unpronounceable said:
I would argue that this is biology, not sexism.
No. No no no no no no no no. No.
Biological determinism should be forbidden by law. Or at least ridiculed like we ridicule racial supremacists. Biology is not a tool to justify sexism. We are not slaves to biology. Just because women can be mothers doesn't mean that we should confine the attractiveness of women to physical indications of motherhood while men can be skinny, muscled, short, tall, hairless, hairy, or anything in between and it's perfectly all right and desirable.
unpronounceable said:
You appear to have to unfortunate habit of telling people to look stuff up instead of giving a basic explanation, so I will do something else.
I do that when I have already explained myself at least twice in this very thread.
unpronounceable said:
I will actually explain myself.
Sexual dimorphism is when there is a phenotypic difference between the genders of the same species.
This means that while they have similar genetics, the way those genes are expressed are different.
This is because they have evolved to fill different roles.
Men are stronger and taller phenotypically than women.
Their genes are expressed in such a way that this is true of most people in a given population.
This has taken place because men and women have different roles which are expressed in their phenotypes.
Men have in the past been tasked with hunting and gathering.
Women can do this too, but it is not the way they have evolved.
Tits, wide hips, and pregnancy are not characteristics that are conducive to physical activity.
I would argue that the beauty standard of men with muscles being desirable without a similar trend for women is not a social construct or a manifestation of sexism, it is our biology.
We have evolved to find the mates who fit the evolutionary role more desirable.
Wide hips are desirable because they allow a greater probability of successful childbirth.
Muscles in men are desirable because they allow the man to provide for his family.
No. No. No no no. No. Please,
please stop mangling biology. As a scientist that counts biology as half of his field, I implore you, please stop mutilating my baby and using its severed, bleeding body parts to justify horrible things. This is just like arguing that biologically, some races are smarter than others. It is an atrocious thing that is patently false. That is not how genetics (or biology) works at all.
I will link you to a very basic Feminism 101 post [http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/05/10/faq-but-men-and-women-are-born-different-isnt-that-obvious/] on gender differences/sexual dimorphism.
Social roles are not a consequence of genetics. They are arbitrary social constructs, and evolution has absolutely nothing to do with it. Sexual dimorphism is not a justification for sexism. That women were told they were attractive when they had large breasts and hips (both which weren't conducive to physical activity) and that their place was to be passive, while men said that they were attractive when they were muscled, powerful and active, is a social construct. That women were told to stay in the kitchen-area, barefoot and pregnant, while the men went out and did important things, wasn't genetics, evolution or biology. Those were men cunningly eliminating half of the species from the race towards power, privilege and leadership.
unpronounceable said:
Of course, in the modern world, this need not apply.
I am not making a value judgement here. Only a statement about our evolutionary origins.
But what you must remember is this.
You cannot blame people for following their biological imperatives.
They desire women who can successfully give birth to a child because that is the entire point of reproduction and sex.
The only trait that is really selected for in evolution is the ability to successfully have offspring that can survive.
Muscular women who cannot bear children have absolutely no evolutionary fitness.
Their genes will not be carried on.
This is a fact of biology, not a component of sexism.
You have overcome my capacity for words. I am so horrified (as both a scientist and a human being) that I do not know how to explain how wrong you are.
I will give it a token try:
Biological imperatives do not exist. You do things because you want to, not because
God the Devil your genes tell you to. It is literally impossible for genes to make you do anything, because they are not magical forms of mind control, they are instructions for how to make proteins. Proteins aren't magical either. No, not even hormones. While sexual attraction
might be genetic (it's still being debated), everything else that gets built on top of that is entirely social (and therefore arbitrary). You find something attractive for basically one of three reasons: A) Society tells you this is attractive. B) Society tells you you shouldn't be attracted to this. C) Something about the thing you find attractive resonates with a part of your personality.
I'm going to try and be as clear as possible: Once humans developed intelligence similar to the kind we enjoy today and started forming societies, evolution stopped having any sort of influence on their behaviour. Our roles, whether gender-based, sexuality-based, racial or otherwise are entirely fabricated and arbitrary. We decide what we find attractive, what our gender roles are, and we can change them if we want to. We just don't want to because we've been doing it like this for so long and because ending male privilege would, well,
end men's privilege as a social class. A lot of men do not want that at any cost.
unpronounceable said:
I think you missed my point.
You were arguing that because men use their manifestation of physical beauty to do work, they are in a power fantasy while women don't do anything with big tits.
I wasn't talking about the role of the "male gaze" or whatever new terms people want to coin.
I was addressing this particular point
No. You missed my point. I never said that "men use their manifestation of physical beauty to do work." I said "men enjoy the luxury of having something very beneficial for them (muscles) also considered physically attractive." Muscles benefit both genders (and yes, women can be muscled as well, if they undertake the proper training regime or engage in the same steroid use that many/most muscled men do), but men, because they have been in a position of power for a long time, have dictated that muscles are
only appealing in men, not in women. The conventions for what is attractive or not has been dictated by men for a long time. Men have decreed that women are supposed to be attracted to muscles because that gives them an excuse to develop something very useful in daily life (that they have often use to victimise women, too), and then decreed that women are only attractive when they are physically weak and displaying outer signs of motherhood (large breasts and curvaceous hips) to reinforce their role in society as mothers and little else.
unpronounceable said:
This doesn't look like a good argument because the inherent nature of tits is that they have very little practical use.
Forget about the camera angle or authorial intent.
Even if the author wanted to have the female do something with her tits, what exactly would he make her do?
You're confusing different points I'm making. One point is that what society deems attractive for women is almost useless for her (the main use of breasts is breast-feeding). The other point is the difference between sexual fantasy and power fantasy. It IS possible to portray a sexualised female character as a power fantasy by having her use her sexuality as a weapon (to distract, seduce, intimidate, and so on), but the difference is that most of the time, the woman is not sexualised for a purpose other than for the eyes of the straight male audience. That is a sexual fantasy. A power fantasy is about agency, action and accomplishment. A sexual fantasy
might contain some degree of agency, action or accomplishment, but they aren't the most important component. In a sexual fantasy, the most important component is the sexualisation or objectification.
unpronounceable said:
Also, what fucking female character stands there looking pretty?
At this point, I'm starting to doubt your taste in media.
What kind of shit are you actually exposing yourself to?
I'll get back to this point later.
No, you're just deliberately misinterpreting my points to avoid acknowledging something you don't want to see. If you genuinely watch regular TV or play videogames and you don't see the way women are sexualised, then you are beyond my help. There is nothing I can do from here, since I cannot watch TV or play videogames with you and point out every single instance a woman is sexualised for no purpose whatsoever but to entice the straight male audience.
When I say "stands there looking pretty" I do not mean literally. That would be ridiculous. What I mean with that phrase is that sexualised women
exist primarily to be watched, and everything else they might do in a story is secondary.
unpronounceable said:
Well, a lot of people have impractical armor or clothing in media.
Men do so as well. Consider for instance, the example of Neo in the matrix.
Bear with me for a minute.
He wears a trenchcoat while fighting the agents.
What a stupid article of clothing to wear into combat, right?
He doesn't wear it because it's practical, he wears it because it looks cool.
This happens all the time in media.
Cool =/= sexualised. Ridiculous weaponry is also impractical and unrealistic, but unless the character licks it or strokes it suggestively, it's not sexualised. Making impossible jumps/stunts, surviving unrealistic situations of danger, accomplishing something that has a million to one chance of succeeding, and so on, all those things are cool and unrealistic. They have absolutely nothing to do with sex whatsoever.
unpronounceable said:
Men like to see less clothing and more skin on women.
This is simply because they think it looks good.
This isn't evidence of sexism. It's just people doing what sells.
Thank you for stating the obvious. I already explained why the current state of the entertainment media is sexist. If you missed it last time, I will repeat it:
"The actual problem is that we see that sort of thing as normal. We assume that it's normal that putting on a half naked woman on the cover will increase sales because the only demographic that matters are straight males. This tells society that women don't matter. They don't matter as consumers, and they don't matter as characters. What matters is that the straight males get their eyecandy, and that their male characters are awesome, while women stand there looking pretty.
That IS sexist."
The problem isn't that women are sexualised. The problem is that women are sexualised a hell of a lot more than men are, and that the entertainment media assumes (save specific niche exceptions) that their audience is made up of straight males, and that women do not matter as either consumers or characters. The problem is that women are conceived as being sexual fantasies for men first and foremost (again, save very specific roles such as The Crone, The Mother Figure and The Child), and everything else they do is secondary to that purpose. That is what is sexist.
unpronounceable said:
You should stop beating this dead horse.
You've explained the theory behind it over and over and over again.
Your links contain no examples.
The movies and tv shows in your video seem sleazy as fuck.
Proportion of people who watch this shit must be marginal.
I question how really ubiquitous these examples of sexualization are.
I will stop beating the dead horse when you actually understand what I'm saying.
Those were examples of popular shows (Smallvile, House). There was another video I didn't link because it was near 10 minute long that included popular movies such as Psycho, Roger Rabbit and others I'm forgetting right now. Take any horror movie. Their rating lets them show tits and bare asses left and right, and most of them do it. I went to see V/H/S last weekend with my best friend and it was god-awful. The two best stories were precisely those with little to no nudity. The other three had women getting naked for a camera and the closest thing we had to equal opportunity sexualisation was brief glimpses of man ass.
Take any action movie. Megan Fox has made a career out of appearing in skimpy outfits and leaning suggestively, and many other actresses have been portrayed the same way. How many juvenile comedies have had sexualised women so that the bumbling male main character could pratfall or concoct zany schemes? How many dramas have sneaked in "artistic nudity" for thinly veiled reasons? How many mystery/suspense movies have had women creeping through their homes/dark hallways/woods in their underwear, bathing suit, bath towel or negligée? Hell, even movies predominantly aimed at women (like Magic Mike) have plenty of bare breasts and female sexualisation.
This isn't something weird or out of the ordinary. This is something that happens everywhere, in most of the entertainment media. You get bombarded by it in ads, TV shows, movies, videogames, comics, hell, even books can easily spend paragraphs describing a woman's appealing appearance.
unpronounceable said:
I do agree with one point though.
Women are expected to be sexier than men.
Men don't really have to be very good looking to have presence in media.
This is true.
However, this one gripe is hardly an example of systematic sexism.
After all, there are some stereotypes and double standards that favor women.
Yes, that is the entire point. Women are considered first and foremost to be sexually attractive (again, save very specific exceptions), and everything else they might do or be is secondary. Men are conceived differently by the media.
Also, any instance of a woman being favoured by society is an instance of benevolent sexism [http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2008/02/09/faq-female-privilege/].
unpronounceable said:
Again, vague references to the overwhelming presence of half-naked women in the media.
I don't see this very much.
Unless I actually know what you're talking about, I can't refute your point.
For the sake of simplicity, I'll assume that you're talking about video games.
I do not consider it reasonable to ask me to demonstrate something that is self-evident. If you cannot see something that is everywhere, then me pointing it out is not going to magically open your eyes. You're going to nitpick every example I might give because you are absolutely convinced that what I'm trying to show you doesn't exist. I do not consider having my time wasted as something very appealing.
unpronounceable said:
The reason that women are admittedly used as eye candy in video game art is because the primary demographic consuming video games is men.
People do what sells.
This doesn't mean it is sexist.
You'll notice that ken dolls are manufactured to look physically fit, with noticeable abs and muscles.
They do this because it sells, not because they are sexist.
I have no idea how you can sustain the cognitive dissonance necessary to say "It's okay for women to be sexualised or objectified under the assumption that the audience is made up of straight males and nobody else matters. No, this isn't sexist, why do you ask?"
Also, something you seem to be claiming over and over is that "because it sells" is somehow mutually exclusive with sexism. You are aware that most men do not want to be sexist, right? You are aware that sexism, despite that, still exists, right? Sexism, for the most part, is entirely unconscious. Most men aren't sexist because they genuinely hate women or think they're inferior, they are sexist because society has taught them sexist things, and they interpret those sexist things as normal. Yes,
obviously, game companies put half-naked women on covers because it sells. Duh. I highly doubt any game developer thinks women are worthless bitches (though I'm sure there are a couple who do think so, they are a minority).
Sexism isn't an individual problem. It's a societal and systemic problem. Society perpetuates sexist ideas that get passed down from generation to generation and accepted as normal, and what we're seeing right now is the logical consequence of that.
unpronounceable said:
If women were a bigger proportion of the gaming market, this wouldn't be happening.
Am I blaming women here?
No.
But it would appear that the vast majority of women have different interests.
Whether this is because of an inherent gender difference or cultural upbringing is uncertain.
There is no such thing as "inherent gender difference", let's make that clear from the start.
Now that I got that out of the way, don't you think a simpler explanation (Occam's Razor!) is that women are turned off by the portrayal of women in the medium? Wouldn't you get turned off by a medium if all you saw from it at first glance were half-naked dudes posing suggestively, an overabundance of female main characters, and finding that even when your gender makes it to main character, they are still put on a suggestive outfit and sexualised for the camera? And how would you feel if someone said "Well, if your gender was a bigger proportion of the market, this wouldn't be happening", huh? Wouldn't you find it a bit of a Catch-22 to say that the medium would be more welcoming to your gender if your gender was more prevalent, when the main reason your gender is not as prevalent is because the medium is very unwelcoming?
unpronounceable said:
However, what is certain is that this is the way to make money.
That's why they do it.
Not because women are objects.
Everything and everyone on a videogame cover is a marketing tool.
This does not mean that they are being objectified.
They are not mutually exclusive. A woman can be objectified in order to sell something. In fact, that's the main reason women are objectified, because objectification sells. That's why the porn industry is so big.
I do agree that not all instances of sexualisation are objectification, but the idea that women being sexualised is normal while men being sexualised is out of the ordinary (because the audience is assumed to be straight and male, they assume women don't matter, yadda yadda, you know how this goes) IS sexist. "Because it sells" is just like saying that a company is allowed to do awful business practices that harm their consumers, their employees or the environment because "they have to make money." Yes, the ultimate goal of every business is to make money, but the means by which they achieve that are very much subject to moral and ethical review.
unpronounceable said:
Here again, you direct me to google.
Fuck that shit.
I'll most likely have to sift through mountains of bile before finding anything worth my time.
If you want to bring evidence to the table, find it yourself and then present it.
Do not ask the opposition to find it for you.
If you aren't willing to educate yourself, how do I know that you're going to accept anything I say? How do I know that the time I spend looking for credible sources with understandable and well thought-out arguments isn't going to be wasted by someone who plain won't be convinced no matter how much evidence is piled before them? I've met several people like that on The Escapist and I've learnt not to waste my time on people who are wilfully blind. If you genuinely tell me that you will consider any links I find and might be convinced by rational arguments, I will find you sources. If you are dead-set on your views, I'm not going to waste my time.
unpronounceable said:
All I think you've proved is that you can make contrived explanations for anything.
Yes they are supernatural creatures but I can posit an equally plausible explanation for why it is sexist against men.
Arguably, Bella the protagonist is the one with the greatest amount of power in the series.
She is the one that controls the hearts of both male leads and their power is ultimately subservient to her whims.
She gets to have her pick of the two while they are desperately vying for her affections.
Ultimately, at the climax of the books, it is Bella with her supernatural power that saves the day, not the single-minded violent intent of the two male leads.
It is her emotions and feelings that are the most important, while the men are portrayed as uncomplicated knuckleheads who's only life purpose is to please Bella whenever she desires.
No. Just plain no. Do you see the types of power I cited above? Do you see "emotional" anywhere in there? Emotional power is meaningless. Edward has far more money than she could ever make. He is also far stronger than her (to a point that she could never reach, no matter how much steroids and working out she did). He is also smarter than her, even if only because the author repeatedly forces her to make dumb decisions so that he or Jacob can rescue her. His family has greater social power than hers, though that's also mainly by virtue of how rich they are. No matter what she does, he can rape and kill her at any time and walk away scot-free.
Emotional power is absolutely meaningless, because it's both fleeting and doesn't rely on her at all. She doesn't control their emotions with supernatural powers. The emotions that the two men are feeling are theirs, and can change without her being able to do anything about it. However, the money, physical power, social standing and intelligence that Edward has over her are things that are entirely his and she can't take away. Bella is a powerless, submissive, helpless heroine whose entirely life revolves around men (her father, her boyfriend, Jacob, then her boyfriend again). The only female character that barely counts in her life is her daughter, and even then she is little more than a clumsy anti-abortion message and consolation prize for Jacob.
In short, emotional power is meaningless because it's not something that depends on her. She is not actively doing anything to control him. Everything he does is out of his own free will because he himself became infatuated with her.
The only point in your favour is the bit about the end. Which comes at the end of the book/movie saga and doesn't invalidate what came before. Furthermore, Bella can't use her power to protect herself from her boyfriend's physical or social/economic power, and while she can stop him from reading her mind, she can't stop him from outsmarting her.
Are Edward and Jacob sexualised? Yes, moreso in the movies than the books. That doesn't mean Twilight isn't sexist towards women, it doesn't mean Twilight is sexist towards men, and it doesn't mean that men in the entertainment media are sexualised in any degree of importance.
unpronounceable said:
I'm really tired of this arguing.
Who gives a fuck about how things are portrayed in media?
I could argue that asians are underrepresented in modern media and make up some kind of a fucking bechdel test for them too.
Most movies, video games, etc would fail it hard.
Does that mean that there is systematic oppression against asians?
Should I become an asianist or some shit?
Of course not.
Being a proponent of equality is enough.
If all feminists want is egalitarianism, they should stop calling themselves feminists and see themselves as people who believe in human equality.
This is why most women don't label themselves feminists.
Okay, look. A society's media is a reflection of itself. Society produces a combination of what it is and what it wants to see, so while the reflection might be warped in some respects, it does say something about the society that creates it. Erasure and misrepresentation in the media are bad things because they indirectly marginalise people. Entertainment is both a right and a need in society, and it's not right that it falls exclusively in the hands of the dominant majorities and everyone who is not like them gets erased or used for titillation or made fun of.
I do agree that Asians are under-represented in Western media, but they are at least represented in Eastern media. Women don't have that to fall back on. There isn't a country of women that produces media made by, containing and aimed at women (and similarly, there isn't a country of LGBT+ people either). There is an entire continent that makes media containing and aimed at Asians. It's called Asia.
As for the rest, I'm going to link you to some FAQs that deal with the very subjects you're bringing up:
What Is Feminism? [http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/03/10/faq-what-is-feminism/]
What Do Feminists Want? [http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/03/13/faq-what-do-feminists-want/]
Does Feminism Matter? [http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/03/15/faq-does-feminism-matter/]
Isn't Feminism Just Victim Politics? [http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/03/10/faq-isnt-feminism-just-victim-politics/]
Aren't You All Just A Bunch Of Feminazis? [http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/03/19/faq-arent-you-all-just-a-bunch-of-feminazis/]
Why Feminism And Not Just Humanism Or Equalism? Isn't Saying You're A Feminist Exclusionary? [http://finallyfeminism101.wordpress.com/2007/04/12/faq-why-feminism-and-not-just-humanism-or-equalism-isnt-saying-youre-a-feminist-exclusionary/]
Schadrach said:
As far as abortion, men have essentially no reproductive rights at all, and often are held to strict liability for their sperm. Male victims of statutory rape get required to pay the perpetrator child support because they aren't "sufficiently innocent victims", men who donate to sperm banks sometimes get forced into child support. Personally, I think legal paternal abandonment (such that men have some right to refuse the rights and responsibilities of parenthood, say limited to a finite period during pregnancy or some minimum after being advised of paternity so that a woman acting in good faith can consider his choice in making her own) and routine cheek swab genetic testing of nominal fathers are things that absolutely need to exist.
The main problem here is that a child is a huge expense that society forces women to deal with more or less on their own (because of the sexist idea that women must be child caretakers). While I agree that there are some gray areas (such as sperm donation and statutory rape, as you cited), in most cases men are saddling women with a responsibility that they can abandon freely while a woman can't. What if a woman isn't allowed to abort by the law? Why does she have to take care of the child while the man can exert legal paternal abandonment and the only choices the woman has are either give up the child for adoption or try and raise it on her own? And that is, of course, without even mentioning the actual process of pregnancy and childbirth, that the man is mercifully spared.
That men often make more money than the women in question (and they seek to ferociously protect their capital while being perfectly content with letting the woman sink most of her money on the child) also does not help. And, of course, that the social consequences for men who bail on their children go from "mild disapproval" to "complete support" while a woman who chooses abortion or adoption is a monster, aren't precisely fair either.
Schadrach said:
Care to give me an example of women not being allowed in those fields despite meeting the same standards as the men? Or will it be one of those things where they don't perform as well (they perhaps meet minimum standards but other applicants exceed them or exceed them to a greater degree), but it's sexist not to let them do it anyways?
I already gave you two examples. I wager this varies from country to country (and there are a lot of countries in Europe, North America, Central America and South America), but I know of many cases where women are simply not hired for construction work, mining or any physically dangerous job (such as those that involve radiation, for example, which are justified on the ludicrous idea that a woman can go to work for a sufficient amount of weeks for radiation to have an adverse effect on her foetus while still being unaware that she is pregnant at all), regardless of whether they are strong enough to do the necessary heavy lifting or not. In general, the reasons given are a high rate of workplace accidents or death, which apparently means that it's okay for men to risk life and limb doing necessary things for society, but women shouldn't, or that the workplace is completely male and having women there would be bad because [insert bullshit reason here]. And when I say "construction" I don't necessarily mean only city buildings. It happens when it comes to build things like oil platforms or structures in dangerous places (too deep underwater, too high up, dangerous weather, etc).
While I am definitely not advocating hiring women just because they are women, there ARE women who meet the necessary physical requirements to do physically demanding and dangerous jobs, and they are still not hired because she they are women.
Schadrach said:
I think it's fair when talking about western sexism to exclude Japanese titles. The platform restriction was kind of odd though. How different would your choices have really been if you were still restricted from Japanese titles but without platform restriction and with "recent" (for some reasonable value of recent, given it was "10 examples" the number of titles released in the time frame in question is highly relevant) as the time frame? No one questions that there is objectification in Japanese titles. But...JAPAN IS WEIRD!
The platform restriction wasn't that bad, and I do agree that Japan is very low hanging fruit (not because it's "weird" but because it's incredibly sexist). I am mainly chafing at the time restriction. If I had been allowed to to 2010-2012 (as I did in another thread), I could have brought up cases like Duke Nukem Forever, for example.
Schadrach said:
Also, though I hadn't watched the video yet, the still it gives of Cuddy with the subtitle "(Cuddy is his boss)" is a misleading image, in that the scene it's taken from (from the episode House's Head) is a hallucination/fantasy of House. She is a literal sexual fantasy in that scene.
Yes, I know, and this is something that comes up a lot in these types of discussions:
there will always be a surface rationale for anything sexist. Always. It will always be given at least a thin veneer of justification, and when there is effort put into it, it will come off as perfectly logical and sensical. That doesn't make it any less sexist.
Sexism isn't just a deliberate instance of blatant objectification without rhyme or reason. Sexism is subtle. Sexism is pervasive. Sexism hides behind normalcy and conformity. Every time someone does something sexist, they can point to someone else and say "they did it too!". Sexism is almost never done on purpose and almost always done because the creator felt they were doing a normal thing. Slavery and racism were normal too at one point, remember? Even though some people do inappropriate things fully knowing that they are inappropriate, most of the time people do things (good, bad or anything in between) because they were told it was okay to do them and don't really think about it.