Oh boy.
This is gunna get buried under mountains of other conversations, but I'm going to continue mashing my fingers into some plastic like it isn't. So, members of the Escapist (or lurkers who have run into this thread), let's play a game! No worries, it's not that fun, so you don't have to tell me your score or anything. Now! Onto the game! The rules are: you can't look anything up, you have to remember things you've seen (not all that hard). Of all the controversies surrounding feminism, how many did you see at the source first? For example, a big feminist blogger talking about video games in a way that made everyone angry AFTER you read the blog? Now, how many controversies did you hear about AFTER they blew up and made everyone angry?
If you're in any way like me, most of these things you've seen after people have gone ragetastic all over them. I did not see the initial angry post about Zoe Quinn, nor did I ever see anything she had written about feminism. But I did see mouth-frothing posts about how she completely ruined gaming (isn't gaming getting completely ruined on an hourly basis now?) and how she was getting a boatload of death threats. Hell, I played Depression Quest one when it was a web game, said "yup, this game is depressing, depression sucks," saw it come out on Steam, and completely forgot about it until all of this controversy came about. Hell, I didn't even know about Feminist Frequency until people were sending Anita death threats. Are we seriously worried about people whose only notable actions have been stating their opinions on stuff? I mean, if we want to talk about getting rid of feminists because everyone in gaming is too immature to comprehend other people having thoughts they may not share, let's talk about that. I think the fact that this might be the problem a bigger issue than feminists existing, but whatever.
Let's play another game. Find a blog about women in gaming. Now, replace all instances where it talks about poor representation of women with bad voice acting, or clunky controls, or convoluted level design. Does the blog now say "we should get rid of gaming entirely, because the developers can't seem to include working controls?" if so, quit getting your blogs from tumblr. Does your real (seriously, tumblr is not "all of feminism ever," if you pretend it is, please stop. The WBC is not all of Christianity, either) blog now say something like, "voice acting in gaming could really use some fine-tuning"? If someone disagreed with this article about voice acting, do you think it would be reasonable for the author of it to get hacked, doxxed, have their life and family threatened, or have every gaming site up in arms about it? If no, what is it about women that gets people so crazy? We can criticize gameplay, story, characters, voice acting, music loadouts, level-up sounds, enemy types, controls, menus, I could go on forever, but if we say a thing about diversity, suddenly we're just creating games by committee, and they're all about ponies or something. Like that isn't happening with bland shooters already anyway ('cept these ones are all about the same muscle guy shooting brown-colored enemies through some kind of scope pushed up his nose).
...Can we just go back to arguing about how the latest Call of Duty is ruining gaming with its brown levels and overpriced map packs? I'm still mad about that, honestly.