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I couldn't begin to list it all. I seem to have a natural talent for pissing off girls that I like/am dating.
Second post reminded me of something: when I was with my previous girlfriend, I realised one day that I very much missed another female friend whom I only briefly got to know. So I emailed said friend and we chatted happily and it was rad and I said, hey, we should go get coffee sometime. I ask girlfriend if she's okay with it and she says she is. A few days later she drinks herself into a stupor (while I'm there) and I have to walk her all of the 8km home, her vomiting all the way and breaking down into a crying fit in the middle of the road.
Stupid *****. I've found real love now (with said friend). It is beautiful and it is terrible and it is my world. *happiness*
Stupid *****. I've found real love now (with said friend). It is beautiful and it is terrible and it is my world. *happiness*
I caught some food poisoning on the day me and her were supposed to go to the beach and she pretty much dumped me and asked my best friend if he wanted to go instead! I know because he was dropping off some medicine, and when she dumped me (via text message, by the way) she almost immediately texted him saying I was being a dick and asked if he wanted to go "have some fun", which is pretty much what she always says when she wants sex. He texted back "no", and within probably five seconds she texted me saying she'd take me back! I immediately indicated that she was, in fact, a prostitute, and we haven't spoken since (though about a week later I hooked up with her sister as a form of sexy revenge)(my friend laughs at this chapter in my life and tells me I'm a soap opera)
I like how you refer to them as "attacks" lol.MelziGurl said:
*Angry woman cast cold shoulder attack*
*It's super effective*
*Man entered state of "pussy whipped"*
Why do you use it on him out of curiosity? You obviously know you're using it, but why? Has he actually done anything wrong that deserves it? Other than obviously things that you would get angry at him for, not the slight litle annoyances that affect everyone.
This is so true. The first thing she texted back was "i'm fine", I knew I was in the shitter once I read those two words.MiserableOldGit said:
I think he's joking, don't be so harsh o.0Glefistus said:
My ex got mad at me when my grandpa died because it ruined our road trip and vacation. He was cold toward me for around a week and was unkind about the entire situation, even though I was grieving.
That sucks, she sounds like a total *****. I hope you got your money back.Xyphon said:
Because all women are exactly the same, yeah that makes sense.SirBryghtside said:
I use it as a means to win something I'm obviously losing at. It never actually works, just pisses him off, then it pisses me off that it's pissed him off etc etc it's a vicious cycle. We make up later on though, that's probably where we both winWlknCntrdiction said:
But seriously, they are attacks just subtle ones. I'm not afraid to admit I do it *shrugs* It's just the way most women are, any woman who says they haven't tried this battle strategy is lying.
Sounds like you lost your benefits, and a friend.
The whole friends and benefits thing is a dangerous dangerous game
I have never annoyed a boyfriend to the point that they won`t speak to me. I am quite nice to my boyfriends. I cook good food, give massages, provide beer, let them watch football, never take them shopping e.t.c.
I also never use passive agression. I tell them when they are annoying me. I tell them when they are doing stuff I do not like or get out of line
But my last dumped me for my best friend. I had one night of bitter ranting at him and her, then haven`t spoken to them since.
At first I was very upset, I kept thinking `what did I do wrong`, but looking back I am happy to be rid of the both of them, they deserve each other.
Women are nuts though, I symphathise with men. I could never play for the other team, I am enough nuts for two people already.
The whole friends and benefits thing is a dangerous dangerous game
I have never annoyed a boyfriend to the point that they won`t speak to me. I am quite nice to my boyfriends. I cook good food, give massages, provide beer, let them watch football, never take them shopping e.t.c.
I also never use passive agression. I tell them when they are annoying me. I tell them when they are doing stuff I do not like or get out of line
But my last dumped me for my best friend. I had one night of bitter ranting at him and her, then haven`t spoken to them since.
At first I was very upset, I kept thinking `what did I do wrong`, but looking back I am happy to be rid of the both of them, they deserve each other.
Women are nuts though, I symphathise with men. I could never play for the other team, I am enough nuts for two people already.
I know all too well this strategy tbh. Really should have known it could have come out of nowhere so I shouldn't have been surprised she started behaving like that, though I was genuinely tired and found it hard to move afterwards, the thought of walking her down my hill then having to walk back up kinda paralysed me lol.MelziGurl said:I use it as a means to win something I'm obviously losing at. It never actually works, just pisses him off, then it pisses me off that it's pissed him off etc etc it's a vicious cycle. We make up later on though, that's probably where we both winWlknCntrdiction said:
Generally if my wife is giving me the cold shoulder, I can wait her out. It can be difficult, she's just as stubborn as me. But usually, it becomes almost a joke, to see how long either of us can go without speaking to the other.
Seriously, if she is giving me the cold shoulder, it's because she is so upset that she is afraid she'll say something that will spark a real fight. Only after a little while will we discuss it, when passions aren't running so high.
In reality, though, people are going to do what they do. She can't get made at me for acting in accordance with who I am (like leaving my shoes everywhere when I get home from work, or when I leave several weeks worth of laundry on my side of the bed,) just like I can't get mad at her for being her (like when she chews popcorn with her mouth open and her lips smacking, or the fact that she seems completely incapable of washing a single dish.) We can get annoyed, but don't generally fight about it.
My experience with women: they can get irritated by you constantly pestering them over something like this. Asking them what's wrong shows your concerned, and thats wonderful, but obsessing about it may imply that she's not allowed to feel and think differently from you.
Seriously, if she is giving me the cold shoulder, it's because she is so upset that she is afraid she'll say something that will spark a real fight. Only after a little while will we discuss it, when passions aren't running so high.
In reality, though, people are going to do what they do. She can't get made at me for acting in accordance with who I am (like leaving my shoes everywhere when I get home from work, or when I leave several weeks worth of laundry on my side of the bed,) just like I can't get mad at her for being her (like when she chews popcorn with her mouth open and her lips smacking, or the fact that she seems completely incapable of washing a single dish.) We can get annoyed, but don't generally fight about it.
My experience with women: they can get irritated by you constantly pestering them over something like this. Asking them what's wrong shows your concerned, and thats wonderful, but obsessing about it may imply that she's not allowed to feel and think differently from you.
Yeah, nevermind the fact I have to go to work, you know, to earn money? I'm sure most people have felt tired but still had to go to work.galletea said:
I have to wake up for 6 sometimes to go to work, oh, I can't be assed, I'll ring up my employer and tell him I can't come into work today because I'm too tired, let's see how that goes down shall we? By your logic you have no sympathy for anyone who's tired but still go to work.
Please think before you post something stupid.
with my ex girlfriend i had been talking to her on the phone for a couple of hours and had run out of things to say so i said i wanted to game for an hour or 2 she said ok so i didnt think it was a bad idea ... big mistake she got very pissed luckily i got bored of gaming so i called her back 20 or so minutes later she was crying and never let me game around her again ...
I had that problem once. It's like saying "you're boring me I'm going to go play games now cause you're boring". My ex didn't speak to me for a while after me doing that either. I remedied it by saying "I have stuff to do", which I did, it just involved playing games after I had done that stuff.Pacman_69_42 said:
To be honest, It's merely your exaggeration of the events and the excuses you're making that stop me feeling sorry for you. I guess I just don't understand your reasoning, if you had to get up anyway, why couldn't you have gotten up to walk her that short way?WlknCntrdiction said:
'fraid not OP.
Me and my girlfriend are pretty tolerant of eachother.
*Shrug*
But my best friend is in a relationship where that's all it is, her doing that to him.
*****.
Me and my girlfriend are pretty tolerant of eachother.
*Shrug*
But my best friend is in a relationship where that's all it is, her doing that to him.
*****.
I'm just going to nip this in the bud now.galletea said:
1. I didn't ask you to feel sorry for me and I didn't ask for your sympathy cause frankly I couldn't care less about either of them, it was simply a link into the topic at hand.
2. It's anything but a short way to walk.
3. Let's keep things on topic here.
Stalk3rchief said:
Good to hear.
I'd tell your friend to get out of that relationship personally, doesn't sound like it would do him any favours if that's all she does:/
Does she do it for control? Enjoyment? Just because she's a *****? Other? lol
Oh my god, all of the above?WlknCntrdiction said:Stalk3rchief said:
Good to hear.
I'd tell your friend to get out of that relationship personally, doesn't sound like it would do him any favours if that's all she does:/
Does she do it for control? Enjoyment? Just because she's a *****? Other? lol
lol
He's the lead guitarist in a local band, and all of them have been telling him to end things with her.
Idk, he's the guy that puts up with abuse and just says he loves her and so on.
*sigh*
Oh. He's one of those guys, not in a band guys, I meant ones who just take abuse lol.Stalk3rchief said:Oh my god, all of the above?WlknCntrdiction said:Stalk3rchief said:
Good to hear.
I'd tell your friend to get out of that relationship personally, doesn't sound like it would do him any favours if that's all she does:/
Does she do it for control? Enjoyment? Just because she's a *****? Other? lol
lol
He's the lead guitarist in a local band, and all of them have been telling him to end things with her.
Idk, he's the guy that puts up with abuse and just says he loves her and so on.
*sigh*
I've talked to too many hard headed friends who have been in the same situation, it's not nice, though there's not much you can do either. You insult the girl, he gets defensive saying she's the greatest thing that's walked into his life(one of my friends said that, sad soul)and not to talk bad about her ever. It's a fine line between losing a friend and losing a friend, if that makes sense lol.