ROBOTwithHUMANhair said:
Classic troll! Insulting someone then turning right around and saying 'It was all a joke!" when you're called out on it. Nice! ;3
Princess Rose said:
Kawaiitsuki said:
TL;DR: I'm a college student, I grow more to hate it everyday and I see no point in it. Anyone feel the same and if so, how did/do you deal with it?
No, don't feel the same.
However, it may depend on what you want to do with your life.
What is your major?
What career do you see yourself in?
I can't answer about college unless I know what you're studying.
That said, I don't believe that a college education is ever a waste. Will it miraculously change your life? No. Hell no. But is it good? Yes. Hell yes. Still, depending on what you're majoring in, the amount of practical benefit to your life may vary. Please tell us what you're in college for (what you're studying, what classes, major, etc) and maybe we can answer your question a little better.
This will be applicable to really anyone else who asked similar questions:
My major is psychology, not because I picked it but it was because it was literally the last available class that wasn't on a bloody Saturday. >.>
What do I wish to do? I want to be a writer. Not entirely sure what kind as I enjoy writing of all types. Fiction, biographical, articles, reviews, poetry... anything really. I enjoy it and I'm good at it. Hell, my English professor has literally been "Blown away" by how "Above and beyond" my essays were in comparison to everyone else's. I dont' say that to be smug but that's actually what he told me.
Indeterminacy said:
I think somewhere in this paragraph lies the root of the problem; specifically, the bit at the end.
"You're forced".
Who's forcing you? What's forcing you? How did it get to be that way, and how could you reverse that situation?
Like I said before though, I've been forced to go to college by my parents. If I quit, they've threatened to completely cut me off from their support in anything. It frustrates the hell out of me considering my mother is the one so crazy about it yet she didn't go. Perhaps that's simply why but... she didn't go to college and she has a pretty nice life.
FaceFaceFace said:
TLDR; College isn't a magical place where you go in a high school grad and come out a successful person with a job. You have to have an idea of what you will do after college while IN college, major and network accordingly, and then it will work out great for you. Most people just go in, pick a major, take classes, and get a degree, and then yeah, all they have is a piece of paper.
EDIT: I'm American, so "college" and "university" interchangeably mean university.
See, this is the problem I'm having. Most people tell me constantly that it
is a magical place that will instantly grant you ANY job you could ever dream of, seemingly regardless of what major you decide on when... that is just straight up bullshit. I have a friend even who has a 4 year degree in Psychology, yet still lives with his parents because he can't do fuck all with that slip of paper.
And people here keep mentioning connections and all this but... I don't want to sound like I'm trying to get sympathy or anything but I pretty much don't talk to anyone. Not because I'm disinterested, I'm just not social and have problems talking to people for the most part. My doctor diagnosed me with Asperger's but I refuse to believe that.
Still, I get that it can be good but from what I've seen, all this place is doing to me is bleeding me of any money I might have and putting me more in debt. Every class is, for the most part, online. Even though you attend a class with other people, the work is all turned in through school emails. This is made worse seeing as they've limited one's resources to only what the school offers. In other words; our tests, text books, grades and attendance comes from how often we visit our school email. Not what we do in class but the cyber bit of it. And guess what that means? You're required to
buy everything online. You can't look it up, you can't not use the text book, you have to pay even more than the tuition in order to activate your account and take tests and write essays.
This is my biggest problem. If that isn't obvious they just want as much money as they can get, I don't know what is.
The Abhorrent said:
And this is another thing; I'm not looking for a licensed career in really anything. Of course you have to get a degree to be a doctor or a lawyer but I don't want to be that. Engineering seems to be popular since you absolutely have to have that degree and it almost always pays well but... I don't want to be that. It isn't something I'm good at but I entirely understand how it can be good for that. It's just not something I want to be.