Is Hitting A Girl All That Bad?

[DarthScorpio11]

I mean, I'm 21, and my sister is 19. Growing up we used to hit each other all of the time. Hit, punch, bite (well she used to bite me sometimes), pinch, push, and a few times slap. Mostly as a kid, however we did it every now and then as teenagers. We don't really fight anymore except verbally. The last physical altercation was about a few months ago, when my sister was pissed about something and blocked me in the hallway, and started yelling at me and shoving me. At first i just stood there waiting for her to move out of my way, and then she did it again, so i shoved her out of the way far enough for me to get through.

I dunno, i'm not even that big. I'm about 5'7'' and 112 pounds, and she's about 5'4'' and 115 pounds. So, i think it's fair. She's bigger than me...

As a 112 pound guy, i legitimately think a lot of girls could potentially be a threat against my safety if they were to attack me. I hate how everyone assumes just because im a guy im automatically much stronger, and a girl couldn't possibly be a threat, and i have no reason defending myself. Whatever happened to equality?

Now, im not for some big buy beating up his wife just because he's a douche. However, i think people should stop thinking in black and white about everything.

 

[Twilight_guy]

Hitting a girl is bad if you are a gentleman. Of course the idea of gentlemen and ladies isn't fashionable anymore because its inherently sexist and sexism has been a hot topic for quiet some time. If you really believe in the equality of the sexs then hitting a girl is no worse then hitting a boy.

 

[DarthScorpio11]

Hitting a girl is bad if you are a gentleman. Of course the idea of gentlemen and ladies isn't fashionable anymore because its inherently sexist and sexism has been a hot topic for quiet some time. If you really believe in the equality of the sexs then hitting a girl is no worse then hitting a boy.

So, if you're a short guy, and some bodybuilder woman corners you, starts beating you up. Then proceeds to attacking your family, you'll just standby and watch?

 

[crudus]

I mean, I'm 21, and my sister is 19. Growing up we used to hit each other all of the time. Hit, punch, bite (well she used to bite me sometimes), pinch, push, and a few times slap. Mostly as a kid, however we did it every now and then as teenagers. We don't really fight anymore except verbally. The last physical altercation was about a few months ago, when my sister was pissed about something and blocked me in the hallway, and started yelling at me and shoving me. At first i just stood there waiting for her to move out of my way, and then she did it again, so i shoved her out of the way far enough for me to get through.

I dunno, i'm not even that big. I'm about 5'7'' and 112 pounds, and she's about 5'4'' and 115 pounds. So, i think it's fair. She's bigger than me...

As a 112 pound guy, i legitimately think a lot of girls could potentially be a threat against my safety if they were to attack me. I hate how everyone assumes just because im a guy im automatically much stronger, and a girl couldn't possibly be a threat, and i have no reason defending myself. Whatever happened to equality?

Now, im not for some big buy beating up his wife just because he's a douche. However, i think people should stop thinking in black and white about everything.

First off, how are you 112 pounds and 5'7"? I am 5'8" and a twig. I can't imagine myself with 40 less pounds.

Anyway, is this like play fighting? Or is this a legitimate domestic disturbance? There is a difference in determining how "ok" it is.

 

[Twilight_guy]

Hitting a girl is bad if you are a gentleman. Of course the idea of gentlemen and ladies isn't fashionable anymore because its inherently sexist and sexism has been a hot topic for quiet some time. If you really believe in the equality of the sexs then hitting a girl is no worse then hitting a boy.

So, if you're a short guy, and some bodybuilder woman corners you, starts beating you up. Then proceeds to attacking your family, you'll just standby and watch?

Did I say anything about whether or not I'm a gentleman or if I believe in hitting a girl or not? No, I didn't. Don't put words into my mouth, thank you very much.

 

[DarthScorpio11]

I mean, I'm 21, and my sister is 19. Growing up we used to hit each other all of the time. Hit, punch, bite (well she used to bite me sometimes), pinch, push, and a few times slap. Mostly as a kid, however we did it every now and then as teenagers. We don't really fight anymore except verbally. The last physical altercation was about a few months ago, when my sister was pissed about something and blocked me in the hallway, and started yelling at me and shoving me. At first i just stood there waiting for her to move out of my way, and then she did it again, so i shoved her out of the way far enough for me to get through.

I dunno, i'm not even that big. I'm about 5'7'' and 112 pounds, and she's about 5'4'' and 115 pounds. So, i think it's fair. She's bigger than me...

As a 112 pound guy, i legitimately think a lot of girls could potentially be a threat against my safety if they were to attack me. I hate how everyone assumes just because im a guy im automatically much stronger, and a girl couldn't possibly be a threat, and i have no reason defending myself. Whatever happened to equality?

Now, im not for some big buy beating up his wife just because he's a douche. However, i think people should stop thinking in black and white about everything.

First off, how are you 112 pounds and 5'7"? I am 5'8" and a twig. I can't imagine myself with 40 less pounds.

Anyway, is this like play fighting? Or is this a legitimate domestic disturbance? There is a difference in determining how "ok" it is.

lol nah, sometimes we were pissed actually fighting. Also, yes, i really only do weight 112 pounds. I just checked myself on the scale yesterday lol

 

[TheRightToArmBears]

Well yes. But so is hitting a guy. I'd say hit whoever you like, so long as they've hit you first.

 

[Yokai]

To quote an ancient Justice League comic, "Where I come from, equality of the sexes is given, so we can hit anyone."

Of course I don't condone going around punching people. Basically, if someone attacks you, their gender doesn't matter, what matters is getting out of there in one piece. For some slight offense, I wouldn't hit a girl, but I wouldn't hit a guy either.

 

[RedEyesBlackGamer]

I dislike all fighting. However, I don't see a guy hitting a girl as bad if she hit him first.

 

[Blue2]

Well yes. But so is hitting a guy. I'd say hit whoever you like, so long as they've hit you first.

I agree, the difference between man and women rule is broken after the first punch been thrown regardless of gender.

 

[Rin Little]

I honestly have no problem with a guy hitting a girl if she deserves it. If girls can take hits from their own sex then they should be able to handle it coming from a guy if they were the one to instigate a fight.

 

[ThunderCavalier]

tbh, hitting a girl is all that bad.

You know what else is also bad? Hitting anyone else.



Unless there's a given reason why, you shouldn't be hitting someone. Not unless they've done something very wrong. ... Or are Jack Thompson.

 

[Tyburn Cross]

I probably shouldn't say this but...

I don't hit girls, but I do slap bitches. There is a difference.

Edit: For anyone who isn't clear on this, it's a joke. I do not express violence on anyone unless forced.

 

[Azure-Supernova]

Depends who initiated physical contact. If a girl shoves me, clearly intending to provoke a fight and not just trying to get me out of my way, I'm not going to back down. I don't care how people look at me, if someone initiates a physical fight I'm going to defend myself.

This was something I brought up a while back in a thread about guys getting hit in the nuts. In response to a particular poster I said that any woman who thinks it's okay to give a guy a shot to the nuts has to accept that if they don't down that guy he's going to be pissed off, injured and likely out of control.

 

[Creator002]

If someone hits me, I'm going go hit back. I'm pretty sure self defence isn't a crime and a court shouldn't be sexist if it goes that far.

 

[Zenn3k]

I mean, I'm 21, and my sister is 19. Growing up we used to hit each other all of the time. Hit, punch, bite (well she used to bite me sometimes), pinch, push, and a few times slap. Mostly as a kid, however we did it every now and then as teenagers. We don't really fight anymore except verbally. The last physical altercation was about a few months ago, when my sister was pissed about something and blocked me in the hallway, and started yelling at me and shoving me. At first i just stood there waiting for her to move out of my way, and then she did it again, so i shoved her out of the way far enough for me to get through.

I dunno, i'm not even that big. I'm about 5'7'' and 112 pounds, and she's about 5'4'' and 115 pounds. So, i think it's fair. She's bigger than me...

As a 112 pound guy, i legitimately think a lot of girls could potentially be a threat against my safety if they were to attack me. I hate how everyone assumes just because im a guy im automatically much stronger, and a girl couldn't possibly be a threat, and i have no reason defending myself. Whatever happened to equality?

Now, im not for some big buy beating up his wife just because he's a douche. However, i think people should stop thinking in black and white about everything.

First off, how are you 112 pounds and 5'7"? I am 5'8" and a twig. I can't imagine myself with 40 less pounds.

Anyway, is this like play fighting? Or is this a legitimate domestic disturbance? There is a difference in determining how "ok" it is.

Thats nothing, from about 5th grade till I was like 25, I was 5' 10", 115 pounds. I'm up to 130 now (28 y/o)

 

[emeraldrafael]

What you did, I wouldnt say that thats really hitting. especially since you knew her that closely. thats more like sibling rivalry.

Now actually hitting a girl? I find that to be rather spineless and disgraceful if your a man, but then again I'm old school in thought like that.

 

[Archangel768]

It's as bad as hitting a guy.

It makes my blood boil when I see girls that think they should have the right to hit men but act as though as a man is the devil if he should even tap her.

 

[DementedSheep]

I think no more wrong to hit a girl than a guy and it seems stupid that people get hung up over it. Especially when the girl in question is bigger than the guy and/or the one being aggressive!