Someone I was once close to studied in Qatar for medicine. She was obligated to follow the rules and mores that the country had. Traveling with a female native of that country to America, she more than once had to take that girl from Qatar aside and tell her to stop lecturing or acting disgusted with the female American population, since she herself has to follow the Qatar ways of life. The native girls response?
"Our rules are correct. This is depravity."
This is not my get-out-of-jail free card, but it still is in some respects; I'm a Black Male American. I'll spare you the history since February is coming up soon and I don't want to overburden you. Suffice to say, I get certain things about certain things.
I'm personally tired of the West (that includes UK... sorry, guys) to be held to a different standard than the world. That does not promote unity, it promotes ill will... it promotes antagonism. It's the oddest thing, Most other countries decry the West while turning a blind eye to the fact that most of the things they dislike (intolerance, ego-centrism, being too proud), they are not only doing it by how much they condemn the West, but probably in five different other cases by neighboring cultures being different than they are.
"It's my culture" is only a Get-out-of-jail free card as much as one is willing to respect it, not just give it out to do whatever they want. If it's ok to wrap your women head-to-toe because men might have sinful urges about them,that's great. I'll totally respect it. But respect my family's right to dress however they want because they chose it. No culture supersedes another, and I think that's what it comes down to.
I will respect others as much as I'm respected. If you bend over backwards for me, prepare for me to do the same. If you don't care the slightest bit about what is alright with me, why am I supposed to take your feelings as my new Dogma and kowtow to them?
Oh, and let's not get it twisted, some cultures are still legitimately worse off because of ancestors' actions. That doesn't mean Descendants have to pay for it. The only extreme way I can picture that happening if if I could trace how the sweat and blood of my ancestors made a specific person's ancestors rich. And even then, what did I do to earn that money? However! If they stole an idea, that's a different subject. If my grandfather came up with the original concept of McDonalds, and Roy Kroc stole that bad boy, you best know I'm getting me some of those billions. If my grandfather help physically build the first McDonalds, I guess all I can really get from that is the feeling of pride that my granddad help build the living blight of our times.
Oh, and to those Descendants, just because one admits that you don't owe anything doesn't mean you can just go about being an insensitive prick about it. I think that's truly what gets people riled up the most. Oh, and to those who still are feeling the affects of the Ancestors? Same thing. We work together, or we work ourselves apart. One's a step to a better future, the other just keeps the crap following. Personally, I'm tired of crap.
Eggo said:
Good Mencken, people, it doesn't hurt you to read:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kirpan
Why do I always end up being the one defending social groups I have utterly no interest (or reason) to defend?
That's easy. It's cool to be dismissive nowadays. We're a global conglomerate of Rebels Without a Cause... Because it's Hip!