Introducing 'Other half' into gaming; Help!

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HerrBobo

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Cgull said:
HerrBobo said:
I feel your pain man. My g/f says games are "shit" and "the gay". However, she does play on her Mum's DS sometimes, maybe that is the place to start....
Have you mentioned that the DS is a form of games console? She is on the path to become a gamer!

*Edit* I've just noticed this thread has had 1000 views, yay!
Alas she told me to shut up and that all gamers are "losers". Guess the jokes on her.

You should try and get her into puzzel games, Prof. Lation or something is what my g/f plays.

Also, flash games! No, really!
 

Cgull

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HerrBobo said:
Cgull said:
Have you mentioned that the DS is a form of games console? She is on the path to become a gamer!

*Edit* I've just noticed this thread has had 1000 views, yay!
Alas she told me to shut up and that all gamers are "losers". Guess the jokes on her.

You should try and get her into puzzel games, Prof. Lation or something is what my g/f plays.

Also, flash games! No, really!
You can just be happy in the knowledge that you're right then I guess ;)

I think puzzle games would be a pretty easy sell, though I don't know of any co-op ones....possible niche in the market there. If only I had any game-making skills. Bugger.
 

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Silva said:
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A lot of problems for older players new to gaming stem from not understanding that they need to learn where the buttons are by touch rather than by sight.

If you can teach her that "A" is closest to her thumb, and all the rest, then she will have much less difficulty with gaming in general. These things are natural to a 10 year plus gamer, but he has to remember his own learning from the beginning if he is to teach another.
I have been gaming for about 15 years, almost exclusively playstation, when the QTE tells me to press a button I still have to think were each button is.

If I need to jump in a game, I know were that button is without thinking. When I used to have to get the bus to my local game store I would read the book to try and memorize the controls, when I started the game up I forgot them all.

I think it's more about instinct than memorization.
It took conscious effort for me to learn not to look at buttons and to know them by touch, but then I wanted to do it very quickly. You probably pick up the skill by osmosis over time, like you say, but that method is slower. There's a physical similarity here to playing piano; different people learn that differently too. There is no right answer.
Osmosis? What does that have to do with learning the buttons?

Yeah, people learn differently.
 

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I'll go out on a limb here, assume you have a PC, and say an obscure old game, that is mostly action-adventure but incorporates a bunch of other styles at times too, and for the most part is pretty easy and fun to play. It's called Giants: Citizen Kabuto. :)
 

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If she likes games like Bejeweled, then other puzzle games may be right up her ally. See if you can introduce her to games like Tetris and Bust a Move.

As for old-school games like Sonic 2, if she likes it, let her keep playing. That was the very first video game I ever played (I was 6), and I was pretty bad at it, too. Newbies tend to need some practice.
 

Altorin

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OH, if she likes Bejeweled, Puzzle Quest is a GREAT game to get. The PC version is Tres Excellente and it's cheap on Steam Challenge of the Warlords
 

Silva

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Perhaps a Flash game could get her started. If she likes violence, I suggest Kitty Cannon. Haha.

omega 616 said:
Osmosis? What does that have to do with learning the buttons?

Yeah, people learn differently.
Osmosis is used these days as a metaphor for the natural absorption of information. I've seen it used that way in education-pedagogies all the time. I guess it's a corruption of the term, though.
 

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Silva said:
Perhaps a Flash game could get her started. If she likes violence, I suggest Kitty Cannon. Haha.

omega 616 said:
Osmosis? What does that have to do with learning the buttons?

Yeah, people learn differently.
Osmosis is used these days as a metaphor for the natural absorption of information. I've seen it used that way in education-pedagogies all the time. I guess it's a corruption of the term, though.
a more correct term would be diffusion.

osmosis specifically refers to water transfer.
 

Flishiz

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Cgull said:
I'm trying to find a simple game to help ease my girlfriend into gaming and I'm struggling a little bit so I'm wondering if anyone else has done this successfully and what they used?

She's not against gaming and is actually willing to give it a go but trying to get her playing anything harder than Peggle/Bejewelled isn't working out too well, the last game we attempted (Sonic 2) was a bit of a disaster (although it was hilarious to watch).

So...suggestions anyone?

*Edit* If it's possible to keep to console based suggestions I'd appreciate it, 'Animal Crossing' etc. would possibly work but it wouldn't be that easy to make into an activity we can both enjoy (I would assume).
I got my ex into gaming through TF2, L4D, and Psychonauts. I also played Zelda while she watched several times, so that could work as well.
 

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I would recomend Super Mario World. My reason, it's Mario and the game is easier than most games in the series while still being really fun.
 

Silva

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Altorin said:
a more correct term would be diffusion.

osmosis specifically refers to water transfer.
Thanks, I realised that when I wrote the last post. I'd read about the scientific process at length.
 

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Well going off what my sisters have shown interest in over the years, heres a few that haven't been mentioned.


Crash Bandicoot 2. Simple mechanics, doesn't have too much of a twitch factor. Oh and it's available on the PSN for 6 bucks.

Chocobo Racing. Nowheres near as good a game as Mario kart or CTR, however its a fair bit easier, has a cutesy feel good plot, and most of the characters are freaking adorable. You'd need a PS1/2 and it would probably cost you 30-40 bucks however.

Kingdom Hearts. Simple RPG game-play, not too difficult, the Gummie ship and freaking Disney characters. 2 may be a better option then 1 if shes got a shorter attention span. The cut-scenes are unskipable and some of the earlier ones are really really long, which they fixed in 2.

Oblivion. Stick it on easy, let her do what the hell she wants. Almost impossible to die on easy mode, it's not a bad way for her to get used to moving a character in 3d space and she'll most likely find some activity in it that she enjoys.

Nintendogs. Do I really need to explain this one?

Harvest Moon: More Friends of Mineral Town. A well done social aspect to it, again fairly simple to pick up and it keeps throwing new things at you to do the whole way through. You can fail I guess, however doing so simply means you can't keep playing past the finish and it takes a good while to get to the finish anyways. Harvest Moon: Friends of Mineral Town, or Harvest Moon: Back to Nature would also work. All basically the same game, however M/FoMT is an enhanced version of Back to Nature, and More Friends has you playing as a female character. Back to nature is also likely to set you back 80-90 bucks minimum these days.


Yea not all of em are co-op (Infact only Chocobo Racing is.) but as said I hadn't seen any of them suggested before yet so.
 

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i'd suggest getting her on to something that she already has an interest in. As much as i dislike games made from movies - if she likes a perticular movie and it has a game, you'll probably find she'll enjoy it more.
 

David Bray

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My girlfriend got into Portal, The Maw, and Bioshock really easily. It depends what her interests are.
 

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Cgull said:
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My old girl said she enjoyed a challenge, and i wanted to get her gaming, so i thought what the hell one day, put Ninja Gaiden II on and said good luck.
Not my best idea, she got sick of it towards the end and i think the whole experience threw her off gaming forevarr.
I...are you serious? Got sick of Gaiden II towards the end?! I got sick of it after 5 minutes and I'm already into gaming! Nasty game with its horrible people that kept killing me *grumble grumble*.

I'm assuming she wasn't just starting gaming though? If she was then that's pretty impressive...
No no no no, she just hadn't gamed much recently, so i was just trying to get her back in to it.

Though she was more into like Jak and Daxter on the PS2 (fantastic game for anyone who hasn't played) so the mega-gore of NGII was a bit of a change for her, hilarious the first time she ripped someone in half with the eclipse scythe.