Is it childish to wear band shirts?
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I dont get it. She tells you to dress nice. you dress in Jeans. so you already dress nice. whats her problem?
And no, band shirts are not childish. Shirts are a great way to express your interest in subjects without having to go around telling people. The only childish person here is her.
And no, band shirts are not childish. Shirts are a great way to express your interest in subjects without having to go around telling people. The only childish person here is her.
Which is a welcome change, because two years ago escapist had a massive thread regarding wearing certain clothing type and there was fierce fighting of "Wearing what you want is bad and you should wear what i say group"Kenbo Slice said:
Iv been told that stuff before over gaming shirts and whatnot... By my own family who also hate on my hair always because its not short and shit
I make it a point to buy a concert tee whenever I go to a live show, so I wear band shirts somewhat frequently. I pretty much solely wear tee-shirts, unless I have some reason for dressing up. If someone starts telling you how to dress, it's probably a good sign to call it quits with 'em.
I'm curious, what hats are you referring to?Baffle said:
There I was sitting across from a friend' Ph.D. advisor's German family in a train with Mein Teil t-shirt being all awkward and shit.Colour Scientist said:
I'm wondering if she means wearing JUST a band tee shirt. Wearing just a tee shirt (with pants, you animal. Jeez! Go put some on right now!) is super casual. You could probably make up for it with massive pecks and a six-pack, but for most guys, it would probably just accentuate how non-six-packy they are.
Anyway, I don't think she can help it if that's a turn-off for her. It's basically up to you to decide whether or not she's worth it, or if there's a way to keep wearing band shirts without putting her off, like wearing one under an open jacket.
Anyway, I don't think she can help it if that's a turn-off for her. It's basically up to you to decide whether or not she's worth it, or if there's a way to keep wearing band shirts without putting her off, like wearing one under an open jacket.
I'm wondering if she means wearing JUST a band tee shirt. Wearing just a tee shirt (with pants, you animal. Jeez! Go put some on right now!) is super casual. You could probably make up for it with massive pecks and a six-pack, but for most guys, it would probably just accentuate how non-six-packy they are.
Anyway, I don't think she can help it if that's a turn-off for her. It's basically up to you to decide whether or not she's worth the trouble, or if there's a way to keep wearing band shirts without putting her off, like wearing one under an open jacket.
Anyway, I don't think she can help it if that's a turn-off for her. It's basically up to you to decide whether or not she's worth the trouble, or if there's a way to keep wearing band shirts without putting her off, like wearing one under an open jacket.
Because I'm a woman who dresses somewhat unconventionally for a woman of my age, if someone told me to change my clothes, I'd be pissed off. Like, if they told me to start wearing dresses with floral patterns or business style clothing with heels, I'd tell them fuck off to hell. If someone expresses an interest in me, they will accept me as a whole, including my clothing style, at least until we get in a deeper relationship when we can discuss potential changes. If they want someone who dresses like a 35 year old business woman, they can go find someone like that. I'd prefer to be told "I dislike your clothing and I can't be with you", rather than "I'll be with you if you change your entire wardrobe and enjoyment in clothes you own." Would I change my clothing style for someone just because they don't like it? No. I want to wear what I feel comfortable in.
Besides, why are band shirts childish? It's childish to show the world your passion for something? I don't know, I'd be more interested in a person wearing a band shirt than someone wearing generic "nice" clothes. At least I'll have something to start the conversation with the person wearing a band shirt.
Also, you should look "manly"? Wow. That person does not sound like someone I'd like to be involved with, even on a friendship-level.
Wear what you want, OP.
Besides, why are band shirts childish? It's childish to show the world your passion for something? I don't know, I'd be more interested in a person wearing a band shirt than someone wearing generic "nice" clothes. At least I'll have something to start the conversation with the person wearing a band shirt.
Also, you should look "manly"? Wow. That person does not sound like someone I'd like to be involved with, even on a friendship-level.
Wear what you want, OP.
Knowing absolutely nothing about them, my first instinct is that they're a Van Halen tribute band. You see, my local radio station often refers to them as "The Mighty VH", and that name is clearly a Mighty Ducks reference. All that's left is for a Canadian band of the tribute band to be formed, "The Canuckle Pucks".Kenbo Slice said:
But seriously, OT: I'd say it's highly dependent upon the band represented. You'll get tons of weird looks if you're shipping something for 98 Degrees or a band whose name is just one long obscenity, but I've never seen anyone take issue with shirts for classic rock bands. That being said, I bet she wouldn't be able to keep her hands off you if you upgraded to a Three-Wolf Moon shirt. And that's really saying something because of all the Walmart denizens she'd have to wade through to get to you. Couple it with some American Flag Pants and a Trilby, and I think you'd cause time to bend around your sheer awesomeness.
(I have no idea where I was going with that. I think this day is just getting to me. But seriously, you're a grown-ass man. It's your choice how you dress yourself.)
No it's not childish to wear shirts that promote a band, or show, or movie, or whatever. Considering all the other stupid stuff people proudly put on their shirts to use as walking billboards, there isn't anything juvenile about band shirts.
*rocks his Jane's Addiction T-Shirt today because why not*
*rocks his Jane's Addiction T-Shirt today because why not*
No, band shirts are not childish. My wife and I are in our 40's and we still wear them. A lot of it has to do with context, mind you. Obviously we wouldn't dress that way at a fancy restaurant or a casual social gathering.
But if we're just out and about, there's nothing wrong with showing a little artist appreciation.
The bigger problem is that your girl's telling you how to dress. Now I think women [always will have some input on their man's wardrobe. But there's a difference between making suggestions and making you over.
But if we're just out and about, there's nothing wrong with showing a little artist appreciation.
The bigger problem is that your girl's telling you how to dress. Now I think women [always will have some input on their man's wardrobe. But there's a difference between making suggestions and making you over.
I don't think it's childish.
From my experience, those most obsessed with dressing nicely lean towards the corporate culture of making good impressions based on appearances above all else. It's a way to signal that you're a person of status without the substance to back that up. Not everyone that dresses like a dandy is a douchebag, but most of them are.
From my experience, those most obsessed with dressing nicely lean towards the corporate culture of making good impressions based on appearances above all else. It's a way to signal that you're a person of status without the substance to back that up. Not everyone that dresses like a dandy is a douchebag, but most of them are.
My former housemate has so many pop culture/band t-shirts, he could wear a different one for every day of the year and still have a bunch left over. I don't recall his maturity ever being brought into question. Speaking to others' comments regarding a band t-shirt with a nice design, they are an ideal piece to dress down a good outfit.
Just quietly, 'fashion' is not rocket science. It's all about quality materials, designs/cuts that accentuate an individual's attributes, and confidence. There is a reason why certain items, like the pencil skirt and woven shirt, are considered timeless. Eschewing tacky gimmicks is great for one's wardrobe.
As a general rule, it's wise to avoid people who are looking for a 'fixer-upper.'Hoplon said:
They are an excellent icebreaker.TheRightToArmBears said:
Absolutely. Hearing that line mid-conversation is my cue to leave.Parasondox said:
Unless you're in a situation that demands adherence to a certain dress code - a job interview, or a networking function - why lose sleep over what others think? The average schlub at the bar has no standing to dictate your value.Vault101 said:
Just quietly, 'fashion' is not rocket science. It's all about quality materials, designs/cuts that accentuate an individual's attributes, and confidence. There is a reason why certain items, like the pencil skirt and woven shirt, are considered timeless. Eschewing tacky gimmicks is great for one's wardrobe.
No, it is not childish. In fact, I find it a bit childish of her to judge what you wear during a regular day. If it doesn't smell or look dirty, it really doesn't matter. Maybe it is she who is childish.
Don't let what she said bother you!
Now I say this and I realize that people are allowed to have the opinions they do. I just find an open and respectful mind to be the most attractive feature a woman can have. I personaly find the statement "you look childish cause you wear t-shirts" to be very judgemental.
Don't let what she said bother you!
Now I say this and I realize that people are allowed to have the opinions they do. I just find an open and respectful mind to be the most attractive feature a woman can have. I personaly find the statement "you look childish cause you wear t-shirts" to be very judgemental.
People tend to complain more about my hair than the clothes I wear. Apparently it's impossible for me to wear something or have my hair a certain way because I like it, I must just be trying to impress you in particular.