and writing a fat check for the down payment).
Voting for the first time.
Legitimately buying an adult beverage for the first time.

Next up: buying a house. or condo. or something. I dunno yet.
 

Hero in a half shell

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YEAH!

Getting my driving license was a pretty momentous occasion, more so because I knew it was a single barrier that I'd never have to do again, and driving alone for the first time. Ye-haa!
 

bojackx

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I'm 20 and I still don't feel like I've had a 'transition to adulthood' moment. I've passed my driving test, I've had a job, I've had my first legal pint, and I consider myself and my parents as equals (less of a parent-child relationship, more like we're just buddies I guess?), but none of them felt really like anything had changed.

I imagine if I had stayed in university accommodation then I'd have gained the independence to feel like an adult, but since I still, and always have, lived with my parents I still feel very much like a kid.
 

PsychicTaco115

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I signed a waiver BY MYSELF the day I turned 18

Why?

To go sky-diving with my dad :D

That's the only "adult" moment I've felt giddy about, everything else is kinda meh :p
 

SSJBlastoise

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My first feeling of being grown up was when I was about 12 and we had a school parliament and I was Treasurer (given roles by choosing what we wanted and then teachers would assign the roles on who they felt was best for the position). There really wasn't much power given to us and it was mainly helping choose awards for students in the school but that year the school wanted to buy a flag with the school logo to have on our flag pole (alongside State and National flags). Seeing as I was the Treasurer I was given the job to organise it and I had to call up flag companies and get quotes and stuff which was pretty cool and made me feel important.

Other than that there's the usual: first alcoholic drink, getting your license and car and moving out of home.