Is that even a compliment...?

[Kinguendo]

Ah, its okay... I actually think of myself as a bit of a loser, that makes me cool right? XD

Also, welcome to my thread about compliments... I see you have your 1st compliment already, and to think we were talking about this just 10 minutes ago... Weird.

hey, that does make you cool.
weird indeed. ^^
& do i get to feel privileged to be welcomed by the OP himself?

I recommend you don't feel privileged, the OP is a bit of a weird and creepy guy who chats up any girl in sight.....

Ah, its okay... I actually think of myself as a bit of a loser, that makes me cool right? XD

Also, welcome to my thread about compliments... I see you have your 1st compliment already, and to think we were talking about this just 10 minutes ago... Weird.

hey, that does make you cool.
weird indeed. ^^
& do i get to feel privileged to be welcomed by the OP himself?

Well, you are actually the only person that I have welcomed to the thread so yeah... I guess you do. But generally I am a talkative OP, I try to get involved in my own threads as mch as my internet connection and hands allow me to.

I'm sure you're just trying to beat Max in the highest post count in the shortest time......

OH, and the 'compliments' my boyfriend has given me:
'You have nice fat thighs'
Needless to say, his body is still hanging in my wardrobe.

'Your face is fat and cute'

'You're not beautiful but you're fine as you are'

and my favourite

'You're an ugly duckling now, but you'll grow into a beautiful swan' (before our relationship).

Hmm, why am I with him again...

If the guy you're dating makes comments like that, he needs to be sat down for a serious talk. That kinda thing just isn't on. Sure, he may mean well, but there are better ways of saying these things. The word fat should never be used, it should always be "I can't stand stick insects, I prefer my girls a normal size", and "You're not beautiful but you're fine as you are" is pretty bad. If you don't think someone's attractive, you just avoid saying anything, you don't go and say something like that......(Sorry, that turned into a bit of a rant.)

As for me, I was told that I looked like my brother. Not just, "Oh, you can tell you guys are related", no, the idiot actually said "You look like your brother". How the hell could that be a compliment????? (I'm a girl for anyone who doesn't know.)

Heeeeey, what the... Jenny whats that about? Weird, yes but Creepy? Is this because I talked about Tea on one of your threads in one post... just once.

 

[Rusman]

Any guy who gets mistaken for a girl needs to grow a moustache. Although that leads to another odd compliment.

"You remind me of the 70s". Great...

Doesn't work, I have a moustache and a beard .

This was said to me by a friend of a friend who I only really talked to on facebook.

"Oh hi, You really didn't seem like the person to go out" - Thanks for that...

 

[Gerazzi]

"you're cute"
I mean, c'mon.
that's pretty much saying:
"you're androgynous"

 

[Mezzarine]

Right...

 

[Fairee]

*snip*

Heeeeey, what the... Jenny whats that about? Weird, yes but Creepy? Is this because I talked about Tea on one of your threads in one post... just once.

No, it's what's known as a joke. Although you are very strange and it does concern me.

 

[r4ndom]

"I don't care what anyone else says, I think you're ok."

That ALWAYS works on people. Just plant the seed and say no more. It'll fester.

 

[Xan Krieger]

I told a girl she had torpedoes big enough to sink the bismarck as a compliment (I thought it was nice to tell a girl she had a nice chest.). She knocked the glasses clear off my face. I don't really understand why she took it as an insult.

If genuinely don't understand why that is unbelievably rude, then you deserved deserve a smack on purely Darwinian grounds.

I genuinely don't understand. If you know the reason then please explain because I thought I was being nice.

Making comments about a woman's breasts, especially about their size, is generally considered rude, offensive behavior, and this ain't some new-fangled feminist idea. If you'd tried it 100 years ago, you would have been smacked too. The fact that you claim to be unaware of this means that you are either a troll, or that I would have to spend far to much time backfilling the astonishing gaps in your social education. Either way, I would rather sleep and play WoW than attempt to extricate your head.

I told a girl she had torpedoes big enough to sink the bismarck as a compliment (I thought it was nice to tell a girl she had a nice chest.). She knocked the glasses clear off my face. I don't really understand why she took it as an insult.

I take it some women just doesn't like some idiot sleazeball, that they don't know, to comment/compliment on their chest.

How does this surprise you?

I've been told: "Wow. If I was a boy, I'd go gay for you."

I was quite flattered.

There is one question, though: Did the female that proposed you with such a compliment, actually want to date you? "If I was a boy I'd date you, but I am currently a girl, and I find it hard for girl/boy relationships. You know, the social structure, the heterophobia and the anti-hetero campaigns in the urban environments."

Honestly we've known each other for at least four years. I don't know much about social interaction to the point that I admit I'm socially retarded (caused at least in part by me being autistic). I'm trying to get better but there are still some things that lose me.

 

[GeoPB]

I think the most backward compliment is when someone says "oh youre pretty" followed by "in your own way".

Need I say more?

 

[hannarr]

I got told I have sexy collar bones.
That was a "lolwut" moment.

 

[ICantBelieveItGoesBoom]

I once got told that "I'd make a pretty girl". I had no idea how to react, I just made a puzzled face.

 

[Yoshemo]

Someone called me "stupid dipped in awesome sauce" x.x

 

[Neonbob]

...FUCK!
I am tired. That's what I'm blaming the typo on.
When he's sober? He's fine. But when he's not? He wants to play quite hazardous games with the knives while he's inebriated and not well coordinated.
That means it's time to leave the room.

Coward.

If that's what keeping my appendages and torso knife-free is seen as, then I suppose so.
*shrugs*
I can live with that.

 

[Lopunny]

oh goody, a chance to show off ^^ might I remind you i'm a STRAIGHT guy

"you have REALLY shiny fingernails!"
"wow! you have so much leg hair!"
"you're suprisingly buff for a guy into reading"
"awww, you'd be cute if you shaved" (from a gay guy)
"you remind me of Seth Groban"
"you remind me of this wierd chemistry teacher i used to have!"

and my favourite, from an ex of mine

"you're like a cute, fluffy, innocent wee bunny rabbit!"

 

[bodyklok]

"I usually kill people for money, but your my friend, I'll kill you for nothing."

No, no ones tried to kill me, thats just something awesome I heard from a pop up somewhere on the interwub.

 

[Novacain4862]

"Hey you finally shaved!"
"You are so dumb but so smart!" I love the compliment/insult lines.

 

[Soxafloppin]

I girl once told me i had nice shoulders....Yup.

 

[theSovietConnection]

I've had a friend tell me she'd like to have sex with me. She also said she was fantasizing about me all during this party. That was a little odd, til I found out the party was for her boyfriend's birthday.