Kahunaburger said:
Or, more specifically, heterosexual male fantasy.
The majority of games which seem to be the target of this 'games are sexist for their portrayal of women' are made by heterosexual males, aimed at a heterosexual male audience.
... So, why shouldn't they pander to the fantasies of their target audience? I don't whinge about every romantic comedy ever for the way they portray the male role in a relationship.
People of both genders are objectified by the various media types out there - Books, Magazines, Films, TV Shows, Advertisements, Talk Radio, Music, Video Games, Board Games... I could go on and on, for each of these I could find examples of sexism/objectification for both genders - I would argue that for every example of a busty, slim woman wearing bikini-armour in a video game, there's a picture of Robert Patinson/One Direction/Whoever in the back of heat magazine with their shirts off.
Now, in video games specifically, I would say there probably is more objectification of women than men, so the question then becomes - Do I think there could (possibly should?) be more games not aimed at this straight male audience? Maybe make more games aimed at entertaining people outside that audience? Sure, after all that could only be good for the industry right? I mean, you get explosive action films, and romantic comedy films, each as dumb as each other but pandering to a different audience so why not do something similar in games?
The question following on from that is - why aren't these games being made?
I dunno, you tell me female game makers/gamers/people(of any gender) who want these games made...
Seriously, rather than looking at trying to stop boys from making boy games, why can't we just encourage girls to make girl games? I often worry that in a desperate attempt to make everything neutral, and avoid any kind of stereotyping, objectification, or acknowledgement that men and women, by and large, have a lot of fundamental differences in what they enjoy out of life, we ignore the simplest solution of just making a wider variety of things.
Finally - I accept that there is PLENTY of crossover between the enjoyments of men and women(and any other genders for that matter), between what gays, straights (and everybody else) wants. I'm well aware that when I say 'boys like Y(X), girls like X(X - see what I did there?

)', that I'm making generalisations that will probably offend or upset someone, who will then go on to try and point out my ignorance and foolishness... Save yourselves the time, and don't bother - I still live in the real world, where I can see that there is still a marked difference in the habits of the MAJORITY of Males and Females, and that many of those differences are exploited by companies in order to turn a profit.
...However, my opinion in all this will undoubtedly not count, because I'm a white, mid-20s, male.