Is it that hard to find a virgin?
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Right after calming down Ive managed to rephrase my post minus all the derp and rage, its just the sentiment in the OP is beyond my comprehension, so instead of a rant Ill phrase it as a question.
Why does it matter what people do with their time? their not doing anyone any harm so what is the problem? Why is people enjoying themselves wrong?
Why does it matter what people do with their time? their not doing anyone any harm so what is the problem? Why is people enjoying themselves wrong?
Alright, fair enough. I guess the wording of it threw me off a bit. I thought that your goal was to go after virgins (or at least inexperienced girls) just because of that.chadachada123 said:
...hoo-boy.chadachada123 said:
Okay, nevermind. The creepiness has returned to maximum levels.
Ah. I see. That is...different than what I thought it meant. Disturbingly, disturbingly different.chadachada123 said:
Look, mate, I think you've at least implied issues that are potentially a lot more serious than sealing off the majority of the population and not sleeping with them. Seeing a middle schooler dating a high school upperclassman should not become less creepy as you get older. I think you learned the exact opposite of the lesson you were supposed to glean from that.chadachada123 said:
Im gonna give you a tip, girls at your age lie through their teeth about this sort of thing, most of them are actually virgins but it's become uncool to be one so they'll all say they aren't, a few will actually go ahead and have sex with a guy in the hopes of fitting in but often when they do this they get shunned as a slut.
It's all very silly and very confusing stuff but it's true, at least, it was when I was at school and where I went to school.
When it comes down to it though, none of it matters, you'll fall for someone one day and the rulebook will go out the window.
It's all very silly and very confusing stuff but it's true, at least, it was when I was at school and where I went to school.
When it comes down to it though, none of it matters, you'll fall for someone one day and the rulebook will go out the window.
Would you be happy to date someone after you had lost your virginity? i'm sure you would, the fact that you're unwilling to date someone that isn't is both hypocritical and ridiculous, we live in a liberated world but your double standards are crazy, no wonder you're having trouble if you won't grow up.Death God said:
I don't drink, I don't do any illiegal drugs. I have a girlfriend who's like me in a lot of ways, and we get along well, but, she's... Innocent, not sexually active, and not willing to be. I'm not complaining, she's great, but, is intimacy the only difference between girlfriend and best friend?
I'm glad the girl that I'm with is a virgin, too. She doesn't drink or smoke, or do drugs. I'm the same way and I really prefer it this way for some reason. The smoking and drugs, I haven't done. I've drank beer about three or four times (never got me drunk even though it was enough to get my brother), but I just don't like the idea of 'loosening up' or getting high. I like thinking normally without the changes of alcohol or drugs. That's just me. As for the girl, it's a nice thought to me. Both having sex for the first time together. I was raised with religious beliefs and, although I don't believe in anything, the thought of sex with one person that I love a lot strikes my romantic chords a bit.
Oh, and yes, I think it's hard to find a virgin. Especially in the ghetto-land that I live in. People having sex before even being a teen, and getting married at 18 while living with parents, and having kids even before that. Meh.
Oh, and yes, I think it's hard to find a virgin. Especially in the ghetto-land that I live in. People having sex before even being a teen, and getting married at 18 while living with parents, and having kids even before that. Meh.
Edit II: As Azure-Supernova stated:
Those kinds of people are everywhere, you just have to look harder. If you're spending a lot of time going into bars, looking for a faithful, responsible girl your chances are marginally slimer. Doesn't mean impossibl, just a lot slimmer. Thought I can't say where exactly you'd pick one up... I'd say try and find yourself a nerdy girlfriend, but I can only speak from ym own experiences
I suppose he's definition is a little more what I am looking for. I guess I could drop the virginity issue down a little if I could find faithful and responsible girl. I am still standing strong on not doing illegal drugs and drinking but I could give more leeway on virginity.[/quote]Azure-Supernova said:
Those kinds of people are everywhere, you just have to look harder. If you're spending a lot of time going into bars, looking for a faithful, responsible girl your chances are marginally slimer. Doesn't mean impossibl, just a lot slimmer. Thought I can't say where exactly you'd pick one up... I'd say try and find yourself a nerdy girlfriend, but I can only speak from ym own experiences
I'll have to echo these sentiments. Why does it matter that one drinks or take drugs? I don't take drugs, but I don't think they're evil, I drink, but rarely, I often go months without it and when I do, it's casual. Does this make me, somehow, sullied?Togs said:
Who does one's past liaisons matter to you? Surely one who has lived would be more interesting?
What does one's tastes matter if they're intelligent, good natured, good people.
I find this thread distressing and juvenile.
I fail to see how wanting to experience a wide range of things is "disturbing." I want to try everything in life out just to see what it's like, or just to say I have. Sky-diving? Hell yeah. Drugs? Why not? So long as they're safe. Dating girls from many backgrounds to try to get a better understanding of human nature? Yeah, I don't see a problem with this.Char-Nobyl said:
On my list of things I want to accomplish in life, the sex category has a bunch of subsections. For example, I'd like to one day have sex with a fat chick just for the hell of it, but I wouldn't do it under false pretenses because I'm no longer a dick. Ditto for a particularly tall chick, just for the hell of it. It's not that I particularly "want" to, but more that, if given the chance, I would go for it to add to the number of different experiences I've had.
And pardon me, I should have clarified. I see no problem with freshmen dating seniors as long as their is mutual understanding, no coercion or abuse of power.
Virgins aren't hard to find at all. Although the very idea of a virgin is leaving this whole Christian idea of 'staying pure and clean' to 'It's just a hymen... It's very purpose is to be broken one day so that I can perform my biological purpose.'
I don't think it's anything to do with the youth of today getting more sexual, I think that's bullshit, we're as sexual as we were 50 years ago, or maybe even 100 years ago. It's just that this whole rose tinted Christian view of virgins being special because they've showed restraint is fading away. I think it's largely considered a tad embarrassing to be a virgin, but that doesn't mean that there are a lot out there, and i'm sure a lot of them will say they're proud.
I don't think it's anything to do with the youth of today getting more sexual, I think that's bullshit, we're as sexual as we were 50 years ago, or maybe even 100 years ago. It's just that this whole rose tinted Christian view of virgins being special because they've showed restraint is fading away. I think it's largely considered a tad embarrassing to be a virgin, but that doesn't mean that there are a lot out there, and i'm sure a lot of them will say they're proud.