Is Hitting A Girl All That Bad?

[brainslurper]

Here is my response; The gender of the people you hit makes no difference, unless you do it BECAUSE of the gender, in which case you are a sexist fuckhead.

I think it would be legitimately difficult to attack 50% of the people you see.

Psychopathic sexist fuckhead then?

Still though, if you were a psychopathic sexist fuckhead then you wouldn't stab half the people you see on the street...

 

[elcher]

IMO unless its for self defense there should not be any reason AT ALL to EVER hit a girl - they are usually weaker than men, so hitting them (in my eyes at least) equals "abusing my physical superiority" for a retarded purpose.


Usually women cant figh back - and usually men are drunk while hitting women, its primal instinct to project "dominance" when feeing unsure or sad and thats why men do it.

Men that hit women for fun or when drunk are scum in my eyes - undeserving of respect.

Maybe i have this old fashioned sense of honour - i dont care though, men beating women deserve to get beaten to a fucking pulp...

I know you're only repeating what you've been raised to believe but you're actually wrong. Women are weaker than men on average yes, but the difference isn't as critical in fight as you think. If a woman seriously wants to hurt a man she's still got enough strength to make it happen, she's not an insignificant threat.

The other factor is that women are actually more likely to use a weapon in a fight. See, women know they're weaker and have been raised to think they're significantly weaker so they are far more likely to grab a weapon to 'even the score'. This applies regardless of whether she's the attacker or the victim so if a woman comes towards you looking to hurt you she's probably swinging something sharp, high heels are a favourite. Any difference in strength is negated by one party being armed.

Women and men now mingle equally in social situations and women are starting to become far more aggressive than they were, happy to fight men and will normally arm themselves. Women aren't property any more and they certainly aren't always the victims. If you get into a fight with a woman it's not either a case of abuse on your part or a hysterical crying and slapping you can easily overpower. Women are just as capable of sincerely fighting as men and it's something too dangerous to laugh off because she'll be as close to you in ability to harm you as makes no odds.

I am aware of what you said - the scenario I specifically talked about was rather of the "one on one, no weapons"-type.

I also meant men wanting to hurt women on purpose, not the other way around - if a woman would try to kill me by using a weapon all my stated points and beliefs would go out the window faster than superman can change clothes; self defence is only fair in any and all scenarios IMO.

About your opinion on todays society i also have to agree : women HAVE gotten more aggressive - i dont necessarily see that as a bad thing though, aggression isnt always coupled with violence :>

 

[elcher]

I am aware of what you said - the scenario I specifically talked about was rather of the "one on one, no weapons"-type.

I also meant men wanting to hurt women on purpose, not the other way around - if a woman would try to kill me by using a weapon all my stated points and beliefs would go out the window faster than superman can change clothes; self defence is only fair in any and all scenarios IMO.

About your opinion on todays society i also have to agree : women HAVE gotten more aggressive - i dont necessarily see that as a bad thing though, aggression isnt always coupled with violence :>

I don't generally believe in hitting someone unless it's self defence but as traditional gender roles break down you'll start seeing a lot more women involved in what my favourite self defence site calls 'social violence'; idiots settling disputes with their fists. Basically it's got to the stage now where men and women don't view each other all that differently and a woman is pretty much capable of asking for a kicking in the same way another man would.

http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/threatdisplay.htm

Basically women are starting to behave in a more typically male fashion and they're starting to move into the world of male social interaction. I don't like it myself but I can kind of see a time where men and women won't draw a gender distinction.

I don't like aggressiveness in young women because (1) there is a punishment disparity between sexes so women don't get as good as they give and (2) the times I've seen women use violence as a status assertion tool they haven't known when to stop. I agree with you in principle but instead of aggression I would say that women displaying assertiveness is a good thing.

EDIT: Basically beating a woman for sadistic or domineering purposes is wrong, but defending yourself isn't and having a mutual fight is wrong on both of you...but in the wider sense not particularly important.

"Basically beating a woman for sadistic or domineering purposes is wrong, but defending yourself isn't and having a mutual fight is wrong on both of you...but in the wider sense not particularly important."

I could not have said that better myself (!)

 

[Corporal Yakob]

Girls/boys/men/women/small fluffy animals: as soon as something, anything comes swinging at you, all bets are off in my opinion and you lump them one back.

 

[Raika]

If I hit a guy and he doesn't hit me back, I'm gonna feel pretty insulted. Just sayin'.

 

[Coldflame727]

Here is my response; The gender of the people you hit makes no difference, unless you do it BECAUSE of the gender, in which case you are a sexist fuckhead.

I think it would be legitimately difficult to attack 50% of the people you see.

Psychopathic sexist fuckhead then?

Still though, if you were a psychopathic sexist fuckhead then you wouldn't stab half the people you see on the street...

Sigh... If you are more inclined to react in a violent manner because of their gender, then you are a sexist fuckhead. Is that good enough for you?

 

[Total LOLige]

If a guy full on punches a woman in my eyes they are a fucking pussy.

I'd imagine a lot of girls would find that offensive and I know I do, even though I am a guy, I would like to think if I was a girl i'd think the same way. In my eyes a guy has as much right to hit a girl as a girl does to hit a guy. Would you consider a girl that hit a guy a fucking pussy in your eyes? If not, then that is sexist.

As a boy I went through highschool being bullied by both male and female, and just cause some were girls didn't mean they bullied me any nicer. I learned that to think about things equally. If I have a good enough reason to hit someone, the fact if they were born with a penis or breasts isn't going to stay my fist. That doesn't mean it is ok to be mean and hurt people, that includes anyone, both male and female.

Someone asks for an opinion and when you give them it you get flamed. Fucking hell ever since I posted that reply, my inbox has been full of quotes saying that's sexist and offensive.

 

[brainslurper]

Here is my response; The gender of the people you hit makes no difference, unless you do it BECAUSE of the gender, in which case you are a sexist fuckhead.

I think it would be legitimately difficult to attack 50% of the people you see.

Psychopathic sexist fuckhead then?

Still though, if you were a psychopathic sexist fuckhead then you wouldn't stab half the people you see on the street...

Sigh... If you are more inclined to react in a violent manner because of their gender, then you are a sexist fuckhead. Is that good enough for you?

NOT GOOD ENOUGH!
What I was simply saying is that attacking half the people on earth isn't a good strategy, regardless of what you believe.

Girls/boys/men/women/small fluffy animals: as soon as something, anything comes swinging at you, all bets are off in my opinion and you lump them one back.

When my cat meows at me for food, I meow back. I knew I wasn't the only one who thought that way!

 

[FirstPersonWinner]

Only if:
-You, yourself, are a lady.
-She is trying to kill you with a weapon
-it's the zombie Apocalypse or some other horrible situation and she won't calm herself
-she murdered your family or something similar causing you a need for vengeance

 

[OtherSideofSky]

No worse than a hitting a man. Everything is subject to circumstance, but gender shouldn't factor into it.

Some people I've told this to say something about "chivalry" or "being a gentleman" to which I invariably respond that those terms and ideas are rooted in systems of European nobility and feudalism which fell out of favor centuries ago. I'll be chivalrous when I get my horse, armor, lands, castle and army of serfs. Included in this package is the right to ride up and kill normal people, women included, for no reason, because chivalry actually has nothing to do with what everyone likes to pretend it is.

 

[Fishdog52]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3FgMLROTqJ0 ?

I personally will not hit a woman, as I try my best to not hit anybody. If I am ever in a situation where I feel that if I do not defend myself I will suffer serious injury or worse, I would not rely on simply "hitting" someone.

I was at one point both over 6 feet tall and under 130 pounds. I know what it is like to be both simultaneously bigger and smaller than somebody.

I have never seriously hit anybody, although there have been many occasions where I have been seriously hit. I often find myself thinking that someone needs hit, however.

 

[Fieldy409_v1legacy]

yes it is bad. Exceptions being when they are trying to fight you, but theres always the bearhug for that scenario.

 

[skywalkerlion]

Like other people in this thread, I don't hit people regardless of gender. Only in self defense do I need violence to solve a problem. Truthfully, however, I feel a little odd thinking of punching a girl. Just not how I was raised, really. But really if I felt threatened enough to warrant self defense I wouldn't bring gender into it.

 

[ohngec07]

In my book, hitting a girl is exactly as bad as hitting a guy.
Yeah, equality is a *****, huh?

That said, I have never hit anyone outside of training and I do not intend to do so for the rest of my life. If somebody attacks me however, it makes no difference at all whether the attacker has boobs or not.