I'm not talking to you.

[WlknCntrdiction]

So, my friends with benefits just walked out my door(not forever, just until Tuesday). Anyway she didn't go out with a kiss or a cuddle or anything, she went out in a huff, not a visible huff but the "huff" that girls get into when you've done something wrong and they want you to know you've done something wrong so they go silent on you and ignore you. Every guy should know what I'm on about right now.
My "crime" was being too tired(just after we had had sex)and not being able to get up and walk her down the hill near where I live into town. She did everything in her "power" to get me up but I wouldn't budge, because I actually couldn't move, I was that tired, and I have work in like an hour. She got up, got dressed, collected her stuff and went out the room, I tried to say something to her but she said "I'm not talking to you", put her headphones in and went out the door.
Annoyed doesn't begin to describe how I'm feeling at the moment but I'm not that bothered, she'll cool off, they all do, so I'm just going to rest up until I start work soon, hope I'm not too tired for it:/

Topic: Basically guys have you ever done something wrong to a girl that's made them mad and give you the cold shoulder? What was it you did? And what did they take away from you?(If anything). And girls the same to you, any guys got upset with you and given you the cold shoulder?

 

[Ryokugax]

My ex went looking in my laptop while I was out and found a whole lot of chatlogs I'd had where a female friend of mine and I had been flirting. We've known each other for years and it was just how we worked, playful flirting here and there with no real intent, and my ex went ballistic. Drank half a bottle of single malt scotch, which still hurts me today because it was a very nice scotch indeed, and stayed silent for most of the day.

 

[Neonbob]

Well, I didn't walk my girlfriend back to her dorm one morning.
I'd only gotten three hours of sleep, and I could not get up if the building was on fire, so I just hugged her and said bye.
She was upset with me for the entire day.
But the next day, she was over it.

 

[WlknCntrdiction]

My ex went looking in my laptop while I was out and found a whole lot of chatlogs I'd had where a female friend of mine and I had been flirting. We've known each other for years and it was just how we worked, playful flirting here and there with no real intent, and my ex went ballistic. Drank half a bottle of single malt scotch, which still hurts me today because it was a very nice scotch indeed, and stayed silent for most of the day.

Wow. I'll personally never understand why they go crazy over stuff like that. I'm assuming that of course you tried to tell her you were friends but she wasn't having any of it? To be honest, I would be(in your position)pretty hurt that she didn't believe me, it's weird cause she's your girlfriend, you would think that would speak volumes, right?

 

[Baggie]

A lot of the time it's a bunch of things that have been happening, whether between you two or just in her life in general, and small things push them over the edge, take it out on you. Kind of sucks but that's how people work.

 

[E_nchanted]

well there was this time.. we had this close friend group.. Me, my best friend , this girl, this other girl (first girls best friend), and 2 other none relevant guys. i fall in love with the first girl and she liked me, so i screwed around with her (in my best friends face).. to bad he loved her before me, and i kinda promised not to take her.. (stupid hormones..) so i lost my best friend.. our relationship broke because she liked her ex to much.. days after the break up, i started screwing around with her best friend. pissed the first girl of.. making her mad at the secend girl.. then the secend girl started hating me because, her best friend hated her.. so she broke up to.. so I lost my best friend and 2 good femile friends all in one week .. god that was probably my worst week ever -_-"

ps: neither of the 3 are talking to me -_-"

 

[Ryokugax]

Wow. I'll personally never understand why they go crazy over stuff like that. I'm assuming that of course you tried to tell her you were friends but she wasn't having any of it? To be honest, I would be(in your position)pretty hurt that she didn't believe me, it's weird cause she's your girlfriend, you would think that would speak volumes, right?

Put it this way. Including me? 4/5 boyfriends she's had have gone gay.

The other is now living as a woman.

I almost WISH I was joking

 

[Legion]

And girls the same to you, any(wussy)guys got upset with you and given you the cold shoulder?

Just a little bit sexist. What if the girl cheated on her boyfriend? Flirted with another guy right in front of him? Sold something that was priceless?

well there was this time.. we had this close friend group.. Me, my best friend , this girl, this other girl (first girls best friend), and 2 other none relevant guys. i fall in love with the first girl and she liked me, so i screwed around with her (in my best friends face).. to bad he loved her before me, and i kinda promised not to take her.. (stupid hormones..) so i lost my best friend.. our relationship broke because she liked her ex to much.. days after the break up, i started screwing around with her best friend. pissed the first girl of.. making her mad at the secend girl.. then the secend girl started hating me because, her best friend hated her.. so she broke up to.. so I lost my best friend and 2 good femile friends all in one week .. god that was probably my worst week ever -_-"

ps: neither of the 3 are talking to me -_-"

The '-_-' almost indicates that we should feel sorry for you. Which we really shouldn't, and I don't. You screw around with people and you should expect/deserve the worst.

 

[WlknCntrdiction]

Wow. I'll personally never understand why they go crazy over stuff like that. I'm assuming that of course you tried to tell her you were friends but she wasn't having any of it? To be honest, I would be(in your position)pretty hurt that she didn't believe me, it's weird cause she's your girlfriend, you would think that would speak volumes, right?

Put it this way. Including me? 4/5 boyfriends she's had have gone gay.

The other is now living as a woman.

I almost WISH I was joking

o.0
No comment.

A lot of the time it's a bunch of things that have been happening, whether between you two or just in her life in general, and small things push them over the edge, take it out on you. Kind of sucks but that's how people work.

I hear that. It didn't look like she had anything on her mind. But guess there's always something on their minds so them "exploding" at you(or someone else)is inevitable, at best lol.

 

[SmartIdiot]

Yeah that happened to me a few times. They got mad because I don't have telepathy.

 

[Ryokugax]

o.0
No comment.

Funniest thing about that story is she accused me of "emotionally cheating on her" with the friend, when ironically even then I was in love with the friend who is now my boyfriend.

 

[WlknCntrdiction]

o.0
No comment.

Funniest thing about that story is she accused me of "emotionally cheating on her" with the friend, when ironically even then I was in love with the friend who is now my boyfriend.

Lol. Well she seems pretty volatile to me judging by what you said so it's probably a good thing she's your ex.

 

[Ryokugax]

Women are nutters, so are men. It's a fact of life.

 

[dibblywibbles]

I had a girl go crazy on me once and I didn't even do anything(maybe that was the problem). It was right after I finished my last final for the semester and I was hanging out with some friends and we were having a two part celebration(fall semester over, Christmas in three days and we were saying goodbye to the out of towners). She was going to Cuba over the holidays so she didn't come out and meet up with us, but I did have a pleasant phone conversation with her and was looking forward to the cigars and rum she promised to bring back from her vacation. Well about 5 pints later I get a phone call and she's in hysterics. she mentioned something about her moms boyfriend kicking her out of the house(she didn't live there anyways). I was completely overwhelmed by the situation and stayed silent for a bit. She accused me of laughing at her and hung up the phone. I get an e-mail about a week later saying I should never speak to her again and that I'm an awful person(not entirely untrue, but it was unjust in this situation)who she wished bad things upon. Needless to say, I didn't get those cigars

 

[Ryokugax]

I had a girl go crazy on me once and I didn't even do anything(maybe that was the problem). It was right after I finished my last final for the semester and I was hanging out with some friends and we were having a two part celebration(fall semester over, Christmas in three days and we were saying goodbye to the out of towners). She was going to Cuba over the holidays so she didn't come out and meet up with us, but I did have a pleasant phone conversation with her and was looking forward to the cigars and rum she promised to bring back from her vacation. Well about 5 pints later I get a phone call and she's in hysterics. she mentioned something about her moms boyfriend kicking her out of the house(she didn't live there anyways). I was completely overwhelmed by the situation and stayed silent for a bit. She accused me of laughing at her and hung up the phone. I get an e-mail about a week later saying I should never speak to her again and that I'm an awful person(not entirely untrue, but it was unjust in this situation)who she wished bad things upon. Needless to say, I didn't get those cigars

DAMN man, that rum and those cigars would've been fantastic! What a kick in the hole that is, my commiserations to you.

 

[Haunted Serenity]

Yeah that happened to me a few times. They got mad because I don't have telepathy.

Yup try being married for a year. She expects you to know right then what she wants and what shes thinking.

Seriously though i've had great girlfriends who still do the you know what you did huff trick...it is more common and worse in a bad relationship.

well there was this time.. we had this close friend group.. Me, my best friend , this girl, this other girl (first girls best friend), and 2 other none relevant guys. i fall in love with the first girl and she liked me, so i screwed around with her (in my best friends face).. to bad he loved her before me, and i kinda promised not to take her.. (stupid hormones..) so i lost my best friend.. our relationship broke because she liked her ex to much.. days after the break up, i started screwing around with her best friend. pissed the first girl of.. making her mad at the secend girl.. then the secend girl started hating me because, her best friend hated her.. so she broke up to.. so I lost my best friend and 2 good femile friends all in one week .. god that was probably my worst week ever -_-"


ps: neither of the 3 are talking to me -_-"

Thats how i met my wife. Stole her from a good friend at the time. What can i say i am a womanizer...i mean was. He's still friends with me but i sleep with one eye open cause i know he'd kill me if he had the chance. Not so much once he found out how spazing she can get but thats not often.

 

[johnzaku]

I've got a good one

My ex got very very mad at me for holding her hand

That's right, we nearly broke up because I wanted to hold her hand on some occasions. Now, I wouldn't mind that much if it was the first time, but we'd been going out for about a month, when she finally goes ballistic on me.

I kinda wish we had broken up, that thanksgiving she left me to go back to her ex who beat her and exploited her and knocked her up. fun stuff!

 

[Ryokugax]

I kinda wish we had broken up, that thanksgiving she left me to go back to her ex who beat her and exploited her and knocked her up. fun stuff!

Women, eh? Can't live with them and can't slap them upside the head like you would a male friend who did something as monumentally stupid as that.

 

[WlknCntrdiction]

I've got a good one

My ex got very very mad at me for holding her hand

That's right, we nearly broke up because I wanted to hold her hand on some occasions. Now, I wouldn't mind that much if it was the first time, but we'd been going out for about a month, when she finally goes ballistic on me.

I kinda wish we had broken up, that thanksgiving she left me to go back to her ex who beat her and exploited her and knocked her up. fun stuff!

You're better off without her mate. Had a similar ex(maybe not as crazy)but she's going out with such a guy now too. Am soooo much better off without her

 

[Communist partisan]

Well i have no gf now but before everytime she acused me of doing something it's yust say ye ye ok or anything to not start a bloody fight than you go out whith you're friends or something else and not give a s*** about anything than shes back to normal everything is ok... but sometimes it hapends than shes planing a revenge and i got kicked in the balls but that's a other thing