I'm not talking to you.

[Smudge91]

It's not just simply a 'cold shoulder' what you were being attacked with was emotional blackmail. She didn't just walk out of the room angry with you, she wanted you to cave in to her demands. I should know, it's an attack I use on my partner in various situations. It's completely different to a simple 'cold shoulder' attack.

that move works wonders.
The cold shoulder gets boring for me after a while so yeah i tend to do the emotional black mail or do exactly what he did to me.

 

[Bat Vader]

Not really a "huff", more like a sledgehammer to the balls.

I was 16 and dating an 18 year old woman. She cheated on me just because I didn't want to have intercourse with her at my age. I found out she was cheating on me on her birthday in the worst way ever. I walked over to her house with a brand new Xbox 360 that I bought for her. I knocked on the door, she answered and tried to kiss me. Her breath smelled REALLY bad so I had to back up and tell her not to kiss me. Went to her room and set the 360 on her bed. She told me to look in the top drawer because she had a little present for me.

I looked in there and found a used condom that was still warm and had fluids dripping out of it. The guy walked out of the bathroom laughing. I picked up the 360 and just walked right back to my house.

You should have thrown it at his face, or shoved it down her throat. Or beat the shit out of both of them with the xbox.

And waste a perfectly good gaming console? Are you mad man?

 

[Bat Vader]

It's alright Max, I understand your asexuality so it's cool

Ugk, this made me kinda angry.
I want to say serves you right for having a friend with benifits, I absolutely hate the idea of that. And the 'hurr hurr, I can get secks' thing I'm getting.

"Annoyed doesn't begin to describe how I'm feeling at the moment but I'm not that bothered, she'll cool off, they all do"
That line annoyed me too, 'they all do' I hate that generalised view men have of us. Don't men get pissed off?
I'm far from feminist, but come on. Also I'm bored and any message is a message.
And yes, I've got pissed off at my boyfriend before, but I'm only human.

Hurr hurr, I can get secks
It may be a generalised view but it's more than founded if it's become a generalisation, and I never said men don't get pissed off. Please learn to read.

I know, but your post just seemed to be one of those typical 'oh, those bloody women, all the same, they can't be as laid back as us' things men say, mainly male comedienons (Patrick Kielty).
Also, 'please learn to read.' It would be pretty useless being unable to read and taking English at A-level and possibly at uni, yes?

I suppose for taking English also it would mean you read too much into words and finding things that aren't there. No, it wasn't meant to sound like any male comedians. "It seems"? Thank you for putting words in my mouth, that's all I'll say on this.

Ok you two stop fighting.

 

[Kurokami]

So, my friends with benefits just walked out my door(not forever, just until Tuesday). Anyway she didn't go out with a kiss or a cuddle or anything, she went out in a huff, not a visible huff but the "huff" that girls get into when you've done something wrong and they want you to know you've done something wrong so they go silent on you and ignore you. Every guy should know what I'm on about right now.
My "crime" was being too tired(just after we had had sex)and not being able to get up and walk her down the hill near where I live into town. She did everything in her "power" to get me up but I wouldn't budge, because I actually couldn't move, I was that tired, and I have work in like an hour. She got up, got dressed, collected her stuff and went out the room, I tried to say something to her but she said "I'm not talking to you", put her headphones in and went out the door.
Annoyed doesn't begin to describe how I'm feeling at the moment but I'm not that bothered, she'll cool off, they all do, so I'm just going to rest up until I start work soon, hope I'm not too tired for it:/

Topic: Basically guys have you ever done something wrong to a girl that's made them mad and give you the cold shoulder? What was it you did? And what did they take away from you?(If anything). And girls the same to you, any guys got upset with you and given you the cold shoulder?

Most the time simply refusing to do the slightest task, such as agreeing that some guy is dreamy is enough to set them off. But then women on this side of the world are slightly more aggressive.

 

[Bat Vader]

Makes me glad I am not in a relationship. If people act like this I don't mind staying single.

 

[Spacelord]

Topic: Basically guys have you ever done something wrong to a girl that's made them mad and give you the cold shoulder? What was it you did? And what did they take away from you?(If anything). And girls the same to you, any guys got upset with you and given you the cold shoulder?

I can't be sure, but it sounds like you're reaping the inevitable consequences of the inherently flawed concept of 'friends with benefits'.

 

[Zac_Dai]

Topic: Basically guys have you ever done something wrong to a girl that's made them mad and give you the cold shoulder? What was it you did? And what did they take away from you?(If anything). And girls the same to you, any guys got upset with you and given you the cold shoulder?

If I lived in Luton I wouldn't want to leave the house either.

Anyway in these siutations where you get the silent treat/walk of in huff etc. You have to end the bullshit.

Just keep arguing to them and following them even if they are trying their best to ignore you. Don't let up and eventually they will crack and apologise and you should then apologise too.

Obviously this won't work if you've just fucked their sister in front of them, you have to at least be somewhat in the right.

 

[WlknCntrdiction]

Makes me glad I am not in a relationship. If people act like this I don't mind staying single.

I don't mind being in a relationship. I'd rather be in one now if anything but alas there are no girls that I'm interested in atm, perhaps the onset of uni will bring some girls to my doorstep(in a metaphorical sense lol).

I can't be sure, but it sounds like you're reaping the inevitable consequences of the inherently flawed concept of 'friends with benefits'.

We've been friends with benefits since February, judging by what's happened between us in the past this year I would say that this "incident" is actually quite minor:/

 

[WlknCntrdiction]

Topic: Basically guys have you ever done something wrong to a girl that's made them mad and give you the cold shoulder? What was it you did? And what did they take away from you?(If anything). And girls the same to you, any guys got upset with you and given you the cold shoulder?

If I lived in Luton I wouldn't want to leave the house either.

Anyway in these siutations where you get the silent treat/walk of in huff etc. You have to end the bullshit.

Just keep arguing to them and following them even if they are trying their best to ignore you. Don't let up and eventually they will crack and apologise and you should then apologise too.

Obviously this won't work if you've just fucked their sister in front of them, you have to at least be somewhat in the right.

Oy oy, we'll have none of that now, Luton is an alright place lol.

I have apologised and she said she was "fine"(which means she isn't lol)so I'll leave it, but when a few days pass I'll see how she is again and apologise again

 

[Vanguard_Ex]

Wow. I'll personally never understand why they go crazy over stuff like that. I'm assuming that of course you tried to tell her you were friends but she wasn't having any of it? To be honest, I would be(in your position)pretty hurt that she didn't believe me, it's weird cause she's your girlfriend, you would think that would speak volumes, right?

Put it this way. Including me? 4/5 boyfriends she's had have gone gay.

The other is now living as a woman.

I almost WISH I was joking

Which reminds me of a funny story, although not really belonging here. Whatever, I'm gonna tell it anyway. One night, my friend, his sister and her boyfriend were all hanging out getting drunk, aaand I forget the gap in between but basically my friend cockslapped his sister's boyfriend, who is now gay, as what we like to think of as a result ^^

 

[PurpleLeafRave]

Me and my mate made a bet over who would get to "base 4" with our girlfriends first. They found out. Bad times.

 

[Spacelord]

I can't be sure, but it sounds like you're reaping the inevitable consequences of the inherently flawed concept of 'friends with benefits'.

We've been friends with benefits since February, judging by what's happened between us in the past this year I would say that this "incident" is actually quite minor:/

Harsh, dude. :S Well whatever you decide to do, I do wish you the best of luck and as much nookie as you can steal before the whole thing blows. [small]pun not intended[/small]

 

[WlknCntrdiction]

I can't be sure, but it sounds like you're reaping the inevitable consequences of the inherently flawed concept of 'friends with benefits'.

We've been friends with benefits since February, judging by what's happened between us in the past this year I would say that this "incident" is actually quite minor:/

Harsh, dude. :S Well whatever you decide to do, I do wish you the best of luck and as much nookie as you can steal before the whole thing blows. [small]pun not intended[/small]

Thank you
You can "steal" nookie? Why was I not informed of this? o.0 lol

 

[manicfoot]

I don't interact with people on a sexual basis.
It's too much fucking bother.

Completely agree with you. Wouldn't care if I never got laid again tbh.

 

[E_nchanted]

hm... I've never had that happen to me (could be a lack of any girlfriends but I doubt it... )
And, I'm sorry, but a lot of this seems to have too little info or YOU were doing something that was total grounds for flying off the handle...

My ex went looking in my laptop while I was out and found a whole lot of chatlogs I'd had where a female friend of mine and I had been flirting. We've known each other for years and it was just how we worked, playful flirting here and there with no real intent, and my ex went ballistic. Drank half a bottle of single malt scotch, which still hurts me today because it was a very nice scotch indeed, and stayed silent for most of the day.

What exactly was said "flirting"?

well there was this time.. we had this close friend group.. Me, my best friend , this girl, this other girl (first girls best friend), and 2 other none relevant guys. i fall in love with the first girl and she liked me, so i screwed around with her (in my best friends face).. to bad he loved her before me, and i kinda promised not to take her.. (stupid hormones..) so i lost my best friend.. our relationship broke because she liked her ex to much.. days after the break up, i started screwing around with her best friend. pissed the first girl of.. making her mad at the secend girl.. then the secend girl started hating me because, her best friend hated her.. so she broke up to.. so I lost my best friend and 2 good femile friends all in one week .. god that was probably my worst week ever -_-"

ps: neither of the 3 are talking to me -_-"

Are we SUPPOSED to feel sorry for you? You activly screwed around with everyone and lost all your friends.
And blaming it on hormones is RIDICULOUS, I am a raging pool of hormones (LOL NOT THE PRETTIEST PICTURE) But I don't just stand up in class and start masturbating "Because the hormones made me get a boner"

well yea.. its not like its all my fault.. i loved someone..(thats why my ex-best friend hates me.. i'm human can't help having feelings, now can i?) she had feelings for me.. but more for her ex.. (who lives in some other country -_-) so we broke up.. then the second girl was there for me.. turned out she had the hots for me.. and we were getting along nicely.. but because the fisrt girl got jealous, she hated me too.. thats just not fair.. I gave the first girl a chose, the ex or me.. she choise the ex.. she's just being a hipocrite..

 

[barryween]

hm... I've never had that happen to me (could be a lack of any girlfriends but I doubt it... )
And, I'm sorry, but a lot of this seems to have too little info or YOU were doing something that was total grounds for flying off the handle...

My ex went looking in my laptop while I was out and found a whole lot of chatlogs I'd had where a female friend of mine and I had been flirting. We've known each other for years and it was just how we worked, playful flirting here and there with no real intent, and my ex went ballistic. Drank half a bottle of single malt scotch, which still hurts me today because it was a very nice scotch indeed, and stayed silent for most of the day.

What exactly was said "flirting"?

well there was this time.. we had this close friend group.. Me, my best friend , this girl, this other girl (first girls best friend), and 2 other none relevant guys. i fall in love with the first girl and she liked me, so i screwed around with her (in my best friends face).. to bad he loved her before me, and i kinda promised not to take her.. (stupid hormones..) so i lost my best friend.. our relationship broke because she liked her ex to much.. days after the break up, i started screwing around with her best friend. pissed the first girl of.. making her mad at the secend girl.. then the secend girl started hating me because, her best friend hated her.. so she broke up to.. so I lost my best friend and 2 good femile friends all in one week .. god that was probably my worst week ever -_-"

ps: neither of the 3 are talking to me -_-"

Are we SUPPOSED to feel sorry for you? You activly screwed around with everyone and lost all your friends.
And blaming it on hormones is RIDICULOUS, I am a raging pool of hormones (LOL NOT THE PRETTIEST PICTURE) But I don't just stand up in class and start masturbating "Because the hormones made me get a boner"

well yea.. its not like its all my fault.. i loved someone..(thats why my ex-best friend hates me.. i'm human can't help having feelings, now can i?) she had feelings for me.. but more for her ex.. (who lives in some other country -_-) so we broke up.. then the second girl was there for me.. turned out she had the hots for me.. and we were getting along nicely.. but because the fisrt girl got jealous, she hated me too.. thats just not fair.. I gave the first girl a chose, the ex or me.. she choise the ex.. she's just being a hipocrite..

Yeah, I guess I get where you are coming from, I guess it just wasn't fully fleshed out (the story, I mean) k thanks for the clear up!